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Title: Cervical screening
Post by: ellie22 on 28 July 2015, 05:57:00 pm

Hi girls i had a cervical screening done today and she was so rough, she said my pelvic floor muscles were tight( and i relaxed as much as possible, but i have had 2 years off from escorting). I was hoping to start back at work this week, sorted ads etc, and now this. Have any of you girls had the same problem, and how long before you started work again? or is it a case of " how longs a piece of string"

Title: Re: Cervical screening
Post by: Lady_Lust_XXX on 30 July 2015, 09:09:53 am

I am not sure what you think the problem is but I'll hazard a guess.

If it's tightness down below then it's an advantage as this is what guys like. So you are on to a winner.  If you are worried about what size you will be able to take then test yourself with a dildo or vibrator. 

I was told I was tight at a smear years ago (I nearly fell off the bed laughing when they told me this) and I was an active prossie at the time so their version of tight might be different from ours.

Title: Re: Cervical screening
Post by: sugarkane on 30 July 2015, 06:35:52 pm

Don't worry hun! I get told I'm tight on a daily basis- it can only be a good thing 

Title: Re: Cervical screening
Post by: Fabulassie on 30 July 2015, 10:23:46 pm

If the cervical screening felt "rough" and it was uncomfortable, it may mean that you have an overly-tight vagina. Some women have a muscle that is too tense and it can actually make intercourse uncomfortable. Sometimes it is so severe it has to be be surgically corrected.

Title: Re: Cervical screening
Post by: ellie22 on 30 July 2015, 11:51:02 pm

I had a large client today which is typical, and i could only get about 3 inch in but he did have a wide girth as well i felt stupid, we tried different positions but to no avail, so i just had to do oral and hand relief, hope things improve or i'll have to advertise for little willys only.I can't think what's causing it.

Title: Re: Cervical screening
Post by: Fabulassie on 31 July 2015, 12:09:27 am

Quote from: ellie22 on 30 July 2015, 11:51:02 pm

I had a large client today which is typical, and i could only get about 3 inch in but he did have a wide girth as well i felt stupid, we tried different positions but to no avail, so i just had to do oral and hand relief, hope things improve or i'll have to advertise for little willys only.I can't think what's causing it.

It sounds like vaginismus.

You don't have a "small" or "tight" vagina - you have a problem with an overly tense muscle. There is medical help for it.

Title: Re: Cervical screening
Post by: TheLittleMatchGirl on 31 July 2015, 06:04:56 am

Nerves maybe? I know if I'm nervous for whatever reason I subconsciously clench a bit more. Your foof doesn't tighten with lack of sex.
Most likely vaginismus. Traumatic experiences or fear can cause it, see your doctor. I think counselling could help