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Title: Bla, Bla, Blogs.
Post by: Violette on 24 January 2010, 01:02:52 pm
I would love to ad links of ladies who blog to my blog, please let me know if you would like to be added to mine.
http://escortviolette.wordpress.com/
Title: Re: Bla, Bla, Blogs.
Post by: EmilyJones on 24 January 2010, 02:54:53 pm
Violette, I love you and I love your cat. ;D If it's okay, I'll add your blog to my list of links and if you want to add me, my blog is here: http://www.emily-jones.co.uk/blogposts-and-news

(Edited to update my web addy!)
Title: Re: Bla, Bla, Blogs.
Post by: melody on 24 January 2010, 03:31:05 pm
Yey! A blogroll! I have sinfully little links too, so here's mine and I'll add yours :)

http://melodybbw.wordpress.com/
Title: Re: Bla, Bla, Blogs.
Post by: Violette on 24 January 2010, 11:57:09 pm
Added them, thanks.
Title: Re: Bla, Bla, Blogs.
Post by: Scarlett Syn on 26 January 2010, 07:46:59 pm
Hi

I just started a blog. Now, I am not too sure why. Are they searchable and do 'clients' actually read them?

Thanks
Scarlett
Title: Re: Bla, Bla, Blogs.
Post by: EmilyJones on 26 January 2010, 08:27:18 pm
I believe that most blogs (Wordpress, Blogger etc?) are pretty good at improving your Google rankings, though I'm a bit allergic to SEO - it makes me go bleh. :P I think Anika Mae and Anjali know an awful lot more about this though.

A lot of my clients have told me they read my blog, some even follow me on Twitter, and often they generally say they like the friendliness/approachability of my site as my "personality comes through". But that's just my clients - I've heard of others that find the idea of wasting time reading a whore's blog abhorrent. So in answer, some like them, some don't! Best only write a blog if you fancy it. You'll obviously get more readers if you talk about how much you love cock and gulping down gallons of jizz etc but you don't need to at all - even a boring blog like mine has a resident perv. ;D

I actually like to read other escorts' blogs, not to much to compare jizz-gulping rates but just to be a little nosy and find out a bit more about them or the issues that they're thinking about at the time which might be similar to mine. I used to read Peridot Ash (http://peridotash.wordpress.com/) but she's off doing other things now. And there was a big 'Alexa (http://www.realprincessdiaries.com/)' controversy recently which possibly ended with threats on the poor man/woman's life, but I don't think s/he's fully disappeared.

Er, that probably put you thoroughly off blogs - sorry! Normally they can just be a fun little marketing tool. As with anything on Teh Internetz, taking it too seriously is a path to madness.
Title: Re: Bla, Bla, Blogs.
Post by: Scarlett Syn on 26 January 2010, 10:33:10 pm
Thank you! My first post came to mind very naturally. I thought I'd be pounding my head to write it. It actually may become an issue! I liked writing it that much.

Here is mine: http://scarlettsyn.wordpress.com/

I am still fiddling with things. It isn't pretty! It's going to drive me nuts. I will be adding you ladies in a minute.
Title: Re: Bla, Bla, Blogs.
Post by: Scarlett Syn on 26 January 2010, 10:38:21 pm
Note: I am a bit silly, too forward and may offend a few. It is a humour clash that I don't feel like suppressing in my blog. Mainly the WHORE thing. I call myself a whore. I am sure that is a completely different thread/fiasco to post--no offence!
Title: Re: Bla, Bla, Blogs.
Post by: amy on 26 January 2010, 11:31:47 pm
Note: I am a bit silly, too forward and may offend a few. It is a humour clash that I don't feel like suppressing in my blog. Mainly the WHORE thing. I call myself a whore. I am sure that is a completely different thread/fiasco to post--no offence!

Hi Scarlett and welcome to SAAFE!

Like Emily, I dont know that much about SEO, but I'm sure I read somewhere that one of the reasons blogs are picked up so well by Google is because it likes new things, and a blog tends to be updated more regularly than a website text.

I enjoy writing mine, and it brings me many great clients. I had no idea it would be so popular when I started it - some reach the blog from other links without ever seeing the site first, and it has been the deciding factor in meeting some of my favourite gents from all over the country, even abroad. Even more surprising considering it's mostly incredibly mundane subjectwise - sometimes I have a 'theme' and sometimes not, but it all helps to flesh you out a bit as a person and can be really valuable for nervous newbies who might be struggling for things to talk about when they first meet you.

I wouldn't worry about offending people - maybe a few years ago the word 'whore' would have raised an eyebrow, but the idea that it might shock now seems a little quaint. I personally loathe the word 'escort' and only use it on my site because Google would ignore it otherwise - it's entirely a personal matter how you describe yourself and at the end of the day, most people are going to be far more interested in you getting your kit off :D.

