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Nadya

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Bring you Toys
« on: 10 August 2020, 10:27:23 am »
Am I the only one who dreads a request for my 'toys'?  What makes men think they can have access to my personal sex aids.  I don't want them touching them or thinking they can use them on me.  What a way to ruin them.  Gross.

Even worse when they want a threesome and think you are going to use your vibe on some other woman.

Errrm, no.

EvelynWho

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Re: Bring you Toys
« Reply #1 on: 10 August 2020, 10:46:23 am »
You could get some work toys ?

thickthighs

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Re: Bring you Toys
« Reply #2 on: 10 August 2020, 11:13:58 am »
I don’t even have toys as a service option. If they want me to use one on them they can bring their own.

TantricTease

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Re: Bring you Toys
« Reply #3 on: 10 August 2020, 11:18:05 am »
I just don’t use them or even have them as an option, I think with this job then I need to hold something back for myself and I’m not masturbating in front of them, it makes me uncomfortable.

saltysweet

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Re: Bring you Toys
« Reply #4 on: 10 August 2020, 11:26:49 am »
It's a service like anything else, ans pays quite nicely so no dread  :) But if it's something you dislike or don't advertise then maybe don't accept the gig if it irritates you.

From the title I expected to read they arrive with a fave toy to use in the session, not sure if you mean that. They do sometimes, I'd use it on them but never on myself.

I agree with Eve, I have equipment only for use on clients. This is mainly to prevent cross contamination. That clears up the issue immediately.

If another woman is involved she or he would have to provide her own toys. Her equipment is not my responsibility. My private toys are never touched by others. I may use them on myself during a sesh but at no point do they go out of my sight or get fingered by others.
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Mirror

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Re: Bring you Toys
« Reply #5 on: 10 August 2020, 12:06:13 pm »
Firstly I ask "Are toys for you or me?", if me I explain toys don't bring me to orgasm, it's titillation and if on cam a substitute for having a real live participant.

Someone once pulled out a toy from bedside drawer in family home.

I don't want contact with shared toys.

All mine are cleaned after use, condom covered on the rare occasions I use them on clients.


Nadya

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Re: Bring you Toys
« Reply #6 on: 10 August 2020, 12:11:23 pm »
I have a particular dislike of it.  I had two clients use toys so far and it bugged me because a) I don't know where TF those toys come from and b) It is over stimulating and I hate that.

So buying work toys wouldn't work because I don't want them used on me. 

saltysweet

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Re: Bring you Toys
« Reply #7 on: 10 August 2020, 01:06:20 pm »
I'd politely refuse or refer to a mate who likes it and benefit from the money. I send various jobs to my friends or SWs I ring up cold, because they're better suited or experienced in certain specialities and they'll send jobs to me. Swapsies! Works well, everyone's happy. Mo money Mo Money!
« Last Edit: 10 August 2020, 01:11:50 pm by saltysweet »

Nadya

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Re: Bring you Toys
« Reply #8 on: 10 August 2020, 09:42:37 pm »
I'd politely refuse or refer to a mate who likes it and benefit from the money. I send various jobs to my friends or SWs I ring up cold, because they're better suited or experienced in certain specialities and they'll send jobs to me. Swapsies! Works well, everyone's happy. Mo money Mo Money!

That's wonderful!!!   :)

Jessiegirl

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Re: Bring you Toys
« Reply #9 on: 11 August 2020, 09:47:42 am »
I have work toys but only use them upon request and if I feel comfortable with the client.

Snow Whitest

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Re: Bring you Toys
« Reply #10 on: 12 August 2020, 09:39:26 pm »
I really don't like toys and don't have any myself. I do find it slightly offensive or offputting if someone brings a wand for example..
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CelesteManchester

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Re: Bring you Toys
« Reply #11 on: 12 August 2020, 10:27:18 pm »
I don’t like’em. Don’t like them for me, don’t like using them on the clients, it’s simply not my scene or how I market myself.

I especially hate when I’m smack dab in the middle of a session & you ask me if I *have* toys😡🪓. If you wanted the damn things, bring them. I’m not 7-11 or Tesco. I’ve got me here, the hotel room & the condoms. Pretty sure I’ve supplied everything I’m required to supply *scowl*.

I’ve had some get...not ugly per se? But indignant that I didn’t have any & it’s like man🤦🏼‍♀️. It’s bad enough I’m carrying 3 ginormous bottles of lube & (literally) 75 condoms with me (TSA must have a field day, smh), I can’t do any more.

Bring ya own shit. Gah!
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Jessiegirl

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Re: Bring you Toys
« Reply #12 on: 13 August 2020, 04:03:07 pm »
I had a request from a guy who wants to use a penis extender on me. Has anyone got any experience of this. Apparently it adds a couple of inches in length and extra thickness too.

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Re: Bring you Toys
« Reply #13 on: 13 August 2020, 04:03:55 pm »
My policy is simple. I don't allow clients to bring toys. I have a few toys they can use as an extra service, and I know how clean they are each time (very).

Saffy

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Re: Bring you Toys
« Reply #14 on: 13 August 2020, 09:32:19 pm »
When I hear "toys" I'm always thinking he can't get it up or he wants things shoved into his ass.

I had a 60 yr old come with a whole suitcase, even though I had told him I don't use toys. They weren't gonna come anywhere near me. He was one of these rich bullish old men, a sexist pig.

He seemed to want to drag his 90 minute appointment out. I suspected he couldn't get it up and I was suggesting massage etc.  Half an hour in he got into a strop and managed to grab his fee which was near my tablet.

Anyway there was a tussle and if I could have got hold of them, I would have thrown his trousers out of the 7th floor window.  I only managed to break his glasses. You don't expect this much trouble from the pensioners!

Another one added to the hit list.
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