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Petlover29

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One of my clients I seen a few times booked me for a 6pm.  at 5:20pm  he text me to say he arrived. I was busy with another client and only seen the text at 5:45  when I had finish with my previous client

He sent me a text at 530 to say he was cancelling moaning he can’t wait any longer. I thought how rude you can’t expect book 6pm and expect to see me 40 mins early.

I told him that’s fine and explained to him  I do have other clients. I explained to  him you can’t expect to come to see me at  time you feel and expect me to be Available. I explained to him I do work of schedule.. which he knows already. Anyway he couldn’t wait until his agreed booking time so left.

Considering I have seen him a few times I’m shocked with the expectations… he wouldn’t Moan if the dentist or barbers couldn’t see him 40 mins early. Yet he Expects to rack up to see me whenever he feels and sulks when Im not immediately ready for him on time he hadnt booked

I’m always ready 5 mins before booking times start and he knows this. I’m Baffled to how he thought I would be ok to see him 40mins earlier  when he knew he booked for 6pm

Does anyone else find it frustrating dealing with ones who expect this type of situation.. I was so annoyed over it as I thought you booked for 6pm not 5:20pm..
« Last Edit: 06 June 2022, 01:28:14 pm by Petlover29 »

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You're right. I think you did far more than expected by explaining so politely.
I've had them turn up early once in a blue moon.. I tell them to wait but their attitude is so pushy I change my mind and tell them to get lost. Block and blacklist. That's my policy since.

This is why when a client is late I turn the phone off, I don't warn them. I let them work it out. A booking is not flexible without consultation. Once they mess you round with timings their conduct gets worse, not better.
« Last Edit: 06 June 2022, 02:04:22 pm by saltysweet »

Jadine

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Disrepectful how his come across with you
I wouldn't even see someone like that again no matter how skint  i could be , if his attitudes like it is like he thinks he is so special you should not see anyone before him  let him take his shit elsewhere .

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This is unreasonable on the client's behalf, the agreement is 6pm you set aside that time and doesn't matter what you are doing.

Sure if it suits to pull forward fair enough, he has however effectively cancelled at the last minute and in effect put the blame on you. I would find it difficult to accept another booking, and would tell him this.

English Green

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The simple reason for this is they do not look at us as work or a business like they would a dentist or hairdresser appointment. It sucks but some men think they have the right to expect things how they want it because it's sex we are offering.

If it was me i would tell him he does not respect the job or timekeeping so best we not see each other again because getting angry because he turned up way early is a liberty taker.

Jessiegirl

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What a total piss taker. Tell him you will charge him a cancellation fee for the last minute cancellation.

If he doesn't pay then he's blocked.

Femme fatale

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Petlover what a stupid inconsiderate man. I'd not blame you for not bothering booking him again .

Hannaah

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I've only ever had one guy do this. If I remember correctly he turned up 45 minutes early. I could have seen him but I refused because of the entitlement/disrespect and told him he booked for x time, therefore his appointment is at x time and hanging around for 45 minutes is not at all discreet so consider his booking canceled and in future turn up at the agreed time with any other ladies he books. It's extremely rare for me not to be doing something between clients, whether work or personal, and I won't be rushed because they can't tell the time! Nor will I just sack off the little free time I do get for the same reason.

I have a semi reg who has asked a few times if we can move the booking earlier and if I can accommodate I have no problem doing so, but that's because he asks in plenty of time and doesn't expect it. If I am unable to bring it forward, he doesn't cancel but comes at the arranged time.

MissElvira

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I hate this and you dodged a bullet not having to do a booking with him, I imagine he'd be self entitled selfish idiot in a booking. I haven't had a guy cancel or be rude because he needs to wait but I've had regulars turn up 5 minutes early which annoys me because I don't get them out 5 minutes early. That's why I like new clients not knowing my flat number until 5 minutes before the time and i know it only takes 3 minutes to walk to my flat from the carpark unless they get lost but I sent very detailed instructions 15 minutes before booking time just not my flat number.

Ana66

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Wow Petlover, this client you had is incredibly rude!! It's even more strange that he behaves like this when he saw you a few times already, that doesn't make any sense. You better not seeing him again for sure !!
I personally never let clients come in earlier in case they arrive before the agreed time. Even if I'm free and ready, I always feel they will try to take the piss and consider that they can get extra time for free.

As EnglishGreen said, clients don't value our time and schedules as much as a "normal" business such as dentist or hairdresser because it's sex and in mens' mind sex is something unformal that you do for fun. It's the same for people who don't show up without any prior notice, in their mind it's "just" sex and it's not "that" important if you don't show up.

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God, if somebody arrived at 5.20 for a 5.30pm booking I'd be reconsidering whether to see them, let alone 6pm. At least he didn't start hammering on the doorbell.

My template directions text includes 'please be punctual', but I suspect a lot don't know that this means 'not early' just as much as 'not late'. If they call stupidly early now I just don't answer (and the ones who text a running commentary of their approach drive me mad, although not as much as the ones who turn up early and text 'I just thought I'd let you know I'm here!' or 'let me know when you're ready', because obviously knowing some twat is pacing up and down my lovely quiet street looking at his watch makes me feel so much more relaxed and comfortable ::).

I did once have one strop off after turning up twenty minutes early and at the wrong point in the street (somewhere he'd wrongly decided I must be, I think) and got pissy when I wouldn't give him the address until I was ready. To this day he doesn't know where my flat is and I'm very happy about that :).

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I had one disappear before his thirty minute appointment after arriving 20 minutes early, maybe he was annoyed I wouldn't see him early!

Petlover29

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I had one disappear before his thirty minute appointment after arriving 20 minutes early, maybe he was annoyed I wouldn't see him early!

i think some are delusional.. They must think we sit around all day twiddling our  thumbs,  Dressed up to the nines just waiting for them .. some obviously don’t get it.. they think they can pop by whenever its convenient for them.. expect us be available and ready to go..

 

« Last Edit: 12 June 2022, 10:12:42 pm by Petlover29 »

Milf-G

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Many seem to think they're the only one booking us and we have no other clients to see ever. I had one change the arrival time twice then arrive 25 minutes early. He got so aggressive when I said I wasn't ready because we'd agreed xx time that I then refused to see him.

Sometimes I'll see them if they arrive early, I'm ready, and have had sufficient break in between clients, sometimes I won't just because of the entitledness of it. If they're late I generally refuse to see them, tell them I thought they were a no show because they didn't let me know they were running late and I booked someone else in instead (most of the time that's a lie but I'm not having them think they can turn up when they want)

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If they message super early to say they have arrived, I wait to reply until 10 minutes before the booking time.