Title: Re: Bla, Bla, Blogs.
Post by: Violette on 27 January 2010, 02:13:09 pm
To be honest, my blogging started  as a way for me to keep a web presence even though I wasn't advertised as working. I have found that it was a better alternative to posting in the site forum, which was getting me into trouble. It allowed me to express my personality, but at the same time not offend some of the ignorant moppets that proliferate all forums. I mean seriously, who the hell cares about what perfume I am wearing , or if my cat is sitting in my bag? But if you can offer another dimension of your soul, it is good for business.
Adding blog, oh and welcome Scarlett Lady.:)
Title: Re: Bla, Bla, Blogs.
Post by: Violette on 27 January 2010, 02:20:32 pm
Ok, I have been using Blogger for some time now, but after looking at a few ladies on here blogs, I am kinda a grooving on Wordpress. So I am in the process of moving my blog over to there. So, what I will do is add yous guys links to both places and when the big switch is made, I will ask everyone to update their links. Sorry  ???, but Wordpress looks so much more nicer, and is upgradeable.
Title: Re: Bla, Bla, Blogs.
Post by: EmilyJones on 27 January 2010, 04:41:12 pm
Ok, I have been using Blogger for some time now, but after looking at a few ladies on here blogs, I am kinda a grooving on Wordpress. So I am in the process of moving my blog over to there. So, what I will do is add yous guys links to both places and when the big switch is made, I will ask everyone to update their links. Sorry  ???, but Wordpress looks so much more nicer, and is upgradeable.

Wordpress is nomnomnom. And even a spanner like me managed to make an only-semi-broken custom theme. Gets a little more broken every time I tinker with it, though... and the link to it should actually be http://www.emily-jones.co.uk/blogposts-and-news

(Edited to update my web addy!)
Title: Re: Bla, Bla, Blogs.
Post by: Violette on 28 January 2010, 07:56:03 am
For those of you ladies who has added my blog to your roll, please forgive me, but I switched from Blogger to Wordpress, cause it was so sexy, and now that the move has been completed, here is the new address:
http://escortviolette.wordpress.com/.
Your links are already there. Kisses V
Title: Re: Bla, Bla, Blogs.
Post by: anonymoussw on 01 February 2010, 07:03:02 pm
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Like Emily, I dont know that much about SEO, but I'm sure I read somewhere that one of the reasons blogs are picked up so well by Google is because it likes new things, and a blog tends to be updated more regularly than a website text.

Broadly speaking (though most of what I am writing here is a dramatic simplification of something that is actually rather mystical and immensely complicated) Google analyses web pages based on prominent keywords anywhere in the webpage text or header. If you write a webpage about donkey farming, titled "why donkeys make good farm animals", it is conceivable that your webpage will come up when searched for with any of those words. Words like "good" obviously are likely to be found on far more pages and so it is unlikely you will get a good ranking. However if someone searches for "donkey farming", statistically there will be less pages containing both those words. Ok, pretty elementary stuff.

Back in the old days, websites used to try to manipulate search engines by using 'portal pages' - nonsense pages which linked to their websites, containing content designed specifically to manipulate search algorithms. Often simply pages containing thousands of completely unrelated keywords, giving the page the chance to come up in as many different searches as possible.

This doesn't work with Google because:
 

This is still pretty elementary. What I wanted to get to was the following: Google doesn't index websites, it indexes individual pages. The more individual pages with unique, original content on your website the more "donkey farming" coloured marbles are thrown into Google's proverbial basket. Because most good blogging platforms give each post it's own individual page (usually linked to from the post title) every time you write a post on your blog, you are increasing the statistical probability that someone will stumble upon your website. This is why a page from Wikipedia will so often be present in search listings. Everyone links to it, and there is literally millions upon millions of pages all of which are in the Google index.

A further point I wanted to add while I was on the subject of SEO is that if you are linking using people's banner ads and you aren't using wordpress, make sure to fill the 'alt' attribute with a few keywords in the HTML <img> tag (Google it if you are not sure) as this will help to improve the search rankings of the target site.


Oh PS - Wordpress is awesome!
Title: Re: Bla, Bla, Blogs.
Post by: anonymoussw on 01 February 2010, 07:04:27 pm
Uh sorry. That wasn't meant to be a lecture. I just started writing and didn't stop. Right, back to my uni work...
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Post by: Sarita on 02 February 2010, 10:49:06 am
That was very useful, actually Benny! Thanks..
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Post by: anonymoussw on 02 February 2010, 10:53:13 am
That was very useful, actually Benny! Thanks..

No problem.

That'll be £100 please  ;)
Title: Re: Bla, Bla, Blogs.
Post by: Sarita on 02 February 2010, 12:17:41 pm
That was very useful, actually Benny! Thanks..

No problem.

That'll be ?100 please  ;)

LOL! Cheeky sod  :)
Title: Re: Bla, Bla, Blogs.
Post by: cassie on 03 March 2010, 02:24:30 am
Late to the party as usual, but would all the ladies that exchanged blog roll links with Violette be happy to exchange with me?

http://www.classycassieinchester.com/blog/

By the way I can recommend the "all in one SEO" plug in on wordpress.
Title: Re: Bla, Bla, Blogs.
Post by: Violette on 03 March 2010, 06:55:43 am
Added!  :-*
Title: Re: Bla, Bla, Blogs.
Post by: cassie on 04 March 2010, 05:26:46 pm
Thanks Violette,

The Daily Grind is on my blog roll now.

