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Mirror

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Re: Booking cancelled because I wouldn’t text the night before, fuming!!
« Reply #15 on: 17 October 2019, 06:08:01 pm »
i get you!!
over time ive become really irratated with clients txting shit like "hey how are you" or "hoping to see you one day "

if i dont reply they send a "?"

i now ask do you want a booking please read my page for my hours then get back to me "

stops 99% off it.

If I get 'RU free' in the night, I send back 'No'.

I have a template for sensiblish texts, those which aren't get a reply saying 'This phone does not accept text messages'.

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Re: Booking cancelled because I wouldn’t text the night before, fuming!!
« Reply #16 on: 17 October 2019, 08:10:23 pm »
This happens because so many men do not see sex work as a proper job or a business and this is why they push the boundaries either by texts or in the paid service time. Some have an attitude that they think we are desperate for money so will go beyond the call of duty. Just like when they expect you to give more time past there booking time if they have not exploded yet even though they have had enough time to. The worst ones are the ones that know you have another booking and need time to shower get ready but still do not want to leave or keep saying just 5 more minutes when they already gone over there time as it is.

I expect a lot of clients to behave like this it shows the level of repect they have for our paid job.
 

I hardly get guys that try to stay over time but I think I must be quite scary because one guy said from my profile it’s clear that I’m feisty and that’s really what I want, I don’t want men thinking I’m an easy touch.

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Re: Booking cancelled because I wouldn’t text the night before, fuming!!
« Reply #17 on: 18 October 2019, 09:03:18 am »
i get you!!
over time ive become really irratated with clients txting shit like "hey how are you" or "hoping to see you one day "

if i dont reply they send a "?"

i now ask do you want a booking please read my page for my hours then get back to me "

stops 99% off it.

Oh yeah these types are really annoying. I had an email the other day saying he "wanted to get to know more about me" cringe. I didn't bother to reply. I could have said book my 3 hour lunch date or something. You can guarantee he wont.

I found this behaviour several times with clients who've seen me once. They book again & then when you don't give them the reply they are expecting they cancel. They either want to continue the fantasy with no intention of seeing you again. Or they just don't know how to play it with being green. I'd say 90% of the time though they are just entitled jackasses.

This week I had a regular ask if I was available on my day off. He said he was treating himself for his birthday. This clown had my automated reply with my working days & has seen me 4 times so should know my working days & web address. I didn't bother to reply because he strikes me as a vulnerable narcissist. They hate being ignored & will move onto the next person quick enough. That's our best nemesis with these types. Or exercise grey rock technique (be dull & aloof).


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Re: Booking cancelled because I wouldn’t text the night before, fuming!!
« Reply #18 on: 26 October 2019, 12:56:55 pm »
When anyone texts with questions not actually related to how long he wants and what times hes available i have template texts ready and  I refer him back to my website.
If they ask for photos i tell them i dont hold any on my phone and refer them to the gallery on my website.
Any stupid sex texts i usually ignore/block or depending on my mood i may say this line is purely for placing a booking if you wish to text i am happy to do it via aw text option at £1.50 a text that usually makes them disappear lol 
GG x

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Re: Booking cancelled because I wouldn’t text the night before, fuming!!
« Reply #19 on: 05 November 2019, 03:29:24 pm »
I cancelled an advance booking for today after he sent a text asking for a picture.

I always feel like replying and asking for a picture of their credit card when I get this.

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Re: Booking cancelled because I wouldn’t text the night before, fuming!!
« Reply #20 on: 06 November 2019, 12:50:01 am »
I always feel like replying and asking for a picture of their credit card when I get this.

Stealing this. So awesome. I love you.♥️
An American on a British site, still learning the slang😉

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Re: Booking cancelled because I wouldn’t text the night before, fuming!!
« Reply #21 on: 06 November 2019, 02:19:00 pm »
Stealing this. So awesome. I love you.♥️

Let me know how it goes ♥️♥️♥️
« Last Edit: 06 November 2019, 02:39:22 pm by Porcelain »

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Re: Booking cancelled because I wouldn’t text the night before, fuming!!
« Reply #22 on: 06 November 2019, 06:45:57 pm »
Let me know how it goes ♥️♥️♥️

Probably down a similar well-worn road to when they insist they want to send you a photo and you tell them that a nice picture of a pile of crisp fifties would be lovely. Which it would, but they never send them :(

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Re: Booking cancelled because I wouldn’t text the night before, fuming!!
« Reply #23 on: 07 November 2019, 11:46:26 am »
Probably down a similar well-worn road to when they insist they want to send you a photo and you tell them that a nice picture of a pile of crisp fifties would be lovely. Which it would, but they never send them :(

Crisp fifties that they actually own! These idiots would probably use a picture off google
Or when they want to send the other type of picture to prove how "big" they are and if you can "handle" them. That's always cringe

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Re: Booking cancelled because I wouldn’t text the night before, fuming!!
« Reply #24 on: 07 November 2019, 12:37:23 pm »
Once in a while I get a text from an unknown and it contains a photo. Except it doesn't  ::) because my work phone is so basic it does not support image sending/receiving.

The phone is so ancient I almost have to wind it up.  :)

As I have said before I have no tolerance for those who want any chit chat or flirting either in between bookings or before a first one. They can jog on.

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Re: Booking cancelled because I wouldn’t text the night before, fuming!!
« Reply #25 on: 10 November 2019, 01:25:09 pm »
No one should be wasting no one time.

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Re: Booking cancelled because I wouldn’t text the night before, fuming!!
« Reply #26 on: 10 November 2019, 05:13:03 pm »
No one should be wasting no one time.

Unfortunately there are guys out there that make messing with us their livelihood; I always assume it's a power trip on their end. What they never seem to realize (or just don't care?) is there's dozens of websites devoted to them & their phone #s.🤷🏼‍♀️
An American on a British site, still learning the slang😉

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Re: Booking cancelled because I wouldn’t text the night before, fuming!!
« Reply #27 on: 16 December 2019, 11:29:19 pm »
Probably down a similar well-worn road to when they insist they want to send you a photo and you tell them that a nice picture of a pile of crisp fifties would be lovely. Which it would, but they never send them :(

Oh that's brilliant. I'm stealing this & telling them that I'm creaming my knickers at the very thought.  ;D

Mirror

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Re: Booking cancelled because I wouldn’t text the night before, fuming!!
« Reply #28 on: 18 December 2019, 11:50:21 am »
Probably down a similar well-worn road to when they insist they want to send you a photo and you tell them that a nice picture of a pile of crisp fifties would be lovely. Which it would, but they never send them :(

Except I have been sent this sort of photo cash plus two bottles resembling champagne, by two men who thought it would persuade me to accept their booking after declining on the basis there was another male involved (even knowledge by the other is enough to put me off). I have a strict no booze and I can't consume it full stop, and no other people involved policy (apart from MF couple who can both phone to speak on the same phone, at the same time which is as rare as hen's teeth).