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Clients who forget they've met you?
« on: 08 October 2010, 05:45:00 pm »
Ok, I am starting to find this too funny. I switch cities, a few months pass by...and I end up running into the same client from back when who has NO IDEA that they've met me before.

This happened with a guy last night who I'd met earlier this year from another state. I noticed him immediately from his email address. Even when we met, he didn't recall...and I didn't mention anything either.

So far, this has happened on atleast 5 different occassions within the past year or so. Its like, how the hell is it I can remember you but you cant remember me LOL.

There are the select few who think Im new after a week or 2 when I change a photo and my number, but usually they catch on when I mention where my incall location is  :P

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Re: Clients who forget they've met you?
« Reply #1 on: 08 October 2010, 06:01:14 pm »
Happened many times to me as well over the years. It is especially funny when the clients are the ones who always use the new girls but cannot remember who they've seen or not. At first I couldn't believe they really thought we hadn't met but it's actually fun to tell different stories - age, nationality, where I came from and when etc - about myself to the same people.

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Re: Clients who forget they've met you?
« Reply #2 on: 10 October 2010, 09:51:05 am »
I could not introduce myself like that again LOL....

But, in a way...it kind of 'bothers' me that they dont remember who they've gotten with. Not in a bad way, but just in a..."damn, so Im just like a...another person?" And these aren't all senior citzens, some are mid-aged. Its just, I remember you...do you really not have any idea about me?

I guess bookings can just be so spontaneous for them...but even with me. Its like, do they see more escorts than I do clients? I doubt it  ???

Then again, part of me also feels an ego boost...that maybe I look better every year, and that Im so fine that they cant overlook me  ;D
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Re: Clients who forget they've met you?
« Reply #3 on: 10 October 2010, 06:08:53 pm »
Hmm, depending on who you're talking about, many gay men have numbers of partners almost unheard of outside escorting. If you've had under ten partners in your lifetime, it must be easier to remember them all than when you've had over a thousand and only the odd ones stand out.

Think that you can't be that odd :)

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Re: Clients who forget they've met you?
« Reply #4 on: 10 October 2010, 08:56:15 pm »
Hmm, depending on who you're talking about, many gay men have numbers of partners almost unheard of outside escorting. If you've had under ten partners in your lifetime, it must be easier to remember them all than when you've had over a thousand and only the odd ones stand out.

Think that you can't be that odd :)

well, Im the type that I can remember every person who I've had sex with....or shall I rephrase, I could probably RECOGNIZE everyone I've been with LOL

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Re: Clients who forget they've met you?
« Reply #5 on: 11 October 2010, 09:20:05 am »
I'm impressed.
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Re: Clients who forget they've met you?
« Reply #6 on: 11 October 2010, 12:24:20 pm »
I have an awful memory for faces - there's been a few times that I've had a client arrived and not realised till half way through the session that it's someone I've seen before. What reminds me is usually them chatting about their personal life and I remember a detail, or them being into something a little unusual, or a memorable mark on their body like a tattoo or a scar. I have a good memory for partners and once something reminds me I can remember lots of other useful stuff, but I'm awful at recognising someone by their faced and clothed body. So far no one's noticed I'd forgotten them (or if they did notice, they weren't bothered enough to show it) but I'm sure it'll cause me embarrassment some day.
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