One of my clients I seen a few times booked me for a 6pm.  at 5:20pm  he text me to say he arrived. I was busy with another client and only seen the text at 5:45  when I had finish with my previous client

He sent me a text at 530 to say he was cancelling moaning he can’t wait any longer. I thought how rude you can’t expect book 6pm and expect to see me 40 mins early.

I told him that’s fine and explained to him  I do have other clients. I explained to  him you can’t expect to come to see me at  time you feel and expect me to be Available. I explained to him I do work of schedule.. which he knows already. Anyway he couldn’t wait until his agreed booking time so left.

Considering I have seen him a few times I’m shocked with the expectations… he wouldn’t Moan if the dentist or barbers couldn’t see him 40 mins early. Yet he Expects to rack up to see me whenever he feels and sulks when Im not immediately ready for him on time he hadnt booked

I’m always ready 5 mins before booking times start and he knows this. I’m Baffled to how he thought I would be ok to see him 40mins earlier  when he knew he booked for 6pm

Does anyone else find it frustrating dealing with ones who expect this type of situation.. I was so annoyed over it as I thought you booked for 6pm not 5:20pm..

Disrepectful how his come across with you
I wouldn't even see someone like that again no matter how skint  i could be , if his attitudes like it is like he thinks he is so special you should not see anyone before him  let him take his shit elsewhere .

The simple reason for this is they do not look at us as work or a business like they would a dentist or hairdresser appointment. It sucks but some men think they have the right to expect things how they want it because it's sex we are offering.

If it was me i would tell him he does not respect the job or timekeeping so best we not see each other again because getting angry because he turned up way early is a liberty taker.

Petlover what a stupid inconsiderate man. I'd not blame you for not bothering booking him again .

I hate this and you dodged a bullet not having to do a booking with him, I imagine he'd be self entitled selfish idiot in a booking. I haven't had a guy cancel or be rude because he needs to wait but I've had regulars turn up 5 minutes early which annoys me because I don't get them out 5 minutes early. That's why I like new clients not knowing my flat number until 5 minutes before the time and i know it only takes 3 minutes to walk to my flat from the carpark unless they get lost but I sent very detailed instructions 15 minutes before booking time just not my flat number.

God, if somebody arrived at 5.20 for a 5.30pm booking I'd be reconsidering whether to see them, let alone 6pm. At least he didn't start hammering on the doorbell.

My template directions text includes 'please be punctual', but I suspect a lot don't know that this means 'not early' just as much as 'not late'. If they call stupidly early now I just don't answer (and the ones who text a running commentary of their approach drive me mad, although not as much as the ones who turn up early and text 'I just thought I'd let you know I'm here!' or 'let me know when you're ready', because obviously knowing some twat is pacing up and down my lovely quiet street looking at his watch makes me feel so much more relaxed and comfortable .

I did once have one strop off after turning up twenty minutes early and at the wrong point in the street (somewhere he'd wrongly decided I must be, I think) and got pissy when I wouldn't give him the address until I was ready. To this day he doesn't know where my flat is and I'm very happy about that .

I had one disappear before his thirty minute appointment after arriving 20 minutes early, maybe he was annoyed I wouldn't see him early!

i think some are delusional.. They must think we sit around all day twiddling our  thumbs,  Dressed up to the nines just waiting for them .. some obviously don’t get it.. they think they can pop by whenever its convenient for them.. expect us be available and ready to go..

 

If they message super early to say they have arrived, I wait to reply until 10 minutes before the booking time.