Emily  I have added your blog to my blog roll too.
Title: Re: Bla, Bla, Blogs.
Post by: EmilyJones on 04 March 2010, 07:12:14 pm
Woo! I'll add you asap Cassie - will give me a good reason to add an update/post, too, since I am so boring I have had nothing to say for yonks! Probably even my lone commenting perv has moved onto greener pastures. *sob*
Title: Re: Bla, Bla, Blogs.
Post by: cassie on 05 March 2010, 12:16:40 am
Emily - Can't having you feeling bereft, so I left you a comment.
 I've never had anyone leave a comment on my blog anyway, so don't miss it.  ;)

Also made me think I should post about adding you and Vi to bring readers attention to you ladies.
Title: Re: Bla, Bla, Blogs.
Post by: Violette on 05 March 2010, 09:17:10 am
Awww Cassie. That is so sweet.  :-*
Title: Re: Bla, Bla, Blogs.
Post by: EmilyJones on 05 March 2010, 11:29:14 am
Yes it is, thank you. :) I've actually had a fair few clients now mention my blog and 'blog surf' for recommended other WGs to see. So it's certainly not a completely thankless task keeping up a blog!

Have to say it can also be a perfect place to get something off your chest, as long as I remember to keep vague about any details. Whew.
Title: Re: Bla, Bla, Blogs.
Post by: cassie on 05 March 2010, 09:46:56 pm
Can only second that.

I was actually surprised at how many comments I got about my blog.
Title: Re: Bla, Bla, Blogs.
Post by: ScottishBBW on 08 March 2010, 11:36:24 pm
Ok, totally yonks behind everyone else but....just wanted to announce that I too now have a blog and would love it if you ladies wouldn't mind taking a peek? Very happy to add anyone to my blogroll :-)

Rosie xxx
Title: Re: Bla, Bla, Blogs.
Post by: Violette on 09 March 2010, 08:50:46 am
Consider yourself on a roll. :)
Title: Re: Bla, Bla, Blogs.
Post by: Lucymay on 10 March 2010, 10:47:10 am
Anyone else apart from Violette on twitter ?  Just created an account.
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Post by: EmilyJones on 10 March 2010, 12:01:48 pm
Rosie - you're on my blogroll now, too!

I'm on Twitter as well! - www.twitter.com/callemily
Title: Re: Bla, Bla, Blogs.
Post by: ScottishBBW on 10 March 2010, 12:41:02 pm
Thank you ladies! Have added you all!
Anyone else apart from Violette on twitter ?  Just created an account.

I'm going to create an account too - will keep you in ze loop!

Rosie xxx
Title: Re: Bla, Bla, Blogs.
Post by: LauraLee on 10 March 2010, 01:12:45 pm
I'm on twitter : http://twitter.com/Laura_Escort

...and my blog is; http://lauraslifeandthoughts.blogspot.com/

Anyone who would like to be added to my blogroll give me a shout. :)
Title: Re: Bla, Bla, Blogs.
Post by: cassie on 12 March 2010, 12:54:06 pm
Rosie, Laura - will add you both to my blog roll this weekend, love to be added to yours too.  :-*
Title: Re: Bla, Bla, Blogs.
Post by: cassie on 15 March 2010, 02:22:35 am
Thank you ladies! Have added you all!

Rosie xxx

Hey Rosie, have added you and Laura, but I couldn't see a blog roll on your blog?

Or am I being stupid?

xx
Title: Re: Bla, Bla, Blogs.
Post by: Alexa on 15 March 2010, 02:59:27 pm
I've just made twitter too! (though have no idea what I'm really meant to do with it, but hey)

http://twitter.com/Alexa_Escort

Can I add you ladies? Blog coming soon too... (shows how bored with revision I am lol!)xx
Title: Re: Bla, Bla, Blogs.
Post by: EmilyJones on 15 March 2010, 03:01:21 pm
I've just made twitter too! (though have no idea what I'm really meant to do with it, but hey)

http://twitter.com/Alexa_Escort


I think I'm your first follower! ;D
Title: Re: Bla, Bla, Blogs.
Post by: Scarlett Syn on 15 March 2010, 05:17:44 pm
I just added everyones twitter...I don't use it as much as I used to use my real one. This one is going to be my real one. Jordan Rubin should be my boyfriend.

I am so undisciplined! I must update my blog and everything else...

Mine is http://twitter.com/scarlettsyn
Title: Re: Bla, Bla, Blogs.
Post by: LauraLee on 16 March 2010, 07:28:14 pm
Rosie, Laura - will add you both to my blog roll this weekend, love to be added to yours too.  :-*

Will do, as soon as I get home from my incall flat and have an internet connection faster than
feckin' pigeons.  >:( :-[
Title: Re: Bla, Bla, Blogs.
Post by: Mango on 25 March 2010, 01:46:46 pm
I've gone and made myself a blog too. I'll start adding everybody as soon as I get a basic feel for it.

A friend send me the 'Wordpress Bible', I've uploaded it in case any of you are interested.
http://rapidshare.com/files/367983553/Wordpress_Bible__2010_.pdf.html (http://rapidshare.com/files/367983553/Wordpress_Bible__2010_.pdf.html)
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Post by: UrbaneAspects on 25 March 2010, 03:36:35 pm
Yep, me too...time to start blogging. But now, if I blog, that means I expect responses  :P
Title: Re: Bla, Bla, Blogs.
Post by: Mango on 25 March 2010, 04:00:31 pm
I haven't managed to understand how to SEO yet, so I think I'll  have to be patient. Wordpress confuses me, maybe I should have stuck with livejournal, I had one when I was in my teens, oh, how I loved it. The wangst!
Title: Re: Bla, Bla, Blogs.
Post by: cassie on 27 March 2010, 12:11:24 am
I haven't managed to understand how to SEO yet, so I think I'll  have to be patient. Wordpress confuses me, maybe I should have stuck with livejournal, I had one when I was in my teens, oh, how I loved it. The wangst!

