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Justine

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Re: Re: Can you wear this.. or that
« Reply #15 on: 22 July 2019, 10:40:50 pm »
I am quite happy to dress as requested if it is reasonable and I have enough time to find the damn things. Having far too many outfits and not being the best organised person it is almost guaranteed that they will want the one skirt or dress that seems to have vanished.

It was only last week I decided to put every pvc item I have in one place (yes after 10 years I just got aound to that) so now I will not be in a bad tempered panic 5 minutes before he arrives.

One thing I was asked for and will never buy or wear is corduroy. can you wear cord jeans please?  errr no so I had to turn him down. Corduroy? What?!  ::) :o

No offence to any cord lovers out there  :)


MissBehaving

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Re: Re: Can you wear this.. or that
« Reply #16 on: 23 July 2019, 12:07:01 am »
I feel the exact same way but there’s 100 reasons why I don’t take clothing requests or like being told how to do my makeup or have my hair.

Main reason for why I refuse is because I can do my job much better when I feel comfortable.

If they don’t like how I dress or how I look then there’s many other options for them to choose from.

I also find personally that clients have really bad taste when it comes to clothing requests, rare I ever get a classy request.

And PVC catsuits in this heat? SAKE 🤦🏻‍♀️

Whenever they ask me to wear my own clothes, I think no because I don’t want them seeing me how I look when I’m out with my family or friends. I prefer them seeing me in my Sophia alter ego if that makes sense, not to mention I spend fortunes on my personal clothes.

I also find clients who are very specific about how they want you to look extremely hard to please and make me more anxious than I care to be.

I have wrote on my profiles that while I don’t take clothing requests, I will always make the effort for them and then explain what I do wear.

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My profile clearly state that I do not cater for any requests concerning my appearance .

I hate being told what to do , and going along with requests would only put me in a filthy mood which in turn would affect the service that I provide :-)

Mirror

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Re: Re: Can you wear this.. or that
« Reply #17 on: 23 July 2019, 08:32:27 am »
I am quite happy to dress as requested if it is reasonable and I have enough time to find the damn things. Having far too many outfits and not being the best organised person it is almost guaranteed that they will want the one skirt or dress that seems to have vanished.

It was only last week I decided to put every pvc item I have in one place (yes after 10 years I just got aound to that) so now I will not be in a bad tempered panic 5 minutes before he arrives.

One thing I was asked for and will never buy or wear is corduroy. can you wear cord jeans please?  errr no so I had to turn him down. Corduroy? What?!  ::) :o

No offence to any cord lovers out there  :)

I have some very nice cords, including pair of tight combats.

Justine

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Re: Re: Can you wear this.. or that
« Reply #18 on: 23 July 2019, 09:09:25 am »
I have some very nice cords, including pair of tight combats.

I should have passed him on to you then!  ;D

Lushblossom

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Re: Re: Can you wear this.. or that
« Reply #19 on: 23 July 2019, 09:19:56 am »
It's like when they ask daft questions like 'Will you dress sexy for me?  Do you wear high heels?'.  I feel like saying no I put Army & Navy clothing on lol.

BangerRacing

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Re: Re: Can you wear this.. or that
« Reply #20 on: 23 July 2019, 09:29:48 am »
I just picked up an email from last night, asking to be fucked in a high leg swimsuit. Well I'm close to the coast so I can see his point. Probably one of the most random ones.


MissBehaving

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Re: Re: Can you wear this.. or that
« Reply #21 on: 23 July 2019, 10:21:26 am »
I just picked up an email from last night, asking to be fucked in a high leg swimsuit. Well I'm close to the coast so I can see his point. Probably one of the most random ones.

I think mine is more  random ... :-) Request for jodhpurs and riding boots ! And no there is nothing on my profile that would suggest that I happen to have either of these at the back of my closet .
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Mirror

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Re: Re: Can you wear this.. or that
« Reply #22 on: 23 July 2019, 11:26:48 am »
I've done a few swimming costume bookings, it can be a genuine request. Popped it on under clothes.

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Re: Re: Can you wear this.. or that
« Reply #23 on: 23 July 2019, 03:32:01 pm »
If booked for 30 minutes or car meet dressing up is not really an option.

However booked for longer I try and accommodate any requests and surprised at this thread that others don't.


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Re: Re: Can you wear this.. or that
« Reply #24 on: 23 July 2019, 05:36:09 pm »
In my (however limited) experience. It doesn’t stay on too long anyway. And every time I have made the effort to dress as asked it’s a matter of minutes (a half smile and a nod of appreciate and acknowledgement for following orders lol) then it’s off and down to business haha. Came to realise it rarely actually matters to them, and as said somewhere above, half the time they’re the no shows anyway. :/

Rosesugar

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Re: Re: Can you wear this.. or that
« Reply #25 on: 24 July 2019, 10:46:26 am »
Sitting indoors wearing either a nurse outfit or pvc dress in this heat waiting for that client to show up it may well be the time wasters idea of pleasure it is not mine ..

ParisB

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Re: Re: Can you wear this.. or that
« Reply #26 on: 24 July 2019, 02:40:31 pm »
Sitting indoors wearing either a nurse outfit or pvc dress in this heat waiting for that client to show up it may well be the time wasters idea of pleasure it is not mine ..

I will wear outfits ( I have a lot of different ones ) but I will never put them on till they arrive and have paid me


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Re: Re: Can you wear this.. or that
« Reply #27 on: 24 July 2019, 03:40:04 pm »
In the earlier days, I would wear stockings, skirts and skimpy little numbers for clients, but as the years have gone by... I now never dress up for clients, but also make it clear on my advert that I don't dress up.
No complaints yet.
I tend to do what's best for me, to make sure I'm comfortable.

EvelynWho

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Re: Re: Can you wear this.. or that
« Reply #28 on: 24 July 2019, 03:49:41 pm »
In the earlier days, I would wear stockings, skirts and skimpy little numbers for clients, but as the years have gone by... I now never dress up for clients, but also make it clear on my advert that I don't dress up.
No complaints yet.
I tend to do what's best for me, to make sure I'm comfortable.
When you say “don’t dress up” do you mean like everyday T-shirt and jeans and they’re fine with it or do you mean just not the whole get up and go with stockings but still a nice dress type thing ?

katrina

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Re: Re: Can you wear this.. or that
« Reply #29 on: 24 July 2019, 10:55:54 pm »
I don't mind outfit requests (within reason) its not a big deal, I can be in and out of clothing in seconds if need be, and want to make the whole experience as enjoyable as possible and like wearing a variety of different looks anyway. For the odd few clients who ask for me to dress 'normal' I also 'recycle' old jeans and little tops or dresses that have shrunk in the wash (or I've grown out of lol) as they seem to love me wearing the tight items  ;D