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Client asking for recomendations on other girls.
« on: 09 September 2018, 09:35:15 pm »
Hi guys,

Just had a client i saw last week and our time together wasn't great as he wanted to have sex for 3 hours straight (no exaggeration) and I just couldn't fake it any longer..hahah. He has just asked me if i know any other girls i can recommend that he go to see (we only met the once)

Do I reply to him? I'm not sure if i found it rude and as though he was making it obvious he didn't want to see me again. He also found me through AW so I'm sure he could use the search feature?

Urgh

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Re: Client asking for recomendations on other girls.
« Reply #1 on: 09 September 2018, 09:59:49 pm »
I have no issue recommend another female if it is a working girl I know and we worked together.

To recommend another escort who I have never met is a big no. He should do the research him self and stop being a lazy git your not his Secretary.

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Re: Client asking for recomendations on other girls.
« Reply #2 on: 09 September 2018, 10:06:20 pm »
I've also only been asked for recommendations in similar situations or by men who want an appointment 'now' and I'm not available, almost as if they're petulantly saying "well if you won't give me what I want when I want, you can tell me someone who will and they'll get the money instead" and so I'll ask them what kind of lady they'd like to see and tell them they work the exact same way that I do (won't jump through hoops for a pain in the backside, require a decent amount of notice, don't want to be mauled for the entirety of the booking, stick to their boundaries etc).

Is that equally as snooty and aloof? Absolutely, but their reaction is worth it every time.

If there is genuinely an escort I know who is better suited I'd absolutely recommend them straight off the bat but I wouldn't give a nuisance client to a friend.

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Re: Client asking for recomendations on other girls.
« Reply #3 on: 10 September 2018, 05:23:01 am »
I do have a friend who I recommend when I'm in a certain area, and it's simply a question of our hours not matching (I work early mornings and afternoons, she works evenings and nights.) I never send her number though, we just send potential clients each others url, so they need to do the work in contacting us.

I think we've both had one booking total off it :D We are physically quite different though.
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Re: Client asking for recomendations on other girls.
« Reply #4 on: 10 September 2018, 07:32:58 am »
I find this difficult because when I've recommended in the past the woman I've recommended has turned out to be not who she says she is (using fake details), or in one instance didn't get on with the client. I find it's too high risk and very individual also one person didn't want me to pass on her number(which was in the public domain), she wanted punters to visit her website first which is fair enough. What I will do is confirm those I know are genuine because I've had previous contact or met them. Then it's up to him to make further inquiries.

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Re: Client asking for recomendations on other girls.
« Reply #5 on: 10 September 2018, 09:42:58 am »
I tell them to go back to where they found me. I'm not an agency service or their PA. If they really want me to find them an escort then I will require a finders fee. Amazing how quickly they remember how to use the internet again.

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Re: Client asking for recomendations on other girls.
« Reply #6 on: 10 September 2018, 12:17:18 pm »
I think it's a bit rude! Either that or laziness.

For example, I wouldn't go for a massage and then ask the masseuse to recommend me someone else when they've finished..

He sounds like he was trying to dig at you.

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Re: Client asking for recomendations on other girls.
« Reply #7 on: 10 September 2018, 01:04:46 pm »
Also Never recommend a dick head of a client to my fellow working girl friend. x

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Re: Client asking for recomendations on other girls.
« Reply #8 on: 10 September 2018, 02:51:20 pm »
I do recommend if i know well him before! i have some girls friend which i am working together sometimes...we exchange punters! it is win win for both! blonde, brunette, slim ... i give even options! However i must to be sure about him before! usually i do for old regulars!

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Re: Client asking for recomendations on other girls.
« Reply #9 on: 10 September 2018, 03:23:15 pm »
I think it is rude and lazy.Abit like ringing up Npower and asking if they can give the number for British Gas.The only time I passed on another ladies details and that was their website or AW profile not their number, (I had permission)was if the client was thinking of booking a duo with me and said lady friend beyond that I am not an agency madam and collecting a finders fee and so did not feel the need to recommend other ladies.They were told either no or to go back and look for someone else themselves.
I have had guys ring my phone before asking if my duo friend was around as they weren't answering their phone or can I give them her number as it isn't displayed online they got a gob full and told never to ring me unless it was for a booking with me or a booking for both of us.I also had several guys ask me to recommend a massage parlour,they were like 'oh yeah' when I pointed out that a)I'm Independent. B)How likely would I be able to recommend one given that I am unlikely to have ever been in one as a punter?
These clients were already on shaky ground as being tolerable but not preferred and sort of proved they were idiots when they asked things like this.
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Re: Client asking for recomendations on other girls.
« Reply #10 on: 10 September 2018, 09:55:11 pm »
If it is a genuine enquiry and they ask because I cannot see them, or I do not offer something specific, then I have no issues recommending others who I know will.

However, I cannot help but think that he is maybe asking as a bit of a "dig" or being passive aggressive because he is annoyed about your meet not going how he wanted it to. So in his case, I'd probably ignore.

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Re: Client asking for recomendations on other girls.
« Reply #11 on: 11 September 2018, 02:08:21 pm »
When I used to work with other ladies in my brothel days I used to have ‘friends’ in the group who I would be more comfy working with ( if the client wanted a threesome etc) and if it was a long booking as such ( I used to lack patience after a while) i would have no qualms about suggesting one of my close work pals to take my place if I wanted out of the room.

However since being independent I’m quite clear in my ads about working alone and for myself so I don’t have friends to recommend so to speak. The ladies I used to work with still work in the brothel type establishments.

I did have a client sometime back who was into dirty talking and to get rid of him (lol) I went along with it so we started talking about threesomes. I told him of some of my kinky experiences only for him to try and get me to set one up for him.
I said as he was getting ready I was no longer in touch with the ladies anymore and preferred to work one to one and my threesome days were behind me.
Also the lady I had spoken of was no longer working.

He kept calling for days not taking no for a bloody answer trying to ‘persuade’ me to set up a 3some with my apparently retired friend. What a cheek!

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Re: Client asking for recomendations on other girls.
« Reply #12 on: 12 September 2018, 01:56:02 pm »
It depends why he's asking. If I'm not his cup of tea, that's fine, but I'll just refer him back to where he found my ad and ask him to read the profiles properly. If he's being an arrogant fool who just wants me to drop everything to see him, I will recommend that he goes to a massage parlour. I wouldn't personally like to be recommended to an arsehole.

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Re: Client asking for recomendations on other girls.
« Reply #13 on: 29 October 2018, 04:19:15 am »
I travel a lot. If a client is interested in making an appt with another girl while Im not around, Im happy to recommend other reputable providers.

However, for an asshole client, I would never.

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Re: Client asking for recomendations on other girls.
« Reply #14 on: 29 October 2018, 11:56:25 am »
No I do not do recommendations as I could not guarantee it would work out between them and prefer not to have any kind of come back if he or she was not happy.

I have in the past recommended one or two and the clients shook their heads and said the sps were not their type so I gave up. Let them go back to the drawing board and find their own ladies!