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Re: Boundary pushing with prices.
« Reply #15 on: 17 June 2022, 08:24:00 am »
I used to offer 15 minutes BJ only for £40 but I got so sick of people trying to get it even cheaper that I stopped offering it a long time ago. I now only offer that to two long-term regs who don't take the pee with it. I had someone I've never met or spoken to a few days ago asking me the price for 15 minutes, I replied with my 30-minute rate and he actually came back to me and said that's for a half hour, I was asking about 15 minutes. I responded the exact same way and it must have finally clicked as he vanished.

Oh! I once had someone I'd never met before asking if we could meet and he would pay me half at the booking time and the other half when he got paid at the end of the month.  ;D

I've been asked several times if payment can be several days after the booking, as well as post-dated cheques etc.

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« Reply #16 on: 18 June 2022, 08:35:24 am »
I don't offer quickies due to discretion (plus guys booking 15 and needing 25). My 30 min rate is £80 and once had someone offer me £30 for a 10 minute quickie. When I responded that I do not see hagglers or do quickies he said that's all I was worth and I should fuck off back to my own country.... I'm white British 🤷‍♀️

They have no respect haggling.

I had another one who politely said he couldn't afford my fee, what could I do for £25. I told him he needed to find someone cheaper. I'm not desperate for money.

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« Reply #17 on: 18 June 2022, 09:39:31 am »
I don't offer quickies due to discretion (plus guys booking 15 and needing 25). My 30 min rate is £80 and once had someone offer me £30 for a 10 minute quickie. When I responded that I do not see hagglers or do quickies he said that's all I was worth and I should fuck off back to my own country.... I'm white British 🤷‍♀️

They have no respect haggling.

I had another one who politely said he couldn't afford my fee, what could I do for £25. I told him he needed to find someone cheaper. I'm not desperate for money.

It's terrible i think it comes with men thinking all sex workers must be very desperate to do the job in the first place so why not try our luck to get away with more piss taking out of them.

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« Reply #18 on: 20 June 2022, 08:59:32 am »
It's terrible i think it comes with men thinking all sex workers must be very desperate to do the job in the first place so why not try our luck to get away with more piss taking out of them.

Exactly. I mean I'm not rich but I make enough to pay my bills and have savings. It's just rude and boundary pushing.

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« Reply #19 on: 01 August 2022, 07:50:43 am »
Re the “what can I get for £25 ? “
I’ve sent them a link to the Bernard Manning . You can have a penguin joke ! 😂😂

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« Reply #20 on: 01 August 2022, 11:07:52 am »
Re the “what can I get for £25 ? “
I’ve sent them a link to the Bernard Manning . You can have a penguin joke ! 😂😂

 Never got that joke fully til I started doing this work ;D ;D

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« Reply #21 on: 01 August 2022, 11:21:17 am »
Another I did at the weekend paid for half a hour service,   before that we sat whilst he had a drink we went done overtime in the bedroom he had near a hour chat shit and go overtime then had cheek to say he skint and moaning he paid me I hate men like him give them bit free time treat them nice and take the piss , he moaned about other women charging lots too , he can fuck off thinking I see him again,[off topic removed].
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Re: Boundary pushing with prices.
« Reply #22 on: 01 August 2022, 09:47:46 pm »
Same. As soon as someone texts e.g. 'R u available', 'Can I book 15 minutes', 'Do you do anal' etc. etc. I just know they haven't read (or been able to understand) my profile, and so don't merit a response.

This was something that used to happen with me all the time a few months back; I found changing ny profile wording helped immensely.

Now if one message slips though like this, I just block them - no response.

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Re: Boundary pushing with prices.
« Reply #23 on: 03 August 2022, 10:55:39 am »
It's terrible i think it comes with men thinking all sex workers must be very desperate to do the job in the first place so why not try our luck to get away with more piss taking out of them.
I do think you’re right in that some men think we are desperate to do what we do.  Many people both male & female can’t seem to understand that we do enjoy our chosen profession.

