So ... I had a client for domination the other week. Booking was great, he did everything a sub is supposed to do then when he left he text me so how gorgeous and stunning I am etc and every word goes over my head because it's typically what they say anyway. He then asks me out for a drink and I say I don't do this, but I was tempted because I thought I could get on with him. He's 10 years younger, so that was a bit off putting but he's confident for his age.

So I say let me think about it and maybe I would text him in a couple of days. He didn't respond and when I did text him 3 days later he didn't respond to that either. I thought okay, fair enough, obviously changed his mind.

Then this week he calls me to ask me out again. I said didn't you get my text I sent last week? He says no. But he still wants to see me. We arrange to meet up. He says he can't wait. Then on the day we were supposed to meet he says could we meet later as he finished work late and has only just got up. I say okay, bit miffed as I could have done other things with my day but whatever. Again he says can't wait to see you. I then go to the place we were meeting and he stands me up. His phone went straight to voicemail like he's blocked me.

Why do they do this? Why? Why go to so much effort to get me to agree to meet him and then do this? No text, no apology, he obviously had it all planned that this is exactly what he was going to do.

Ladies, this is timewasting in it's extreme form! 

Power and game playing in my opinion.  Getting his own back for being your sub (weird yes but I can't think of another reason).

I agree with Justine. I would be open to dating a client (have done it casually once) but never a sub. Can't be arsed with their neediness.

One rule I stick by.... never let a good-paying client turn into a good for nothing boyfriend 

One rule I stick by.... never let a good-paying client turn into a good for nothing boyfriend 

Brilliant advice haha 

Nothing new or original, It happens in civvy life too I got stood up plenty! We just create different names for it every few years.Its just the dick talking...being sub switch dom vanilla isnt relevant just don't take anything they say seriously. Dont bother listening. I agree crossing the lines is not a great idea and can.loose a good client.

'I could imagine he has done worse then this to others. He is someone disturbed and very sad.
He is a sad man indeed though going to these lengths.'

I could understand it more if he was older and had had time to be humiliated by loads of different women, but he's only in his early 20's so what must go on in his head to have this warped and twisted thinking?

I really do think now that if he doesn't change he will only get worse.

If I never text him though he wouldn't have any proof that I did indeed go and then all his efforts would have been wasted. Like you say he is very sad to go to all this effort. He needs serious help!

It's tempting to say yes to a drink with some clients being ultra nice but each one never bothered getting in touch to arrange with me over the years so I just say i don't have time  now.
Many say all kinds of things but never materialise

I know Sugar I get this all the time too, but this one was just so bloody persistant that's what made him unique.