Quote from: amy on 07 January 2016, 10:55:26 am

I think that's a pretty loaded way of putting it - there's a big difference between 'enjoying yourself' (or even enjoying sex) and getting actual physical or sexual gratification from it. As far as I'm concerned the latter isn't going to happen just because Joe Punter and his penis have had a bath and turned up on time, but that doesn't mean I won't thoroughly enjoy their company for an hour or whatever.

I don't think most punters are dumb enough to think that we're all reduced to a damp knickered mess at the thought of a shag, at least not in my experience. That doesn't mean they want to have sex with somebody who's hating every second because that isn't the same thing either and to be honest, even if their chosen prossie is hating every second (even if it's just because she's got a headache or is hungry or needs a poo) then provided their paid experience isn't affected by it that - along with whatever else is going on inside her head - is none of their business. Handing over cash doesn't give anybody the right to control what we think or how we feel.

But some of them sure do think it does! How about the guys who almost demand that you enjoy yourself or spend ages trying to give an orgasm?

That really pisses me off the guys who come in a booking trying to make you orgasm in the first 10 minutes "are you close yet" it gets on my nerves that eventually I'll be like "let me suck your cock" or I'll move and initiate sex because I'm sensitive and too much finger bashing especially when some of these guys have massive fingers and two of their fingers is three of mine, I can get sore real quick. I wish some of them would educate themselves or atleast lose the ego so we could actually tell them how to do it!

I agree Kendra. I have contemplated not allowing it but I do enjoy it when it's done right and I'm not being scratched lol!
I'm quite tight aswell so when clients try and shove three fingers up its actually painful. One client did that a few weeks ago, he was 67 and enjoyed fingering, all was fine until he thought it was okay to try and stick four fingers in me, I have never jerked up so quick, eventually at the end of the booking I went to the loo had a wee wiped and there was blood not even little blotched but a big blotch I couldn't believe it, the next two days I had to cancel bookings. I didn't even bother telling him just blocked his number but as I use an android for my work phone I can still see his texts he sent me loads over the Christmas Period eventually told him what he had done and how much it hurt and that I had to cancel bookings, he was sorry and didn't even realise what he's done even offered to transfer the cost of the two bookings I lost and offered to buy my favourite perfume, no thanks!

I make it very clear on my profile I'm tight and be gentle but this guy chose not to listen. He still tries texting me now with his "Baby I'm sorry, please" LOL. It baffles me how these men can be so rough with us sometimes, had I bit on his cock or handled it rough he would've had something to say guaranteed. This client was delusional himself really believed I fancied him and that he could buy me off with money and perfume in order to get another booking!

I'm getting lots of clients ask me if I enjoy my job. They must be picking up on my off mood lol I just say yes but sometimes I get people I don't get on with etc etc. One looked shocked when I said I wasn't a nympho & didn't go swinging, he was deluded! Another regular said something along the lines of "you get to try out how good men are & get paid for the privilege" in a churlish way, he then back tracked. Yeah right buddy didn't have an orgasm that time did I. Had one guy say he wouldn't want to be with someone who wasn't happy doing the job when I looked serious about something.

I don't understand how some aren't picking up on my negative body language etc & keep coming back..so leads me to believe some are deluded.

I spend alot of time thinking about the end goals I'm trying to achieve to get through when I'm not enjoying the sex or their company.

Not having a go at you, certainly not meaning to. I just find it a little hard to read sometimes when I see people saying things like that meaning all their clients in general rather than just the bad ones.

Yes I can fully admit that when I have a horrible client, I can't wait until he leaves either but that's as far as it goes.

I absolutely agree with you. I think a lot of us do post on here more about the negative experiences rather than the positive. I have lots and lots of positive bookings and I agree if these men didn't book is we wouldn't be making the money we are so I am grateful. I don't think I am better or any worse than them and treat them just like anyone else because at the end of the day they are normal people paying for a service just like someone pays for a service off a hairdresser.

I also agree Jessica your posts are very negative and make me think that you really don't enjoy this job and don't enjoy the men who book you either, it makes me wonder why you do this. I don't particularly see it as a privilege for the men to be sleeping with me however I am grateful that they booked me over all the girls on the area on that day I find it flattering. Yes there are plenty of cunts in this business who can really make you not enjoy the job sometimes but there are also some lovely normal guys who understand it's a business transaction and know it will never be more than that.

As I've said before I personally could never do a job I didn't enjoy it would depress me, but clearly some girls can do that.