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General Category => Blather and Babble => Topic started by: tigereyes941 on 24 February 2015, 02:19:25 am
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I have orgasmed before but with only a bullet! And once a very random, quite handsome client has made me orgasm with his persistent oral! I can't believe it haha, have any of you ever experienced anything like this? Or anything similar?
Happy girl here.. love to come more easily. Best thing in the world!
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Yes I generally only have a clitoral cum with a vibrator but several clients have managed to get me with oral and these were unassuming blokes who didn't make a big hooha about being really good at it!
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Never managed to orgasm with a client, I just couldn't, it's a mental block, but then I can't / couldn't with a stranger either!
I remember the first time orgasm with oral with a boyfriend tho ;D
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Oh lol congrats!! Its the same mental block situation for me usually with boyfriends/ clients alike..
But there was a time with a rather unattractive older guy and his *persistent oral*, I was totally belwidered as to what actually happened there :)
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Ohh ok! Yeah I've gone past that mental block (which I thought I could never do) and I'm only 21! I've only discovered orgasming about a year ago from now! Since then I've learnt to just focus on that feeling and concentrate a bit on it.
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I have orgasmed before but with only a bullet! And once a very random, quite handsome client has made me orgasm with his persistent oral! I can't believe it haha, have any of you ever experienced anything like this? Or anything similar?
Happy girl here.. love to come more easily. Best thing in the world!
x
Tiger Id only achieved orgasm with powerful vibrator and not by ex boyfriends who tried god bless them, though I also got surprised by climax with a very skilled tongue on a very persistant patient client !
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An organs am is a private thing I reserve for my man alone.
I've never pretended to have oe with a client either.
Iam there to please them .which I do.
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After a while of working I just started to enjoy myself more. Orgasm with about one in three clients, in a number of ways. Funnily I never orgasm when swinging though
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Orgasms are great! I don't understand why you'd deny yourself them - surely they're what make our job more enjoyable?
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An organs am is a private thing I reserve for my man alone.
I've never pretended to have oe with a client either.
Iam there to please them .which I do.
I've found that 98% of my clients WANT to make me come more than they want to come, whether they actually make it happen or not only I will know. But men see escorts because they want to feel adequate in the bedroom, which means satisfying a lady too. Or maybe that's just the clients that I have.
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An organs am is a private thing I reserve for my man alone.
I've never pretended to have oe with a client either.
Iam there to please them .which I do.
I've found that 98% of my clients WANT to make me come more than they want to come, whether they actually make it happen or not only I will know. But men see escorts because they want to feel adequate in the bedroom, which means satisfying a lady too. Or maybe that's just the clients that I have.
Yep they drive me insane, I'd rather just get on with my job, hate these ones
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After a while of working I just started to enjoy myself more. Orgasm with about one in three clients, in a number of ways. Funnily I never orgasm when swinging though
Doesn't sound like there's much point in going swinging, or is it as a work thing?
I don't stop myself from orgasming and if I do I enjoy it but generally don't as most of my clients haven't got a clue. I just can't with the insistent ones though, instant turn off
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An organs am is a private thing I reserve for my man alone.
I've never pretended to have oe with a client either.
Iam there to please them .which I do.
I've found that 98% of my clients WANT to make me come more than they want to come, whether they actually make it happen or not only I will know. But men see escorts because they want to feel adequate in the bedroom, which means satisfying a lady too. Or maybe that's just the clients that I have.
Yep they drive me insane, I'd rather just get on with my job, hate these ones
Same. Doubly so if I take my time to explain that I do not climax easily, and almost never from oral, and they take it as a challenge and get progressively more insistent.
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It's very frustrating when they want me to orgasm and they don't realise for me to do that they have to be
1. My type - ie I find them attractive
2. Extremely patient
3. Able to do what I need to have done to me correctly.
The most awkward situation to date was a client I really did not like - he was kind of agressive (not in an angry way) and really cocky about everything. When he started going down on me he was adamant he'd make me come, so I let him at oral for 15 minutes, his technique in my opinion was terrible and actually really slobbery and offputting, and when I suggested we do something else, after trying to shift to something else for about ten minutes, he declared "You loved that! Why were you holding back? You're weird!" :FF
I do enjoy orgasms with clients I think are lovely and (to my taste) handsome, because they've already got me in the mood.
Tigereyes, I remember the first time I managed an oral orgasm (with a boyfriend a few years ago) and it seriously blew my mind!! So congrats! It kind of opens a door to making them more possible and frequent, I found.
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Never managed to orgasm with a client, I just couldn't, it's a mental block, but then I can't / couldn't with a stranger either!
I remember the first time orgasm with oral with a boyfriend tho ;D
Wow, and I am like a little piglet using them to help me cum as much as I can. I like my very clear skin afterwards....... much better than not having sex at all and covering it with foundation etc
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After a while of working I just started to enjoy myself more. Orgasm with about one in three clients, in a number of ways. Funnily I never orgasm when swinging though
Doesn't sound like there's much point in going swinging, or is it as a work thing?
The point of swinging isn't to have an orgasm. If it were id just save money at home with a vibrator. When I do, I tend to shut down a bit anyway. Much better to have a build up of amazing experiences together and then both orgasm at home together. Maybe cos there's a lot going on, whereas one on one with a client I can focus on just what he is doing, or fantasize a bit. Ive had multiple orgasms with clients, and they're not the usually the most attractive or confident clients. I like them to know that contrary to what they think, they are attentive and good lovers. We each see sex work in our own way and its great to compare and share experiences. I personally treat each booking as sex.. A shared experience between me and the client and try to make I as real and as connected as possible, unless they're awful and I do autopilot then.
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My first orgasm that I didn't give myself was with a client, too. I was 23 and had had plenty of sex in my personal life but no guy ever even got close to making me climax. This guy was one of my very first clients and he wasn't attractive in any way, shape or form but MAN he knew what he was doing down there! Once you have that first one and realize that you can orgasm from something other than a vibrator or your fingers it's like the flood gates are open and you're relaxed enough to orgasm with other guys. Most of my clients put way too much pressure on me for it to feel nice, and I fake orgasms all day long and am quite good at it, but it's great to know that if I get a client with a soft/light touch I can lay back and enjoy myself :-) Orgasms are certainly a perk of the job!
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I think the reason many of us orgasm with the uglies is there's just no pressure or feeling self conscious in any way