What I find fascinating about the men I have met is that they have all said things which demonstrate that they truly believe I love what this type of work.

One example is the other night I met a guy who was really nervous that he wouldn't meet my expectations and would disappoint me sexually/not fulfil me.

Another asked me why I did this work. As I started saying I needed a little extra money, he butted in and said: 'yeah and you miss sex etc etc...win win isn't it!'

Do they really think I like it?

What I really enjoy is the feeling I have walking away with a wad after surviving the reality of meeting a complete stranger and getting intimate with him....not the actual act. I don't do it because I am sex starved or want sex with these people.

Interested what you think...

Quote from: Shewolf on 06 January 2016, 08:37:04 pm

What I find fascinating about the men I have met is that they have all said things which demonstrate that they truly believe I love what this type of work.

One example is the other night I met a guy who was really nervous that he wouldn't meet my expectations and would disappoint me sexually/not fulfil me.

Another asked me why I did this work. As I started saying I needed a little extra money, he butted in and said: 'yeah and you miss sex etc etc...win win isn't it!'

Do they really think I like it?

What I really enjoy is the feeling I have walking away with a wad after surviving the reality of meeting a complete stranger and getting intimate with him....not the actual act. I don't do it because I am sex starved or want sex with these people.

Interested what you think...

A lot think we enjoy sex. Some may do but I for one do not. Men in general think that anything that goes in and out of us feels good. They think we feel what they feel. But it is not true. I hate sex with my clients.

I think it demonstrates that they don't understand the difference between women and men. For example, for women, enjoyment of sex is a lot psychological/emotional is it not? It is for me. I find it fascinating if they say they have amazing orgasms, I wonder how they have managed to do that. I can't get over it. I think it is scarey how different men are to women in relation to sex. Scarey that their emotions are so divorced from the act.

I don't think they are necessarily deluded, to many it's part of their fantasy, but I have come across men who do think that all women are 'available' and up for sex. I don't know if women also think that about men, I'm sure many do.

Yeah they are delusional, I had one client suggest I work in order to find men. He was surprised that I was attractive and said 'it's not like you couldn't find guys'... like he thought I sell sex for the sake of sex? Weird.

Some people have a 'I can't get enough' work persona, of course, and anyone who has done swinging knows that some women are very into anonymous sex.

Anyone offering GFE is selling an illusion to some extent, so why be surprised that some people fall for it?

I guess you're right. I guess if the men do say such stuff, it shows that I am doing the job properly

Just speaking for myself, I don't find it all bizarre that a client would expect a prostitute to enjoy sex - it's hardly a line of work someone who didn't would take up, surely? You might not enjoy sex with them, or indeed every client, but I don't think it's delusional to think that we might have higher than normal sex drives. I do. If I was a vegetarian, I wouldn't go and work in a butcher's!

Just speaking for myself, I don't find it all bizarre that a client would expect a prostitute to enjoy sex - it's hardly a line of work someone who didn't would take up, surely? You might not enjoy sex with them, or indeed every client, but I don't think it's delusional to think that we might have higher than normal sex drives. I do. If I was a vegetarian, I wouldn't go and work in a butcher's!

It would be a lie if I said I enjoy every single client who comes through my door (or me his) Some guys are more enjoyable than others due to a certain 'chemistry', but I very rarely have 'bad' clients.  I've enjoyed all sorts of sexual contact from a young age and often been slated for it by other people (Ex boyfriends) and women (mostly family)  My high sex drive hasn't lessened as I've got older, I just know what I like more now (although that changes over time)

If I hated sex I wouldn't be able to do it for any amount of money.

A lot of people (both clients and people in general) think it's black and white - either you do this job because you just love having sex with strangers and you're so horny all the time, or you hate it and are being irreversibly damaged by it. They don't realise there's a huge grey area, which I think most of us are in. I enjoy my job - I enjoy providing a service and seeing the client go away happy. I don't love it or hate it, I just like it and that's fine.