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General Category => Blather and Babble => Topic started by: Nadya on 10 August 2020, 10:27:23 am
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Am I the only one who dreads a request for my 'toys'? What makes men think they can have access to my personal sex aids. I don't want them touching them or thinking they can use them on me. What a way to ruin them. Gross.
Even worse when they want a threesome and think you are going to use your vibe on some other woman.
Errrm, no.
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You could get some work toys ?
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I don’t even have toys as a service option. If they want me to use one on them they can bring their own.
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I just don’t use them or even have them as an option, I think with this job then I need to hold something back for myself and I’m not masturbating in front of them, it makes me uncomfortable.
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It's a service like anything else, ans pays quite nicely so no dread :) But if it's something you dislike or don't advertise then maybe don't accept the gig if it irritates you.
From the title I expected to read they arrive with a fave toy to use in the session, not sure if you mean that. They do sometimes, I'd use it on them but never on myself.
I agree with Eve, I have equipment only for use on clients. This is mainly to prevent cross contamination. That clears up the issue immediately.
If another woman is involved she or he would have to provide her own toys. Her equipment is not my responsibility. My private toys are never touched by others. I may use them on myself during a sesh but at no point do they go out of my sight or get fingered by others.
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Firstly I ask "Are toys for you or me?", if me I explain toys don't bring me to orgasm, it's titillation and if on cam a substitute for having a real live participant.
Someone once pulled out a toy from bedside drawer in family home.
I don't want contact with shared toys.
All mine are cleaned after use, condom covered on the rare occasions I use them on clients.
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I have a particular dislike of it. I had two clients use toys so far and it bugged me because a) I don't know where TF those toys come from and b) It is over stimulating and I hate that.
So buying work toys wouldn't work because I don't want them used on me.
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I'd politely refuse or refer to a mate who likes it and benefit from the money. I send various jobs to my friends or SWs I ring up cold, because they're better suited or experienced in certain specialities and they'll send jobs to me. Swapsies! Works well, everyone's happy. Mo money Mo Money!
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I'd politely refuse or refer to a mate who likes it and benefit from the money. I send various jobs to my friends or SWs I ring up cold, because they're better suited or experienced in certain specialities and they'll send jobs to me. Swapsies! Works well, everyone's happy. Mo money Mo Money!
That's wonderful!!! :)
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I have work toys but only use them upon request and if I feel comfortable with the client.
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I really don't like toys and don't have any myself. I do find it slightly offensive or offputting if someone brings a wand for example..
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I don’t like’em. Don’t like them for me, don’t like using them on the clients, it’s simply not my scene or how I market myself.
I especially hate when I’m smack dab in the middle of a session & you ask me if I *have* toys😡🪓. If you wanted the damn things, bring them. I’m not 7-11 or Tesco. I’ve got me here, the hotel room & the condoms. Pretty sure I’ve supplied everything I’m required to supply *scowl*.
I’ve had some get...not ugly per se? But indignant that I didn’t have any & it’s like man🤦🏼♀️. It’s bad enough I’m carrying 3 ginormous bottles of lube & (literally) 75 condoms with me (TSA must have a field day, smh), I can’t do any more.
Bring ya own shit. Gah!
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I had a request from a guy who wants to use a penis extender on me. Has anyone got any experience of this. Apparently it adds a couple of inches in length and extra thickness too.
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My policy is simple. I don't allow clients to bring toys. I have a few toys they can use as an extra service, and I know how clean they are each time (very).
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When I hear "toys" I'm always thinking he can't get it up or he wants things shoved into his ass.
I had a 60 yr old come with a whole suitcase, even though I had told him I don't use toys. They weren't gonna come anywhere near me. He was one of these rich bullish old men, a sexist pig.
He seemed to want to drag his 90 minute appointment out. I suspected he couldn't get it up and I was suggesting massage etc. Half an hour in he got into a strop and managed to grab his fee which was near my tablet.
Anyway there was a tussle and if I could have got hold of them, I would have thrown his trousers out of the 7th floor window. I only managed to break his glasses. You don't expect this much trouble from the pensioners!
Another one added to the hit list.
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To me it feels a bit dangerous. They get pokey and rough enough with just their hand- I shudder to think of them having a device to press too hard against me or poke me with. Not to mention- that’s using up more than their allotment of wearing me out for the day.
If a regular wanted something used on him, and I felt comfortable with them and the situation, I think I’d charge them a premium, buy a $20 version on amazon, and toss it in the trash afterwards.
But to use on me? Nooooooo thank you
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I used to have a few of my own on the side for work use. I stopped using them because.
1. Whilst I can enjoy on my own (ie masturbate to a good climax) - they don't work with a stranger using them on me (or even my partner).
2. Punters don't get near to using them nicely - they tend to think that they are used bu ramming them up my vagina. Make me sore
3. A bullet was once pushed inside my bum and disappeared - scary
4. They tend to make bookings last longer by taking the attention and stimulation of them away from the proceedings. I don't rush bookings, but getting the timing right to get on with the fuck or bj that gets them to cum is important and delays in the proceedings that lead to overstays are to be avoided. Toys are one of those things that pads out booking time and leads to overstays.