I'm a phone sex operator and I offered one of my old clients to speak to me privately at a lower rate for him but a higher rate for me. He agreed and wanted a 'freebie' first. So I accommodated him as he promised to pay into my account for future and no more freebies until he buys time. One morning he begged to have free time with me again and I told him I was busy. He said he'll pay into my account if I do it, so I agreed and gave him another freebie. Then he asked me for my real name and I said I'd tell him 'soon'. He then hit the roof and ignored me until I made contact with him again. We had pleasant text talk until I asked him whether he would be having time with me soon, to which he said only if I tell him my real name now! I told him that's blackmail and he said he'll have to end the friendship, and I'm so mad that he took advantage of me!!!

Would you have told him your real name (I could have easily falsified one as my real name is very distinct) and allowed him to blackmail you?

Interested in hearing perspectives.

I'd have ignored him the second he became a pest and crossing the line whether he was a regular in the last or not.

No I wouldn't have given him my name and nor would I be upset about loosing his "friendship" you don't want friends like that anyway.

I have given a few trusted regs my real name but neither of those clients have ever crossed the line with anything.

In this case, I wouldn't have given him my real name so you did the right thing.

In future ignore and block him, he's not a good clients at all.

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+1 He would have been gone the moment he started asking about freebies.

I gave a webcam client a fake real name once. He was a Dom client and I had a feeling he wanted to feel like he was super special too.  He started asking for freebies too. He never got any.

i hope you learn from this and don't give any freebies in the future, especially when you are already giving a discounted rate. This guy was pushing your bouderies which is always a no no whether on the phone or in the flesh!

Learn from this, can't add much more than the above.
I imagine we've all had slip ups letting our guard down at times but you need to learn from it and NEVER allow anyone to behave like that

I agree with all of the above- these kind of clientele are like feral cats; once you feed them something for free they'll keep coming back- until the freebies stop.