I don’t consider it boundary pushing. I think it’s more indicative of the fact they’ve not read my profile and are sending a cut and paste message to many escorts in the hope someone they contact offers what they want.
Anyone who sends me a message asking for something I don’t offer or wants to haggle my prices, I decline or ignore. I don’t even bother giving it a second thought as it’s not about me, it’s all about them and a reflection of their slap dash/ignorant approach. I don’t want clients like this, so it’s all good that I can just reject them outright.