Have you installed the 'All in One SEO Pack' plug in?

It makes it really easy and seems to work well.
Title: Re: Bla, Bla, Blogs.
Post by: sophleeds24 on 27 March 2010, 09:55:49 am
Just added everyone on Twitter, I'm Eva in case anyone wondered!
Title: Re: Bla, Bla, Blogs.
Post by: Mango on 29 March 2010, 03:22:58 pm
Cassie, thanks, but I have a simple .com  wordpress, so I don't think I can do plugins. I should really get a website etc, but as I don't need one until I start touring I keep on putting it off.

I've added everyone who commented here to my blogroll, if you wish to reciprocate: http://escortjoline.wordpress.com/ (http://escortjoline.wordpress.com/)
It isn't much yet, but I don't feel that I will ever be happy with it.

If more people want to be on my blogroll, please pm me. Especially if you do touring.
Title: Re: Bla, Bla, Blogs.
Post by: Alexa on 29 March 2010, 05:58:32 pm
Just added everyone on Twitter, I'm Eva in case anyone wondered!

I did wonder who she was! Lol :)
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Post by: cassie on 29 March 2010, 08:25:19 pm
Cassie, thanks, but I have a simple .com  wordpress, so I don't think I can do plugins. I should really get a website etc, but as I don't need one until I start touring I keep on putting it off.

My blog is wordpress.com I think the only difference is that mine is linked to my website, you should be able to add plugins.
Title: Re: Bla, Bla, Blogs.
Post by: EmilyJones on 30 March 2010, 07:52:45 pm
Cassie, thanks, but I have a simple .com  wordpress, so I don't think I can do plugins. I should really get a website etc, but as I don't need one until I start touring I keep on putting it off.

I've added everyone who commented here to my blogroll, if you wish to reciprocate: http://escortjoline.wordpress.com/ (http://escortjoline.wordpress.com/)
It isn't much yet, but I don't feel that I will ever be happy with it.

If more people want to be on my blogroll, please pm me. Especially if you do touring.

I've added you to my blogroll now, sorry about the slowness!

I can't remember if you can install plugins into Wordpress without downloading it and installing it on your own server and Googling it brings up complicated geekery. If you can add plugins to a Wordpress-hosted blog, you'll probably have noticed the button on the left hand side of the admin panel, but if not, it probably won't be there. Sorry to be useless, my brain is not switched on today!
Title: Re: Bla, Bla, Blogs.
Post by: Violette on 05 April 2010, 09:45:19 pm
Added you as well.
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Post by: LauraLee on 05 April 2010, 11:20:49 pm
Ok I've added everyone I think, happy blogging girls.  :-*
Title: Re: Bla, Bla, Blogs.
Post by: Amanda on 06 April 2010, 01:32:58 am
Ladies, there is a world of difference between wordpress.org which is a place where you can download the wordpress software to run on your own site (This is  what I have, in fact my whole site runs on it) and wordpress.com which is where you get to use the software installed on their site. On their site the options are much more limited.


Now, remind me tomorrow, I must update my blogroll :D
Title: Re: Bla, Bla, Blogs.
Post by: Mango on 08 April 2010, 09:18:25 am
Thank you! My first post came to mind very naturally. I thought I'd be pounding my head to write it. It actually may become an issue! I liked writing it that much.

Here is mine: http://scarlettsyn.wordpress.com/

I am still fiddling with things. It isn't pretty! It's going to drive me nuts. I will be adding you ladies in a minute.

Scarlett did you delete your blog? Did you get a new one, I'd like to keep my blog roll up to date.
Title: Re: Bla, Bla, Blogs.
Post by: Mango on 14 April 2010, 03:09:46 pm
Sorry to revive an old threat, but I've created a twitter account. (too much free time lately, I'm such a procrastinator) escortjoline is my username, I'll be adding you all this evening!
Title: Re: Bla, Bla, Blogs.
Post by: UrbaneAspects on 19 April 2010, 01:41:25 am
Sorry to revive an old threat, but I've created a twitter account. (too much free time lately, I'm such a procrastinator) escortjoline is my username, I'll be adding you all this evening!

ESCORT JOLINE  >:(

Was that YOU leaving derogatory comments on my blog? I recieved a comment that shows that your username was the one that made the comment, but for some reason the IP address is leading to someone here in my city?
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Post by: EmilyJones on 19 April 2010, 08:32:59 am
Either way, Joey, if a reader requests an update it's generally a compliment. Most blogs you just look at and think to yourself that if you never see anything so awful and badly-written and self-indulgent again it'll be too soon. I like to also inspire a bit of nausea and a facial tic in my 'readers' (/random odd commenters). ;D
Title: Re: Bla, Bla, Blogs.
Post by: UrbaneAspects on 19 April 2010, 08:47:40 am
oh well thanks  :)

actually, a local escort here has been trying to place derogatory comments on my blog (how he found out I even had a blog is beyond me).

