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workingmum

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Client Freaking out
« on: 27 April 2019, 05:24:15 pm »
So I have never had this happen before but I met a client for the first time this morning, he was clearly very nervous, shaking like a leaf, we had a chat and a drink which seemed to calm him down. I then initiated kissing and slowly undressed him. When I began touching his cock he freaked and said he can't do this and accused me of touching him inappropriately, he then dressed and left. It's left me shaken and also worried how I miss read things

saltysweet

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Re: Client Freaking out
« Reply #1 on: 27 April 2019, 05:36:56 pm »
Sorry this  happened to you, bad vibes is upsetting.
Game-playing clients have all kinds of freaky agendas which we'll probably never understand.
The accusation's interesting, and quite barmy. Probably that scenario gets him off.

Hope I don't sound prudish, as you might have had a creamy hot chocolate :). Just putting it out there, generally I wouldn't give an edgy client alcohol if that was the case as they're already unpredicable and unstable.

I hope he didn't try that hairy old chestnut 'refund routine'.
Did you keep your money?
« Last Edit: 27 April 2019, 05:56:03 pm by saltysweet »

workingmum

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Re: Client Freaking out
« Reply #2 on: 27 April 2019, 05:42:47 pm »
Yes, I have my fee. He never even attempted to ask for it back.

saltysweet

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Re: Client Freaking out
« Reply #3 on: 27 April 2019, 05:43:29 pm »
Champion! You're quids in! ;D ;D ;D

We do look back and see the flags after the event don't we. Only natural. I mean who'd expect that sexual assault dribble? ???
...and would it stand up in court! ;D
« Last Edit: 27 April 2019, 06:37:10 pm by saltysweet »

Lucie268

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Re: Client Freaking out
« Reply #4 on: 27 April 2019, 05:54:46 pm »
Glad to hear no fuss was made about keeping your fee. I wouldn't take any of it personally, just collect yourself and move on. I've had nervous clients too, some just bottle it. It's definitely weird that he accused you of inappropriate touching  ??? but maybe he just panicked.

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Re: Client Freaking out
« Reply #5 on: 27 April 2019, 05:59:57 pm »
WM ~
I may've written about this previously (I'm old, lol), but I had 1 flip out a cpl months ago😡. He literally got 2 steps in the door & says, "uh, I'm not comfortable, I'm going to leave."

WTF? Oh no you're not, I need this booking, I'm thinking. Long story short I talk him down off the roof jumping haha, come to find out he thinks I'm a damn cop bc I'm in a pencil skirt, heels 👠, & had condoms out🤷🏼‍♀️🙄🤦🏼‍♀️.

So let me get this straight, I say to him. Bc I'm dressed well & practice safe sex, you think I'm undercover?

"Uhhhh." *cue stupid look, he starts to leave*.

I call out: "You found me thru XYZ board, didn't you? You know, X, who owns that board, has been known to ban ppl from it for doing exactly what you're doing now. And she WILL find out about it bc I'm going to tell her. YOU contacted ME thru that board that I'm a legitimate member of. YOU went to my website. The police don't waste their time creating details like that. Stop being so silly."

It was the threat that stopped him in his tracks ~ literally ~ & we were finally able to proceed *eyeroll*. Then he has the gall to ask for a thumbs up or ok or whatever on that site so other girls will know it's ok to see him.

Not on your life bud, I'm thinking.

I mean, it's not like I was going thru the fucking phone book calling random #s😡.

An American on a British site, still learning the slang😉

katrina

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Re: Client Freaking out
« Reply #6 on: 27 April 2019, 08:22:09 pm »
So I have never had this happen before but I met a client for the first time this morning, he was clearly very nervous, shaking like a leaf, we had a chat and a drink which seemed to calm him down. I then initiated kissing and slowly undressed him. When I began touching his cock he freaked and said he can't do this and accused me of touching him inappropriately, he then dressed and left. It's left me shaken and also worried how I miss read things

It sounds like this was his fantasy, to make you feel awkward/bad and the fact he never attempted to ask for money back confirms this to me. He probably went home and had a wank about the whole thing  ::)

Ellie B

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Re: Client Freaking out
« Reply #7 on: 28 April 2019, 12:54:19 am »
Probably just really nervous and may have been his first time.
I try to "read" the client on a first meet and if they are very nervous, will try to encourage them to take the lead. Some guys can freak out just because it is not a normal comfortable situation for them, whereas we have the upper hand because it is a normal situation for us, meeting complete strangers and getting "intimate" to put it politely!!

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Re: Client Freaking out
« Reply #8 on: 28 April 2019, 08:03:51 am »
Some new punters can be incredibly jumpy, afraid, nervous and it is difficult to handle especially if accusations are thrown.

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Re: Client Freaking out
« Reply #9 on: 28 April 2019, 08:49:45 am »
I wouldn't let it worry you to much.
I've experienced something similar years back.
The guy was married and didn't go through with it, sounds like you've had all of your money, I ended up giving him 20 pounds back.
You might get a text message, of him being nasty, then he will probably calm down and might see you in the future, as that's what happened to me.
Would be interesting, to know his age, but you don't have to let us know if you don't want to.
The reason for this, is it might be his first time ever, or first time he has been away from his wife.

VoluptuousCurves

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Re: Client Freaking out
« Reply #10 on: 28 April 2019, 10:24:25 am »
Some new punters can be incredibly jumpy, afraid, nervous and it is difficult to handle especially if accusations are thrown.
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I totally agree.

Have had a few clients done a runner on their first visit!

They come across very different than the "look and walk" guys.
And me, I am not a mess, I am a wilderness, yes
The undiscovered continent for you to undress

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Re: Client Freaking out
« Reply #11 on: 28 April 2019, 10:25:50 am »
I try always to find out if they are first timer...too young etc
i make sure with them if there is a risk if they go ahead with the booking. usually i do not first timer specially young for these reasons.
yes, maybe i m loosing booking but i do not loose my mind as well! sometimes they are a pain! change mind...stressed, nervous (they do not cum then for it)... just not taken 2 first timer this week, one 22y and one 24y...my little brother`s age LOL

go forward, you taken your fees which is more important! :D