Hi everyone,

A new thread today to talk about something I've been observing lately.

I've been browsing on twitter and follow quite a lot of SPs there as it seems to be a popular mean of advertisement nowadays (I personally don't post anything on twitter and just have an anonymous account there).

I'm always astonished to see these girls posting their fancy expensive gifts, jewellery, FMTY (fly me to you) to the other side of the world. These girls generally charge high prices and market themselves as very "exclusive". It also seems that they are always fully booked and if you want to make a booking with them you have to book a month in advance at least.

I'm wondering where those girls find their clients ? I mean how do they manage this ? Or is it all fake to give the impression that they are successful in order to attract the masses ?
Does anybody on here know one of these girls personally and does the reality really match the social media dream ?

PS. Obviously I'm not saying all of this in a jealous way, I'm genuinely curious about this topic and definitely admire their lifestyle 

People who flash their “wealth” are normally not wealthy at all it’s a lot of attention seeking , just focus on being a good escort and your be cashing it in . 10 years of escorting has financially made me well off but I feel no need to post about what gifts etc clients give me as it’s shallow as hell

One person's rich is another's poor. My first week of this work (I also had a ft job which barely covered my household bills) saw me counting out what amounted to a whole month's salary in the civvy job and I felt very rich indeed. I had not a penny in savings and was rather giddy with happiness at this new found wealth. 

Off I went shopping and bought new shoes (no not designer, more like Matalan) and a smart jacket from New Look. 😁.  Then replenished my fading underwear and a few escort flimsies  and accessories. I had loads of £££ left over and put it into a savings pot.

I knew from that first week I could amass enough in even a short time to give myself some financial security and at no time since then have I spent what I call silly money on high cost labels because they don't pay the rent or bills.

Another sp I knew then was spending hundreds a month on hair/manicures/ handbag after handbag which were never under £200 each. She looked great and was as busy as me with her bookings.  Lots more examples but I also remember a couple of years later she told me she was applying for a loan as struggling to manage and she had not saved a penny.

Yes anyone can spend their own money any way they want but a mistake many make is thinking the 6 bookings a day will always come flooding in and as we are probably all aware now....it can stop at any time and for a number of reasons.

People who flash their “wealth” are normally not wealthy at all it’s a lot of attention seeking , just focus on being a good escort and your be cashing it in . 10 years of escorting has financially made me well off but I feel no need to post about what gifts etc clients give me as it’s shallow as hell

+100 this 👏

And well done Rebecca on reaching your many goals

I've always been very careful with my money because it's not a guarantee that I'll make the same the following week. I'd love a BMW but I don't need one. I'd love louboutins but next stilettos will do fine. I want to buy a home so that's more important to me than buying stuff I don't need. My kids don't go without, but are not spoiled either. I'd rather buy them a phone or a tablet from CEX than new. I've had plenty of weeks where I've made next to nothing.
Ed Sheran did this interview a while back where he said that most of what you see in IG and Twitter about people's perfect lives is just a lie, and actually they are really struggling. I have another business and post on social media about how perfect my life is, how successful I am, how much free time I have being my own boss. In reality its false. Fake it til you make it. I never believe what I see on social media anymore. Everything is filtered.

Some ladies do make crazy money, which is great if you have a specific amount in mind and then either stop or go back to having a good work/life balance. The problem with money is once you’ve started making £xx then it can be difficult to allow yourself to take on less. I enjoy enjoying the job, which I wouldn’t if I was caning it. I remember one old friend made over £20k in a month, and then when she tried to get back to working less it’d buggered her head so much as she’d started living the lifestyle of someone who earns £20k a month (as in their day job). It’s not sustainable. I’ve seen so many ‘high end’ (please don’t chastise me for using this description) ladies crash and burn. They end up despising the job when an hours work doesn’t even get them a pair of the shoes they’ve become used to buying, whereas an hours work to me goes a long way and I respect that there’re people working their backsides off in gig economy jobs to make in a week what I make in an hour. It is nice having escort friends who can go on the occasional fancy schmancy night out with without the questions about where you get your money from.

Regarding the ladies on twitter there are escorts who do make crazy money, but as other have said on here a lot is for show and that isn’t reality. This is usually subsidised by one or two extremely wealthy, and often needy, regular clients and any new clients top up their income and could get them a new long term one. Some of these are more sugar daddy type relationships which aren’t healthy. Most of us would rather see a client for their booked time then get back to our everyday lives. These men feel some kind of ownership and want to constantly text and have you at their beck and call. Plus upkeep of having a twitter and constantly needing content for it would be time consuming, but must be paying off for them to use it. They probably have only fans accounts too. All this is a full time job in itself. In fact not even just full time, it becomes their life. So that’ll be why they need notice because their main benefactor(s) won’t like any period of not being able to contact them. I’ve met escorts who work like this and they’re constantly on their phones. That’d do my head in.

I'm genuinely curious about this topic and definitely admire their lifestyle 

Me too! I really want to believe that these mythical creatures and their lifestyle is real. Very aspirational

Do not believe everything you see on Twitter or IG, the majority of sex work Twitter is smoke and mirrors - all carefully staged to give the illusion of their version of reality.

This.

It's the escorts that don't post pictures of their "gifts" and travels.... they are the ones earning well!