Its amazing how people will go out of their way to embarrase and humiliate their competition. I wouldnt be surprised if he posted something here at SAAFE. Me-thinks he's a lurker.

I wish we could all get together, love and hug.
Title: Re: Bla, Bla, Blogs.
Post by: Mango on 19 April 2010, 10:12:45 am


ESCORT JOLINE  >:(

Was that YOU leaving derogatory comments on my blog? I recieved a comment that shows that your username was the one that made the comment, but for some reason the IP address is leading to someone here in my city?

What? No! Why would I do that, really? I only left a comment asking you to update, are you sure you didn't get two comments from two different people?
And clearly, I am not where ever you are.
Title: Re: Bla, Bla, Blogs.
Post by: amy on 19 April 2010, 10:22:33 am
Sorry to revive an old threat, but I've created a twitter account. (too much free time lately, I'm such a procrastinator) escortjoline is my username, I'll be adding you all this evening!

ESCORT JOLINE  >:(

Was that YOU leaving derogatory comments on my blog? I recieved a comment that shows that your username was the one that made the comment, but for some reason the IP address is leading to someone here in my city?

Joey, I don't believe that the PM system is broken. Stick to the topic please, and if you want to make personal accusations do it off the board.
Title: Re: Bla, Bla, Blogs.
Post by: UrbaneAspects on 19 April 2010, 06:34:51 pm
Apparently it was all a mistake. Someone who posted on my blog used the username Escort Joline when posting. By no means is Mango the suspect.

Ok, we can turn this topic back around LOL.
Title: Re: Bla, Bla, Blogs.
Post by: UrbaneAspects on 21 April 2010, 07:53:03 pm
oK, I'm starting to like this whole blog thing now LOL...

What I like the most is, I can post something...and then if I decide I shouldn't have, I can just 'trash' the post, whereas with a forum, you say something and have to be prepared to 'fight it' for days or weeks on end LOL.

I just miss the fact that on a blog, people dont tend to respond as much  :P
Title: Re: Bla, Bla, Blogs.
Post by: EmilyJones on 21 April 2010, 08:29:05 pm
I just miss the fact that on a blog, people dont tend to respond as much  :P

You'll gain readers and commenters. Be patient. Perhaps start browsing other people's blogs and politely inquiring about reciprocal links - you have to give to get in the blogosphere, as with anything. :)
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Post by: Anika Mae on 21 April 2010, 08:36:11 pm
You need to give readers something. The only real post on your blog for weeks was copied from here, and as far as I know we're the only ones you've told about it.

You also do need to work a bit harder to get people to follow your blog, but I keep telling you that if you want to collect people who'll comment, livejournal is the best place for you.
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Post by: xw5 on 21 April 2010, 10:16:00 pm
if you want to collect people who'll comment, livejournal is the best place for you.

LJ is the online home of much of at least one community I'm a member of, and yes, if you network, you will get some attention. As with anywhere else, if no-one knows you're there, they're not going to comment.
Title: Re: Bla, Bla, Blogs.
Post by: Alexa on 24 June 2010, 09:12:20 am
Hey! Sorry to revive old thread, but wondered if could be added to people's blogrolls? Finally got mine sorted - think I've added most of you, but it's too early in the morning to be certain!

This is mine:
http://edinburghalexa.com/blog

Thank you! :D xx
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Post by: Stephanies Secrets on 24 June 2010, 01:54:59 pm
Oh! Look! Look! I tweeted! https://twitter.com/StephanieSecret (https://twitter.com/StephanieSecret) I feel very brave and clever now  :D

Anything invented before your fifteenth birthday is the order of nature. That's how it should be. Anything invented between your 15th and 35th birthday is new and exciting, and you might get a career there. Anything invented after that day, however, is against nature and should be prohibited. - Douglas Adams

I will be getting a blog too, all part of Operation Super Ho... but never mind that for now - I tweeted  ;D
Title: Re: Bla, Bla, Blogs.
Post by: UrbaneAspects on 24 June 2010, 03:17:18 pm
You also do need to work a bit harder to get people to follow your blog, but I keep telling you that if you want to collect people who'll comment, livejournal is the best place for you.

I've been getting some comments from wordpress. Finally got a local girl to respond to a blog of mine...how do people find me? LOL
Title: Re: Bla, Bla, Blogs.
Post by: Stephanies Secrets on 24 June 2010, 04:37:07 pm
Oh, now I have a follower! A lovely lady in Bradford *waves manically in the direction of Bradford*  ;D

I am also now following ladies here who have put up their twittery things  ;D

Yes, I am still extraordinarily pleased with myself. I will make another cup of tea and try to calm down.





Too late, Alexa is following me too *bursts with excitement*
Title: Re: Bla, Bla, Blogs.
Post by: Alexa on 24 June 2010, 04:52:07 pm
Lol, was about to reply going 'What about meeeee??'  :D
Title: Re: Bla, Bla, Blogs.
Post by: Violette on 24 June 2010, 07:10:50 pm
Alexa you have been added.
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Post by: Lucy Chambers on 24 June 2010, 09:03:08 pm
Hi all


Im officially a twit..erm I mean twitterer...could anyone please add me as I am feeling a little lonely out there (0 followers, 2 tweets)  ;D

http:twitter.com/lucyleescort
Title: Re: Bla, Bla, Blogs.
Post by: amy on 25 June 2010, 04:29:19 pm
Hey! Sorry to revive old thread, but wondered if could be added to people's blogrolls? Finally got mine sorted - think I've added most of you, but it's too early in the morning to be certain!

