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English Green

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Boundary pushing with prices.
« on: 16 June 2022, 01:24:41 pm »
Do any of you find it not only rude but boundary pushing if you make it clear you do not offer quickies and your starting price is the bare minimum you will accept written all over your adverts.

I understand many offer quickies which is completely fine and a personal choice but why do these idiot men target women all the time that make it clear it's something that is not on offer. I find it really rude and total lack of respect for what you choose to charge. There is many that offer this service so why not just contact the ones that do.

I block them instantly when they do this as to me there is a lack of respect. I had a guy the other week that said to me oh sorry but it's all i can afford i said there is plenty that offer this so why are you targeting me he said he looked at a few that offered it but he never liked the look of them. I said so that gives you the right to target me when it's made clear.

I put this down as boundary pushing and no excuse he has less money as to me this is not a life or death service It's a luxury/ hobbie/treat for many who book.


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Re: Boundary pushing with prices.
« Reply #1 on: 16 June 2022, 01:29:14 pm »
I have been asked this many times and simply maintain my minimum, simple as that.

English Green

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« Reply #2 on: 16 June 2022, 01:32:58 pm »
I have been asked this many times and simply maintain my minimum, simple as that.

They are the worst timewasters that are out there and it happens all the time even some i had saying i know you don't do cheaper as you say that but can you do as a one off as i not been paid yet or have less money this month!!!!

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Re: Boundary pushing with prices.
« Reply #3 on: 16 June 2022, 01:43:36 pm »
I honestly believe that it's a numbers game for clients, they just write one message and copy and paste it to a whole bunch of us, first one that accepts wins their custom.

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« Reply #4 on: 16 June 2022, 02:01:36 pm »
I honestly believe that it's a numbers game for clients, they just write one message and copy and paste it to a whole bunch of us, first one that accepts wins their custom.

I agree with some it's definately a numbers game i think more so with thr ones wanting cheaper they message loads.

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Re: Boundary pushing with prices.
« Reply #5 on: 16 June 2022, 02:04:12 pm »
They will try and get it cheaper whatever price you put. I do 15 for £50 and still get them for it cheaper. In the past I've dont £60 for half an hour and still get them asking for it cheaper

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« Reply #6 on: 16 June 2022, 02:07:42 pm »
They will try and get it cheaper whatever price you put. I do 15 for £50 and still get them for it cheaper. In the past I've dont £60 for half an hour and still get them asking for it cheaper
It's awful isn't it but if you say no haggling and they still do it there blocked. I just don't have the patience for it. Even if someone was offering it for £20 they would offer £10.

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Re: Boundary pushing with prices.
« Reply #7 on: 16 June 2022, 02:10:31 pm »
Yes same i report and block them. I wouldn't want ro see someone who ask.

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« Reply #8 on: 16 June 2022, 02:28:30 pm »
I don’t consider it boundary pushing. I think it’s more indicative of the fact they’ve not read my profile and are sending a cut and paste message to many escorts in the hope someone they contact offers what they want.

Anyone who sends me a message asking for something I don’t offer or wants to haggle my prices, I decline or ignore. I don’t even bother giving it a second thought as it’s not about me, it’s all about them and a reflection of their slap dash/ignorant approach. I don’t want clients like this, so it’s all good that I can just reject them outright.

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Re: Boundary pushing with prices.
« Reply #9 on: 16 June 2022, 03:13:31 pm »
I don’t consider it boundary pushing. I think it’s more indicative of the fact they’ve not read my profile and are sending a cut and paste message to many escorts in the hope someone they contact offers what they want.

Anyone who sends me a message asking for something I don’t offer or wants to haggle my prices, I decline or ignore. I don’t even bother giving it a second thought as it’s not about me, it’s all about them and a reflection of their slap dash/ignorant approach. I don’t want clients like this, so it’s all good that I can just reject them outright.

Same. As soon as someone texts e.g. 'R u available', 'Can I book 15 minutes', 'Do you do anal' etc. etc. I just know they haven't read (or been able to understand) my profile, and so don't merit a response.
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Re: Boundary pushing with prices.
« Reply #10 on: 16 June 2022, 04:00:17 pm »
I don’t consider it boundary pushing. I think it’s more indicative of the fact they’ve not read my profile and are sending a cut and paste message to many escorts in the hope someone they contact offers what they want.

Nor do I. If somebody is trying to get a cheaper rate than the minimum I advertise, I call that haggling.

The easiest way to respond to them for me is to point out that I'm not going to hold them prisoner in my flat and if they want to leave after fifteen minutes they're welcome to do so; it isn't unusual for punters in my location to go before their paid time is up anyway.

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Re: Boundary pushing with prices.
« Reply #11 on: 16 June 2022, 04:28:39 pm »
I understand many offer quickies which is completely fine and a personal choice but why do these idiot men target women all the time that make it clear it's something that is not on offer. I find it really rude and total lack of respect for what you choose to charge. There is many that offer this service so why not just contact the ones that do.

I feel like some of the men who try & haggle prices are exactly that, they are direspectful & don't see it as a 'proper job' - Their dick is in control of them, they have to get it wet but don't want to pay our rates, they want to pay what they think our services are worth

I simply delete & block from future contact
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Re: Boundary pushing with prices.
« Reply #12 on: 16 June 2022, 05:47:57 pm »
I feel like some of the men who try & haggle prices are exactly that, they are direspectful & don't see it as a 'proper job' - Their dick is in control of them, they have to get it wet but don't want to pay our rates, they want to pay what they think our services are worth

I simply delete & block from future contact

Yes could not agree more with this. Exactly how i see it they think it's no big deal doing it much cheaper for them and they do not realise every stranger we let through the door could be a possible rapist/ attacker and we take our life in our hands.

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Re: Boundary pushing with prices.
« Reply #13 on: 16 June 2022, 09:12:43 pm »
I used to offer 15 minutes BJ only for £40 but I got so sick of people trying to get it even cheaper that I stopped offering it a long time ago. I now only offer that to two long-term regs who don't take the pee with it. I had someone I've never met or spoken to a few days ago asking me the price for 15 minutes, I replied with my 30-minute rate and he actually came back to me and said that's for a half hour, I was asking about 15 minutes. I responded the exact same way and it must have finally clicked as he vanished.

Oh! I once had someone I'd never met before asking if we could meet and he would pay me half at the booking time and the other half when he got paid at the end of the month.  ;D

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Re: Boundary pushing with prices.
« Reply #14 on: 16 June 2022, 09:22:56 pm »
I used to offer 15 minutes BJ only for £40 but I got so sick of people trying to get it even cheaper that I stopped offering it a long time ago. I now only offer that to two long-term regs who don't take the pee with it. I had someone I've never met or spoken to a few days ago asking me the price for 15 minutes, I replied with my 30-minute rate and he actually came back to me and said that's for a half hour, I was asking about 15 minutes. I responded the exact same way and it must have finally clicked as he vanished.

Oh! I once had someone I'd never met before asking if we could meet and he would pay me half at the booking time and the other half when he got paid at the end of the month.  ;D

Jesus they are never satisfied are they. You give a inch they want a mile.