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Working from hotels I have and use the excuse that I’ve not got such and such with me. Sometimes if I can’t be asked to change last minute or I’m liking the look of a certain outfit I’ll even say I haven’t got other things despite maybe having them with me. :/ oops.
You could always say I’ve picked out a cute sexy outfit for you already sorry, or that style doesn’t suit me and I’d rather look my best etc xx

I'm vague with them and say I'll look nice..... or just refuse.
If it effects your performing mojo and you don't feel sexed up in it, maybe it's not worth it.
It's like me wearing a lush wig, I don't feel like I'm on duty without it!
When I get asked rush over in jeans or whatever I'm wearing in the supermarket....I'm not in character so turn them down.

I was asked for some specific outfits and asked my GF,  she always tells them to buy them.
Give them your size or just say that to get rid of them.
If it's a chore but I'm wiling I may charge them an extra £30. They do pay.
I do the big reveal once they've paid in full.

I've had a few very specific requests, for stockings and used to keep lots handy,  but now tell them to pick them up at Boots and they're happy to do that. They know exactly what type they like. One client bought a pair for me and one for himself.

I’ve revently moved (so things are in boxes) and not all at my location. And to be honest I’m a creature that likes to do things my way and do how I best feel comfortable. When I get ask to dress in normal clothes (can mean different things to different guys) that I would wear to something like this or that that are quite specific.

I know exactly what you mean - I had a handful of photos up of me in jeans (which I rarely wear) and a T-shirt and found I was occasionally asked to wear 'normal clothes' like these, which I didn't have for work. What I did was dig out a pair of jeans and a handful of other bits including some old gym gear I didn't like and make them part of my work wardrobe in the way that some people do with costumes and so on. Punters don't get to see or touch my own clothes and I can crack on that I've just walked through the door in my civvies .

What I did was dig out a pair of jeans and a handful of other bits including some old gym gear I didn't like and make them part of my work wardrobe in the way that some people do with costumes

That’s a good idea for future reference

I’ve revently moved (so things are in boxes) and not all at my location. And to be honest I’m a creature that likes to do things my way and do how I best feel comfortable. When I get ask to dress in normal clothes (can mean different things to different guys) that I would wear to something like this or that that are quite specific. It throws me off. I actually live in two types of clothing style due to my daily hobby and my other part time work. So I don’t really have “my summer best that I’d go to so and so with my girlfriends in’ type outfit on hand. Plus I feel they have a set image of they want gou to look when they describe a certain style / scenario. And that can be translated differently by different people. And it’s too much pressure. I have lovely work outfits but to deviate from them too much makes me feel this is a level of delving into my personal life and wardrobe sometimes that I don’t want to do. Or too much effort. Or maybe I’m just tired from all I’ve had on recently breaking out of the norm feels too demanding.  I just want to slip my sexy work wardrobe on that’s all clean ready and hung up and save my energy for the client. Not stress about putting together a tailored out of the norm non work outfit he’s described within a pile of boxes! Sorry for the rant!.. anyone else find this challenging?

I feel the exact same way but there’s 100 reasons why I don’t take clothing requests or like being told how to do my makeup or have my hair.

Main reason for why I refuse is because I can do my job much better when I feel comfortable.

If they don’t like how I dress or how I look then there’s many other options for them to choose from.

I also find personally that clients have really bad taste when it comes to clothing requests, rare I ever get a classy request.

And PVC catsuits in this heat? SAKE 🤦🏻‍♀️

Whenever they ask me to wear my own clothes, I think no because I don’t want them seeing me how I look when I’m out with my family or friends. I prefer them seeing me in my Sophia alter ego if that makes sense, not to mention I spend fortunes on my personal clothes.

I also find clients who are very specific about how they want you to look extremely hard to please and make me more anxious than I care to be.

I have wrote on my profiles that while I don’t take clothing requests, I will always make the effort for them and then explain what I do wear.

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Another one here that has always had on my profile that I don't dress to requests.Just because they pay for time with us does not mean they are entitled to dictate what we wear!!

I also used to stipulate that I didn't do dressing requests but stated that I did wear the sorts of things they could see in my photos.I still did get the odd one that didn't read my profile but yo7 get that anyway.