This is mine:
http://edinburghalexa.com/blog

Thank you! :D xx

Done! I've been overhauling my blog and think I've got just about everybody but do step up if not (Joey, I know you're in the Ladies bit but I can't help that).

If anybody wants to join in with my new Not On Twitter section, say and I'll put your link on, although looking at this thread I won't hold my breath  ;D.
Title: Re: Bla, Bla, Blogs.
Post by: Stephanies Secrets on 25 June 2010, 08:43:26 pm
My blog is in progress  ;D

I have so far resisted the temptation to throw my laptop off the balcony, give up, and go and live under a stone. That took a fair amount of self control.

However, I have taken the liberty of adding you lovely ladies, and lovely Joey, to my Blogroll. I hope this isn't some terrible blogging faux pas, if it is then just let me know and I'll remove the link.

I'll post with a link to mine once it's fit to be seen. If I'm never heard from again then the laptop is in bits in the street and I'm under that stone.

Edit: I've also added a link to the main Saafe site, if this is another faux pas, or excessively stupid for some reason I've not thought of, then someone please let me know  :-\
Title: Re: Bla, Bla, Blogs.
Post by: April on 26 June 2010, 06:03:57 pm
Oh, now I have a follower! A lovely lady in Bradford *waves manically in the direction of Bradford*  ;D

That was me  :P
Title: Re: Bla, Bla, Blogs.
Post by: Stephanies Secrets on 26 June 2010, 06:09:08 pm
Oh, now I have a follower! A lovely lady in Bradford *waves manically in the direction of Bradford*  ;D

That was me  :P

Oooh! Did you see me waving?  ;D
Title: Re: Bla, Bla, Blogs.
Post by: April on 26 June 2010, 06:16:51 pm
Oh, now I have a follower! A lovely lady in Bradford *waves manically in the direction of Bradford*  ;D

That was me  :P

Oooh! Did you see me waving?  ;D

Nope, I'll get some binoculars for next time  ;D
Title: Re: Bla, Bla, Blogs.
Post by: LauraLee on 28 June 2010, 02:43:43 pm
Oh, now I have a follower! A lovely lady in Bradford *waves manically in the direction of Bradford*  ;D

That was me  :P

Oooh! Did you see me waving?  ;D

I'm following you now - you should follow Aunty Vi, she's hysterical.  ;D
Title: Re: Bla, Bla, Blogs.
Post by: Stephanies Secrets on 28 June 2010, 04:46:13 pm
It's done  ;D http://www.stephaniessecrets.co.uk/blog/ (http://www.stephaniessecrets.co.uk/blog/)

I suppose I should think of something to write on it now! Something more interesting than "I've got a blog!", which is only interesting and terribly exciting to people who are me.

Coooeee Laura! I'm waving at you too! It's not as accurate as waving at Bradford, that's only next door, but I'm waving sort of north  ;D And following Auntie Vi, ta!
Title: Re: Bla, Bla, Blogs.
Post by: Amber Sweetpetite on 28 June 2010, 06:52:39 pm
There are quite a few on here I need to put on my blog. Will make a start right now x

Ok added

Amy
Melody
Cassie
Rosie
Joline
Alexa
Stephanie.

I think everyone else is already on mine. Have I missed anyone?

Here's mine http://www.sweetpetite.co.uk/blog/ (http://www.sweetpetite.co.uk/blog/)
Title: Re: Bla, Bla, Blogs.
Post by: cassie on 04 July 2010, 08:43:44 pm
I have just added Amber, Stephanie and Alexa to my blog roll, sorry, just can't bring myself to start a twitter account, so still resisting.

Is there anyone else I need to add?
Title: Re: Bla, Bla, Blogs.
Post by: Lucy Chambers on 05 July 2010, 06:11:56 pm
A small question for the bloggers..and jump on me if it is a ridiculous one. I am pretty able to string a sentance together, but i have been looking at this thing for a couple of days now and I just don't know what to blog about?! I will go and do some homework, but, how do you get your ideas and inspiration> A lot of my day to day living is pretty average and pretty boring...other than fantasising im running out of steam here.. ???
Title: Re: Bla, Bla, Blogs.
Post by: EmilyJones on 05 July 2010, 06:42:20 pm
I like to write about issues that I'm thinking/learning about, usually connected to sex work but not necessarily (although I don't want to risk talking about something personal that would give my real identity away). My fave blogs are the ones where the writer discusses things that are important to them in a knowledgeable way so I would obviously make a recommendation for doing that!

