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Supergirl

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Boring long bookings!
« on: 25 May 2021, 10:29:32 am »
Why is it always these days some of my least favourite clients that want long bookings? Uuurgh.

5 hr booking today with a chap who is just very boring and really terrible at sex. I've given up trying to improve him - after seeing him for 3 years I've got nowhere. I simply can't torn down the money though - it's far too much to turn down.

Ideas of how to get through without dying of boredom? Oddly he has the best time ever!
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Re: Boring long bookings!
« Reply #1 on: 25 May 2021, 11:42:11 am »
I relate to this so hard! One of my most boring clients ever has decided he wants to upgrade his 1 hour to 2 hours. I don't want to turn down that amount of cash but I absolutely can't make conversation with him. He just looks at me and giggles and sniffs my hair. You're a trooper for getting through 5 hours!
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Re: Boring long bookings!
« Reply #2 on: 25 May 2021, 12:38:02 pm »
For 5 hours, you could suggest activities to pass the time. That don’t necessarily involve interacting with him.
Watching a film, passes a couple hours. Or a couple episodes of a tv show.
Or play a card game, could pass an hour or so. Or one of those sex related games where you roll a dice, could make it fun.
Are you always stuck in a room with him for that amount of time? Depending on the time of day you could order in food or get snacks or take a walk or something too.
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Re: Boring long bookings!
« Reply #3 on: 25 May 2021, 02:26:51 pm »
I am possibly in the minority but if a client is boring, bad at sex or does something I do not like, I decline to see him again. I often ask myself would I see this client again if he wasn't paying? If the answer is no, I won't see him again.

I understand many do not want to turn down money, but sometimes, money just isn't enough for me to put up with a client who I do not enjoy spending time with.

EveEveEv's advice is good - find ways to fill the time. For me, all bookings over 3 hours must include refreshments/food. This most certainly eats into the time.
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Re: Boring long bookings!
« Reply #4 on: 25 May 2021, 03:11:10 pm »
If he is rubbish at sex and boring but pays well that would not bother me at all. It's things like rude, demanding and smelly clients that are the problem.

I suppose we all look at sex work differently i just look at it as earning money and not about if i like that person. A lot of the clients that pay several of them have to pay for it i just kind of accept that most you would not want to entertain without cash being on offer.

I suppose if someone is hard work for conversation through a long booking then that can be awkward and drag on.

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Re: Boring long bookings!
« Reply #5 on: 25 May 2021, 04:48:03 pm »
Quote from: Thoroughly Modern Millie on 25 May 2021, 02:26:51 pm
I often ask myself would I see this client again if he wasn't paying? If the answer is no, I won't see him again.


Haha if I applied that criteria to clients I wouldn't see any at all!   ;D
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Re: Boring long bookings!
« Reply #6 on: 25 May 2021, 04:54:36 pm »
Quote from: Supergirl on 25 May 2021, 10:29:32 am
Why is it always these days some of my least favourite clients that want long bookings? Uuurgh.

5 hr booking today with a chap who is just very boring and really terrible at sex. I've given up trying to improve him - after seeing him for 3 years I've got nowhere. I simply can't torn down the money though - it's far too much to turn down.

Ideas of how to get through without dying of boredom? Oddly he has the best time ever!

I could not cope with  5 hours if it was all in the bedroom. I struggle to do more than 90 min bookings.
Tell him you'd really enjoy changing things up a bit on your next meeting if he's up for it. Chances are as he enjoys your company he'll agree.
Suggest going out for a drink/coffee and a walk. That would do away with a cple of hours. Cuddling on the sofa with a film for another cple of hours which would leave an hour of boring, terrible sex   ;D
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Re: Boring long bookings!
« Reply #7 on: 25 May 2021, 05:42:24 pm »
Quote from: fallen angel on 25 May 2021, 04:48:03 pm
Haha if I applied that criteria to clients I wouldn't see any at all!   ;D

Exactly i would never see any if i did it just for pleasure hahaha
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Re: Boring long bookings!
« Reply #8 on: 25 May 2021, 06:17:36 pm »
Quote from: fallen angel on 25 May 2021, 04:48:03 pm
Haha if I applied that criteria to clients I wouldn't see any at all!   ;D

Haha, yes, I'm sure.

We all have different criteria. The majority of my regular bookings are 3 hours or more, so I need to be able to enjoy the client's company as I'm just not that good an actress, no matter how much I'm being paid!
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Re: Boring long bookings!
« Reply #9 on: 26 May 2021, 07:30:54 am »
Well that turned into a bit of an odd one, I survived 4 excruciating hours and was wondering how on earth to get through the last bit - he was clearly having a lovely time he kept saying how brilliant it was having so much time with me

Then he said 'it's coming up to the bit I hate where you have to go' I thought he just meant we didn't have long left but I went to the loo and he was getting dressed. It became apparent be thought the booking was over! He's obviously miscalculated the time.