Speaking of people trying to push prices, when the pandemic kicked off I received two unsavoury emails from chaps I hadn’t seen before.  One read ‘I’ve always wanted to see you Diana but your price has always been above what I’m willing to pay.  Guessing now your phone is dusty because of the pandemic you’ll partake in Tontober (an hour for £100) in March?’.  This was £60 less that my advertised rate, I didn’t bother replying.  Another chap emailed presuming that I’d start offering services that weren’t on my likes list.  It was at that point that I thought to myself…..if this is the sh#t@ I’m going to be receiving because some chaps think they can exploit the pandemic to get more for their money I’m pulling my advertising & spending time at home with my family until things improve.  I’ve managed to get by for over two years not advertising & just seeing regs but am very much looking forward to making a comeback.
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Re: Boundary pushing with prices.
« Reply #24 on: 04 August 2022, 08:38:56 am »
Why would you do an hour for £100 because it's March? That's the weirdest haggle I've ever heard ???

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« Reply #25 on: 04 August 2022, 10:17:50 am »
I think the idea would always to be to get the most for the least amount of money for some people. If they could haggle to 1p they would, those kinds don't care about our expenses. Whenever someone asks for a discount I tell them when they can cover my hotel costs they are more than welcome to have a discount. No one has taken me up on that yet surprisingly  ???

I used to do my 15min bookings for £30 and in my experience I had the worst piss taking overstaying 'most bang for your buck' type of people come and see me. The price worked for me at the time and I was happy charging it but I now I charge £60 (my old half hour rate) and I now get lots of 'oral only' bookings and repeat custom with great regulars. Knowing the difference makes me realise I wouldn't charge less again for it, even if I discounted my hour rate for whatever reason.

I think its knowing that people will still pay for essentially 5-10 mins of my time for a higher rate that I've set will always give me the confidence to tell these other twats to just wank in or sock or not respond altogether. I think I'm trying to stay zen and growing as a hooker because I simply don't rise to their bs anymore now, helps with burn out and stress in the long run.
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« Reply #26 on: 20 September 2022, 09:50:51 pm »
Do any of you find it not only rude but boundary pushing if you make it clear you do not offer quickies and your starting price is the bare minimum you will accept written all over your adverts.

Yes I find this quite unacceptable.

Now if someone asks once on the phone as a polite enquiry that's OK, but I've had many then carry on... arguing with me about the price - as if I will see them!. No, I won't now see them even at my full original fee. And this surprises them.

Way back in about 2004 I used to charge £120 and I recall a man turning up and offering me £100 - yes quite a good amount of money - I did want to take it!

He had the cash out ready.
I sent him away and made it quite plain that I'd told him on the phone how much the service cost if he wanted to offer less he had no right to ask my address. Book my time and then turn up and insult me like that.
I was furious with him.

He'd wasted my time.
He then offered the full amount, but I sent him away anyway - that bad taste in your mouth is no way to start the session - what kind of session would follow?

The thing is, if he only intended to use my body like a doll then it wouldn't make any difference TO HIM that he'd insulted me. But I charged the higher price because I offered my clients a lovely time - you know - that personal engagement GFE that he wouldn't get from me after pulling that shit.

It has happened a few times since then too.
I just think if I accept the lower amount of money I can guarantee they will also be the clients from hell.




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« Reply #27 on: 24 September 2022, 04:37:06 am »
I just deliberately misunderstand them and say my rates start at 70 but you're welcome to leave after 10 mins if that's the length you want.
I used to offer a cheaper blow and go but the haggling was too much to deal with. "What do I get for 20 quid babe" I just reply a blow and go without the blow 😂😂
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« Reply #28 on: 28 September 2022, 09:33:32 pm »
Hi, not posted here for a while...

I really understand why anyone would be upset if someone offers a lower price or asks for a service you do not offer, just say no. I now run a business and forever haggling.

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« Reply #29 on: 30 September 2022, 06:57:31 pm »
I can't add anything to what has already been said. I pretty much bin them all off now whether it's a call or a message. There's a minimum floor to standards and the sooner "the market" gets this in their head the better. It's my home and my body and I'm not letting any old detritus blow in off the street.