If you make your blog as titillating as possible, on the other hand, it will make the Internet Wankers happy! And some of those will likely become clients. So it's worth doing if you enjoy erotic writing and don't get annoyed at clients turning up and giving you a leery look as they whisper seductively, "I read your blog..." with that expectant pause as I try to work out what they want me to say about it. Oh, you read that bit about how I'm a massive feminist and now want to talk about social issues? Awesome! Oh wait, no, you looked at my candid pics and want to fuck. Okay, cool, get in the shower then. :P ...To be honest, I find it hard to write in my blog as I really feel like I don't know who I'm writing to. Normally I wait til I'm feeling like I want to work and be sexy for money and then try to write a flirty little post cos otherwise, I end up writing something weird and introspective, like this post here! And I don't want clients to see that, really. So, er, yes. Sorry to be totally unhelpful. ;D
Title: Re: Bla, Bla, Blogs.
Post by: Lucy Chambers on 05 July 2010, 06:49:56 pm
Thanks Emily   ;D

That's the problem, who I am pitching it to.. The clients...I just feel so daft, and every blog that I have read is really good but sooo not my style. I am going to do some reading and then take the plunge.



Title: Re: Bla, Bla, Blogs.
Post by: cassie on 08 July 2010, 11:54:44 pm
I do try to get a bit of a saucy link, some innuendo or a reference to sex and escorting into every blog, but sometimes it doesn't fit. TBH I don't care at that point I just enjoy writing about something that has caught my attention, tickled me or just a random mundane thought or experience.

I suppose it helps that I can see something sexual in most things and hint at them. I am not into obvious pornographic writing and don't see the point in pretending to be so some guy can get a vicarious thrill from reading.
Title: Re: Bla, Bla, Blogs.
Post by: amy on 09 July 2010, 12:05:45 am
I never write even remotely sexy stuff - I wouldn't know how and it would come out incredibly contrived and forced so I've never tried  :-\. I try to keep a balance between straight 'diary' style posts with news in (although nothing much ever happens, but people seem to like it), information about visits, availability and so on as well as the odd one covering political and legal stuff, although not too often as I know too much earnest drumbanging puts people off.

Mostly it's just accounts of what I've had to eat that week (and what I might eat this week), anywhere I've been or am going to and various bits of waffle tacked together with a few pictures - I often take some on my BlackBerry whilst I'm out and about and make collages to put on the blog, which is quite nice. I do mention bookings and clients obliquely on occasion but never in any sort of explicit way - it wouldn't suit me at all and since I get quite a lot of business through the blog I wouldn't want people to get the wrong impression of what I'm like  :D.
Title: Re: Bla, Bla, Blogs.
Post by: Lucy Chambers on 09 July 2010, 12:14:00 am
Thank you ladies. I have looked at your blogs and they all read so well, which is what my efforts lack. When I read it back to myself it reads like the letters page in just17. And while you guys and others manage to merge being personal and interesting, I just come across as a ...bitch lol.

I have done a few on aw, but i cringe when I read them. I sound like jenny jones does ...
Title: Re: Bla, Bla, Blogs.
Post by: cassie on 09 July 2010, 12:14:28 am
I do mention bookings and clients obliquely on occasion but never in any sort of explicit way - it wouldn't suit me at all and since I get quite a lot of business through the blog I wouldn't want people to get the wrong impression of what I'm like  :D.

Yeah, thank you Amy, I was kind of going in that direction with what I was saying, just didn't get there, lol - I also think being to explicit in my blog would attract the wrong type of client for me.
Title: Re: Bla, Bla, Blogs.
Post by: *amber* on 12 July 2010, 09:52:00 pm
Heya girlies,

I have added you all to my blog roll and would REALLY appreciate if you add me... http://alana69.wordpress.com/

Thank you in advance

Kisses

Amber
Title: Re: Bla, Bla, Blogs.
Post by: EmilyJones on 13 July 2010, 09:57:34 am
Heya girlies,

I have added you all to my blog roll and would REALLY appreciate if you add me... http://alana69.wordpress.com/

Thank you in advance

Kisses

Amber

Added! Yay. :D
Title: Re: Bla, Bla, Blogs.
Post by: *amber* on 13 July 2010, 11:20:40 am
oooohhhh excited!!!
Title: Re: Bla, Bla, Blogs.
Post by: cassie on 14 July 2010, 12:46:46 am
Your on my blogroll Amber, thanks for adding me to yours. X
Title: Re: Bla, Bla, Blogs.
Post by: Susan Glasgow on 10 August 2010, 12:15:08 am
I tend to write about anything really. Well, that's why I entitled it ' Susan's Thoughts & Musings...'

I fill it with humour (well, things that I find amusing anyway), things that happened on tours, and also things that are close to my heart (My latest blog is about Domestic Violence and Women's Aid).

I know that not everyone agrees with what I write - but it's MY blog and I'll write it my way, lol...

http://susan-glasgow-escort.blogspot.com/?zx=85014431bdd84893

I have just added loads more ladies and other links to it too, so if any of you would like to do a reciprocal linkage, just shout me. xxx
Title: Re: Bla, Bla, Blogs.
Post by: EmilyJones on 10 August 2010, 09:50:58 am
I've added you!

And I don't mean to be a pain but my blog link has changed AGAIN! It's here: http://www.emily-jones.co.uk/blogposts-and-news/ (I had to change hosting and domain in an effort to fix a stupid caching problem from changing my host/domain nameservers the last time. The Internet sucks! I'm really sorry if anyone has a link to me already, it'll need changing. :()
Title: Re: Bla, Bla, Blogs.
Post by: Amber Sweetpetite on 10 August 2010, 10:27:16 am
Added t'other Amber and amended Emily.
Title: Re: Bla, Bla, Blogs.
Post by: Susan Glasgow on 10 August 2010, 11:47:53 am
Hi Emily - thanks for adding me. You are now on my blog too  ;D
Title: Re: Bla, Bla, Blogs.
Post by: Mango on 10 August 2010, 04:20:41 pm
The links are back on my blog! No idea where they went or why there were suddenly things on there like meebo (?) and my blog stats, but hopefully it's fixed& updated for good!

