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Re: Boring long bookings!
« Reply #15 on: 27 May 2021, 08:01:55 pm »
I have a couple of clients that are very hard to talk to who want long bookings. I find it really hard to keep the small talk going in between the sexy time, they're so boring that keeping the conversation going and avoiding the awkward silences is like an extreme sport.
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« Reply #16 on: 04 June 2021, 01:03:42 pm »
Once I had a booing with a regular for six hours. I didn't normally do them and I still don't but he was an exception.. Anyway we did our thing and also showered together and watched some TV, then three and a half hours in he fell asleep. He woke up about ten minutes before the end of the booking.

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Re: Boring long bookings!
« Reply #17 on: 05 June 2021, 01:33:00 pm »
What happened when he woke up? Was he upset that he had fallen asleep?

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« Reply #18 on: 05 June 2021, 03:25:35 pm »
This is why I can’t stand overnights. It’s too long to be in anyone’s company and I always find a that they expect a more intimate experience on longer bookings.

I tend to be quite guarded about how much distance I keep between myself and the client, in order to protect myself mentally.

Still, sometimes all you can do is think of the money Honey! X
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« Reply #19 on: 06 June 2021, 06:51:29 am »
What happened when he woke up? Was he upset that he had fallen asleep?

At firts he was chilled thinking he had just nodded off for a moment. He apologised for sleeping. Then he looked at his phone and saw time was almost over and he got a bit sheepish.
Anyway he got dressed and we chatted for ten minutes and then he left.

This is why I can’t stand overnights. It’s too long to be in anyone’s company and I always find a that they expect a more intimate experience on longer bookings.

I tend to be quite guarded about how much distance I keep between myself and the client, in order to protect myself mentally.

Still, sometimes all you can do is think of the money Honey! X

I was very nervous when I first started doing overnights, in my early 20's. Not least of all because of how vulnerable I felt. I tended to do it for regulars and that's true now but sometimes non regulars have the chance. And once or twice I've done an overnight with a regular and it hasn't turned out great.

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Re: Boring long bookings!
« Reply #20 on: 16 June 2021, 07:27:49 pm »
This is why I can’t stand overnights. It’s too long to be in anyone’s company and I always find a that they expect a more intimate experience on longer bookings.

I tend to be quite guarded about how much distance I keep between myself and the client, in order to protect myself mentally.

Still, sometimes all you can do is think of the money Honey! X

Same here , cant stand overnights now and I have 3 regulars that want them once a month!!!
I think of the money and try and push through them but im screaming on the inside  and im miserable the next day reliving the experience.

Had to cancel on one the other night.  he in particular annoys the heck out of me , its like every move he makes causes me angst or discomfort and he thinks they are unique and sexy ... one of them being to take spit from his mouth and rub on my nipples ( dribbling spit on other parts of my body  YUK YUK YUK)
ive jokingly said its a turn off but doesn't seem to have registered

im hoping i can get regular half hour clients i dont even want one hour clients anymore
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Re: Boring long bookings!
« Reply #21 on: 17 June 2021, 07:40:33 am »
im hoping i can get regular half hour clients i dont even want one hour clients anymore
I'm the same now. Since I started offering 30/45 mins, the one hour bookings have become a drag. I have one who is fairly regular and books an hour and although he's a nice guy, he is such hard work.

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Re: Boring long bookings!
« Reply #22 on: 21 June 2021, 03:28:00 pm »
I find 2 hour clients just drag on i couldnt do longer unless its somone I really like the company of and there are few.
Or that time goes far too slow and I'm trying to drag it out as I really dont want them asking for money back if it ended quickly
I had one guy but he was a reliable for over 2 years then started to cancel and just got on my nerves. Nowadays an hour is enough.

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« Reply #23 on: 21 June 2021, 04:40:41 pm »
I prefer longer bookings means less people to see but if someone is hardwork or awkward yes it can be very comsuming but i don't have to see them again.

