This is how I run my business as well.  It is nobody's business but mine whether someone is the first man or seventh man I've shagged on any day.  I don't ask my GP about being his first visit of the day either.   

If asked to be the first, I inform them of the time I start taking appointments that day. Of course they can hold until later in the day, but reserving my time is at their expense. Except for times when a client wanted company during that time anyway, I've had no takers.   Keeping the focus on confidentiality is also a gentle reminder that their arrangements with me are also strictly confidential, which benefits both of us, and is appreciated.   

I also don't discuss other clients, even generally.  Discretion is one of the most important aspects of this career, and confidentiality is always included in my rates.  Many of my clients, while not famous, are people who might be known and depend on me.  They know that all details of our arrangements are known to them only, which keeps me in business and regulars returning to me.

Thank you so much. I'm so glad I found this site, so much support. Feel like for the first time in a while that I'm not alone in the endeavour.

I really appreciate this, it gives me another really solid and straightforward way of stopping this situation arising in the future.

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This is how I run my business as well.  It is nobody's business but mine whether someone is the first man or seventh man I've shagged on any day.  I don't ask my GP about being his first visit of the day either.   

If asked to be the first, I inform them of the time I start taking appointments that day. Of course they can hold until later in the day, but reserving my time is at their expense. Except for times when a client wanted company during that time anyway, I've had no takers.   Keeping the focus on confidentiality is also a gentle reminder that their arrangements with me are also strictly confidential, which benefits both of us, and is appreciated.   

I also don't discuss other clients, even generally. Discretion is one of the most important aspects of this career, and confidentiality is always included in my rates.  Many of my clients, while not famous, are people who might be known and depend on me.  They know that all details of our arrangements are known to them only, which keeps me in business and regulars returning to me.

I'm the same as you. I am all about discretion and confidentiality. I won't even accept (public) feedback or reviews as they're the exact opposite of discreet. The I see men like the fact there is not a single hint I see other men. Sure, they know I do, but there's no evidence anywhere online about this, or during the time I spend with them.

I believe my right to privacy is the same as any man I engage with. If he can't respect my right to privacy and that a key part of my business is being discreet and keeping confidences, he can go elsewhere.

I find it really strange that men would dare ask something like this anyway, so prefer to close down the idea before it is raised.

This kind of relates to the have you been busy today? There's really no right answer, I always say, as busy as I want to be..

Or the ever cringe worthy, “How many men have you fucked so far?”

I just say, "Not Enough!"  Accurate and ends the conversation.

When I get asked this incredibly invasive & none of their GD business ??, I ignore it. They assume I’ve not heard, so they’ll ask again, “Am I your 1st client today?” Or the ever cringe worthy, “How many men have you fucked so far?”

I’ll act like I’m thinking 🤔, & then say, “37.”

😮😮😮is their reaction. “Really?” Or, “You’re joking!”

“Ahh,” I say. “You’re correct, that IS wrong. 73.”

They shut up after that.

 

When they ask : Am I your first client today? I just repeat their question back to them but with - Am I your first escort today which then baffles them.

Then the - How many men have you fucked so far - Again throw it back at them - How many escorts have you fucked so far.
This goes on till they get the hint and shut. I  ping pong throwing their question back at them while I don't ever provide them an answer.

When they ask : Am I your first client today? I just repeat their question back to them but with - Am I your first escort today which then baffles them.

Then the - How many men have you fucked so far - Again throw it back at them - How many escorts have you fucked so far.
This goes on till they get the hint and shut. I  ping pong throwing their question back at them while I don't ever provide them an answer.

I like it, Dynamite Doll - I think I'll try out your strategy.

Miranda x

I think most want to be the only one. When I haven't worked in a while I get a lot of  requests to be the first one to see me. They seem to have an image of me all horny and gagging for sex.

When I get asked this invasive , my other go-to answer is: “Ahh. A good magician never reveals her secrets🔮😉😈.”

It’s very effective in shutting them down.