I was so glad for the chance to leave early I just followed his lead and got dressed while we chatted about what he was doing later then he walked me to the door.

I knew I should really have said something but I was so relieved and figured he'd message if he realised his mistake and I'd say I didn't realise the time myself and thought our time was up when he said.

Driving home I was thinking if it came up I'd offer him a few hour next time but he's since messaged to say how amazing it was and can't wait to do it again etc etc.

Would you say anything?

Ps. I tried to suggest going for a coffee or food and he said he wanted to keep me all to himself tucked away in our room. He had drinks in the room already so had tea coffee and fizzy drinks

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Re: Boring long bookings!
« Reply #10 on: 26 May 2021, 09:55:34 am »
Quote from: Supergirl on 26 May 2021, 07:30:54 am
Well that turned into a bit of an odd one, I survived 4 excruciating hours and was wondering how on earth to get through the last bit - he was clearly having a lovely time he kept saying how brilliant it was having so much time with me

Then he said 'it's coming up to the bit I hate where you have to go' I thought he just meant we didn't have long left but I went to the loo and he was getting dressed. It became apparent be thought the booking was over! He's obviously miscalculated the time.

I was so glad for the chance to leave early I just followed his lead and got dressed while we chatted about what he was doing later then he walked me to the door.

I knew I should really have said something but I was so relieved and figured he'd message if he realised his mistake and I'd say I didn't realise the time myself and thought our time was up when he said.

Driving home I was thinking if it came up I'd offer him a few hour next time but he's since messaged to say how amazing it was and can't wait to do it again etc etc.

Would you say anything?

Ps. I tried to suggest going for a coffee or food and he said he wanted to keep me all to himself tucked away in our room. He had drinks in the room already so had tea coffee and fizzy drinks


If the session was dragging, I wouldn't have said anything, but maybe just have asked if he was sure and secretly hope that he was! Maybe he was ready to wrap things up, sounds like he had a nice enough time with you anyway. For five hours though I would definitely have expected some sort of refreshment.

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Re: Boring long bookings!
« Reply #11 on: 26 May 2021, 11:12:32 am »
I just tend to 'think of the new kitchen units' he is paying for!
Keeps me focused.

Imagine working in  a boring office.  You would have to spend 8 hours a day, every day, with boring people, for a lot less money.

Stag on honey!!    xxx
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Re: Boring long bookings!
« Reply #12 on: 26 May 2021, 12:50:38 pm »
Quote from: Supergirl on 25 May 2021, 10:29:32 am
Why is it always these days some of my least favourite clients that want long bookings? Uuurgh.

5 hr booking today with a chap who is just very boring and really terrible at sex. I've given up trying to improve him - after seeing him for 3 years I've got nowhere. I simply can't torn down the money though - it's far too much to turn down.

Ideas of how to get through without dying of boredom? Oddly he has the best time ever!

Perhaps you could increase the fee by £XXX to make it more bareable. :)

I agree with others, meals out, activities, etc  I ask them straight at the booking stage, 'what will be doing for x hours.'
If he won't budge good on you for gritting it out.

I only had had one boring long gig- sat in his home, him playing online poker. No refreshment, chat or entertainment. It was an overnight but I dumped him after a few hours. He threatened to complain and I said 'go ahead, do what you like' I'd already been paid, we hadn't had sex. It was an agency job but I sacked them. I think they sent new girls to him like cannon fodder.

Since then I select my long bookings for compatibility.
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Re: Boring long bookings!
« Reply #13 on: 26 May 2021, 07:30:51 pm »
5 hours ..you ladies have the tolerance 😇
I can just about do 2 hours at a struggle..

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Re: Boring long bookings!
« Reply #14 on: 26 May 2021, 11:13:31 pm »
Quote from: Kiss on 26 May 2021, 07:30:51 pm
5 hours ..you ladies have the tolerance 😇
I can just about do 2 hours at a struggle..

Me too. I don't expect punters to be scintillating company and they're paying me handsomely to provide a service (plus some may find things like small talk and general interaction difficult for a variety of reasons and I'm not going to turn them away because of it) but I know I can't keep up the performance for longer than that.

To be fair, it would be unusual for me to sit and do any one thing for longer than two hours without stopping for food/drink or to glance at the news or nip out to the shop, or whatever.
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