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Re: Boring long bookings!
« Reply #24 on: 22 June 2021, 02:45:29 pm »
Hi

My name is Zoe and I am a mature caribbean woman and have just registered on SAAFE although I have looked at website several times before I joined.

I like long bookings.  Don't know why.  It just gives me time to get to know client and if they are boring, well I can always think of something to liven up the situation. 

My longest booking for 13 hours in a massage parlour I used to work in in Manchester.  Admittedly he was off his face but very amicable and charming.  He obviously couldn't do anything due to his intake of drugs but it didn't seem to  bother him.  He sent me to the off licence to buy booze and cigarettes so this broke up the time a little.  He spent his whole wage packet in that time and went home with no money but he was happy and so was I. 

I haven't had a long booking with someone that I cannot stand.  They are normally just 30 mins which suits me fine. And if I don't like them and they want long booking I just say lets just start with an hour and see how it goes. 

I really like my work and most of the customers I meet (now that I'm independent) want to spend time with a mature woman. 

I have other colleagues who hate long bookings.  But I really like doing them especially if client is chilled and gives no problems.

Does anybody else like long bookings?

 

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« Reply #25 on: 12 April 2024, 08:26:43 pm »
Welcome to our world, I wish you well. xx

I have a client who wants to buy me stuff, not things that I want but loads of weird stuff, he likes me to open presents in front of him.

Although it sounds sweet, it is actually really weird.

He books 4-5 hour meetings... thank you..

But it's just strange.

He brings trinkets for me, I wouldn't put them in my home, obviously because of where they came from.


The thing is, what I really want to say.... In my experience, the guys who want really long bookings are invariably not "right"

They can be obsessive, in love with you or, how do I say it? just not right!!!

If there is anything  that time and experience has taught me, go for the short meetings, check the feedback and be careful

If it doesn't smell right, it isn't.

You don't need to open your world to weirdos, there are many people who enjoy tis lifestyle who are safe. Be careful xx
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Re: Boring long bookings!
« Reply #26 on: 14 April 2024, 05:33:47 am »
I'm considering longer bookings in the place I've moved too as it's less footfall I find the residents here are really  friendly but might be nosey
If too many visitors came it might raise suspicion !
I've not done longer bookings in ages though and it's pacing myself in the two hours maximum that I need to manage and not rushing the services .


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Re: Boring long bookings!
« Reply #27 on: 16 April 2024, 04:39:37 pm »
I used to see this client a few years back for three or four hours. He used to get high and want to smother me in baby oil and rub myself against him. He barely got hard enough for sex. For me it was really boring but easy money.

Another books me for three hours but so difficult to talk to. I just get one word answers and have to keep the conversation going. He seems to be on a different planet as thinks we have excellent chemistry and loves our conversations. The sex isn't great either unlike with most of my clients.

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« Reply #28 on: 20 April 2024, 10:59:40 pm »
For 5 hours, you could suggest activities to pass the time. That don’t necessarily involve interacting with him.
Watching a film, passes a couple hours. Or a couple episodes of a tv show.
Or play a card game, could pass an hour or so. Or one of those sex related games where you roll a dice, could make it fun.
Are you always stuck in a room with him for that amount of time? Depending on the time of day you could order in food or get snacks or take a walk or something too.

Yeah but even that in itself can become really hard work.

I had one like this and he always wanted to turn up with gifts... like it was Xmas.

Drugstore earrings that made my ears green etc.

In the end I realised that although I like to market myself as upmarket, longish meetings only... in honesty a 30 minute £100 meet is great!!

Who wants do spend hours with an obsessive.... and they always are the weird ones!!
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Re: Boring long bookings!
« Reply #29 on: 21 April 2024, 06:50:35 am »
I rarely accept even a two hour meet these dsys. 90 mins is my maximum.

You never know how boring they are going to be until you meet them after all.

I was once given a really naff homemade candle. These type of items I donate to charity via the charity sacks that come through the letterbox.