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Re: Client poor behaviour/manners...
« Reply #15 on: 27 August 2020, 10:59:37 pm »
No, the thread about smellies is elsewhere (and I rarely get them either, thank Christ).

For the gum chewers keep a tissue handy and hold it out in front of them as soon as they get through the door, with a huge smile so they can't work out whether you're taking the piss. Absolutely loathe the disgusting stuff and it's coming nowhere near my (carpeted) bedroom.
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« Reply #16 on: 28 August 2020, 04:22:05 pm »
OMFG I'm actually laughing and gagging at the same time regarding the use of a wooly beanie hat as an arse wiping aid.. Jesus wept!
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Re: Client poor behaviour/manners...
« Reply #17 on: 06 December 2020, 09:39:45 pm »
This reminded me of a proper odd one I had. [...]

OMG that is disgusting!  And of course they do it on purpose which is why I always take the money before they are allowed to use my bathroom. Definitely something wrong in the head with these types of guys and hopefully a report made on them to stop others having to be subjected to the same.


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Re: Client poor behaviour/manners...
« Reply #18 on: 08 December 2020, 03:18:18 pm »
Many years ago I had a client come to my incall place and went through my medicine cabinet.  He took all the creams and pills out and lined them up on the bathroom window sill.   I did not see it until after he left and I went to clean up the bathroom.  Very odd people about and one never knows who is coming into your space and what is running through their minds.  ???

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« Reply #19 on: 09 December 2020, 09:13:40 am »
Wet coats & backpacks on velvet furniture is my bugbear at the moment.  I have to remember to steer them towards a coat hook.

It can set the ambience to borderline rage when they do this stupid stuff.  I'm at a loss to understand how they can be so clueless.  Some of them must have been brought up by Wayne & Waynett slob, especially the beanie hat guy.  :o

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Re: Client poor behaviour/manners...
« Reply #20 on: 09 December 2020, 09:34:23 am »
I know i could be here all day listing some terrible poor behaviour and very spiteful behaviour but not enough time to list everything. I am aware that these are strangers that enter our premises and some of them are out to do bad things because they have some annoyance over having to pay or just think we are easy targets for angry men to take there anger out on.

It makes it worse because some punters think we work in the shadows and have no legal help or support so makes it easier for bad behaviour.

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Re: Client poor behaviour/manners...
« Reply #21 on: 10 December 2020, 12:02:09 pm »
I never let clients anywhere apart from the bedroom and bathroom. When I first worked from home they had to walk through the lounge due to the layout and I hated it. Much better where I am now - straight into the hallway and all the other doors are closed.

I once had a young regular take out his chewing gum and stick it to my bed frame. My god I was hopping mad. He never did it again!

Also never leave my own stuff in the bathroom now after one dickhead decided to swirl my makeup brush around the toilet bowl after I refused him an extension to his booking (because he was an arsehole, so goes to show my instinct was correct.)
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Re: Client poor behaviour/manners...
« Reply #22 on: 10 December 2020, 12:08:18 pm »
Since I started this job, I keep my toothbrush in the kitchen even though I don't work from home anymore. You just never know do you.

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Re: Client poor behaviour/manners...
« Reply #23 on: 10 December 2020, 04:40:19 pm »
Do you know, since becoming a sex worker, I just don't keep my toothbrush in the bathroom. When I worked from home I didn't want my toothbrush in bathroom incase any weirdos stuck it up their arses. But even now I do t work from home, I keep tooth stuff in kitchen cabinet.

Same here! Years ago I found what looked like either cum or thick phlegm embedded in my toothbrush bristles. I was physically sick. Absolutely disgusting and do not know why anyone could enjoy doing that to someone else.

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Re: Client poor behaviour/manners...
« Reply #24 on: 10 December 2020, 06:08:15 pm »
Same here! Years ago I found what looked like either cum or thick phlegm embedded in my toothbrush bristles. I was physically sick. Absolutely disgusting and do not know why anyone could enjoy doing that to someone else.

Because some men don't like us,  some are angry men and think it's easy pickings to do something to us or they hate having to pay so revenge. Either way treat it as any client could do something like this if opportunity is there so just take precautions.

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Re: Client poor behaviour/manners...
« Reply #25 on: 12 December 2020, 05:01:37 pm »
I once had a client pee in front of me.

Never had that in my life, they always close the door. This guy was literally looking me in the eyes and continuing our nonsexual convo.

I was mortified. I know it doesn't seem like a big deal when you've been 'intimate' with someone, but come on. Manners are free!

I don't want to see that shit.

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P.S- He wondered why I did not want to date him outside of work!  :FF :FF :FF ;D ;D ;D ::) ::) ::)

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Re: Client poor behaviour/manners...
« Reply #26 on: 12 December 2020, 06:21:52 pm »
Went bathroom after a pond life client...and he had shat in shower,and tried to poke it down plug hole.


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Re: Client poor behaviour/manners...
« Reply #27 on: 12 December 2020, 07:16:57 pm »
Went bathroom after a pond life client...and he had shat in shower,and tried to poke it down plug hole.


God, I don't think it's escorts half of these guys need to see.  :FF ;D

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Re: Client poor behaviour/manners...
« Reply #28 on: 15 December 2020, 12:44:45 am »
I once had a client pee in front of me.

Never had that in my life, they always close the door. This guy was literally looking me in the eyes and continuing our nonsexual convo.

I was mortified. I know it doesn't seem like a big deal when you've been 'intimate' with someone, but come on. Manners are free!

I don't want to see that shit.

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P.S- He wondered why I did not want to date him outside of work!  :FF :FF :FF ;D ;D ;D ::) ::) ::)

This happened to me too!! I knew him quite well at that point, but not THAT well.

I had a client turn up once with something brown and oaty attached to the side of his mouth and all over his teeth and gums, and he got really offended when I gently told him about it. Probably just embarrassed but that's no reason to lash out. He didn't have any facial hair either, I honestly don't know how he didn't feel it... ???

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Re: Client poor behaviour/manners...
« Reply #29 on: 15 December 2020, 01:27:52 am »
This happened to me too!! I knew him quite well at that point, but not THAT well.

I had a client turn up once with something brown and oaty attached to the side of his mouth and all over his teeth and gums, and he got really offended when I gently told him about it. Probably just embarrassed but that's no reason to lash out. He didn't have any facial hair either, I honestly don't know how he didn't feel it... ???

The very same idiots expect the escort to kiss them.  ???