If anyone wants to be added, just send a pm!
Title: Re: Bla, Bla, Blogs.
Post by: Laura MacKenzie on 21 September 2010, 01:33:42 pm
Another revive of this thread.

Have added you all and sent you all PMs with my link its http://londonlaura.wordpress.com if I've missed anyone!
Title: Re: Bla, Bla, Blogs.
Post by: EmilyJones on 21 September 2010, 01:40:51 pm
Added! :)
Title: Re: Bla, Bla, Blogs.
Post by: LauraLee on 21 September 2010, 05:29:53 pm
Another revive of this thread.

Have added you all and sent you all PMs with my link its http://londonlaura.wordpress.com if I've missed anyone!

Done.  :)
Title: Re: Bla, Bla, Blogs.
Post by: Violette on 21 September 2010, 05:35:54 pm
Ditto.
Title: Re: Bla, Bla, Blogs.
Post by: Laura MacKenzie on 21 September 2010, 06:55:55 pm
Thanks girlies!
Title: Re: Bla, Bla, Blogs.
Post by: Susan Glasgow on 21 September 2010, 07:03:43 pm
Ooops, meant to add here that I'd added you ages ago (I PM'd you though, lol)
Title: Re: Bla, Bla, Blogs.
Post by: scottishmilf on 22 December 2010, 11:04:28 pm
Hey i have finally started my blog woo!  ;D and was just wondering if any of you lovely's wanted to swap them (think thats what you do  ::) ) so i can see what other peoples are writing and chating about, i really like them its a good place to spraff. Bet mines dead boring but owell il get better.

thanks  :-*
Mia xxx
Title: Re: Bla, Bla, Blogs.
Post by: amy on 23 December 2010, 01:57:09 am
Hi Mia  :)

We already have a few threads on blogs, but I have merged your post with since one since it has quite a few ladies links on it already. If you post (or PM) yours I'll add it to mine (which is at www.adoreamy.co.uk/blog  :D).
Title: Re: Bla, Bla, Blogs.
Post by: scottishmilf on 25 December 2010, 12:34:06 am
Cheers, i'll get adding and mine is http://secretlifeofateenagewhore.blogspot.com/

Mia xx
Title: Re: Bla, Bla, Blogs.
Post by: Cat on 31 December 2010, 08:23:42 am
Girls what are you all doing ?
What with tweets and blog and wordpress you should no i am blonde and not that savvy.
Its cold outside and what the hell do have to do to come in.LOL

Cat x
Title: Re: Bla, Bla, Blogs.
Post by: Dexi Delite on 04 December 2011, 06:20:39 pm
Hi All.

If this post is in the wrong place then could one of the moderators kindly pop it into the right place, as I was unsure as to where to put it myself.

I have got round to setting up a blog (on the advice of others), and although this post sounds like blatant advertising (in a way I suppose it is, but it is not my intention).  I would just like everyones general opinion and any advice too.  Is it easy enough to read? Do the links work? etc.

http://dexi-manchesterescort.blogspot.com
Many Thanks
Dexi
xx
Title: Re: Bla, Bla, Blogs.
Post by: amy on 04 December 2011, 06:33:50 pm
It's an old thread, but I've moved your post here Dexi as there are some links to other ladies' blogs and a bit of discussion too (and there's more here (http://www.saafe.info/main/index.php?topic=5630.0), and here (http://www.saafe.info/main/index.php?topic=1764.0)) :).

The only thing I would say after glancing at yours (and I'm sitting writing mine at the moment which is why I'm at the computer) is that I found the text too dark and hard to read against the background - it may just be my eyes but I would think about making it a bit lighter.
Title: Re: Bla, Bla, Blogs.
Post by: Rooby on 04 December 2011, 08:37:52 pm
Hi Dexi,
I liked your Blog but second what Amy said. Its a little bit dark and also, that picture of your stocking tops is so sexy you might think about making it bigger!

To everyone else,
I Blog but I dont have the Blog roll feature or the subscribe thingies installed at the moment. As soon as I do I will add you all. In the meantime though, if you want to add me, or have a read, its http://www.bbwruby.co.uk/blog/ (http://www.bbwruby.co.uk/blog/)

Some of my posts are things on my mind, and some are written more to create website content and get picked up by the webspiders so the content quality varies a bit. I have to say I love writing it though and find it incredibly therapeutic. I try not to post more than one a day but I have Blog posts all ready written and in a holding pattern ready to go! I know, I should get a life :)

R xx
Title: Re: Bla, Bla, Blogs.
Post by: Dexi Delite on 05 December 2011, 11:49:37 am
Thanks ladies for the advice.  I'll see if I can make the writing a few shades lighter without it been white, as I thought white was a bit too cold.

xx
Title: Re: Bla, Bla, Blogs.
Post by: Dexi Delite on 05 December 2011, 06:49:11 pm
Blog site now has lighter colour.  Hopefully it'll be easier to read now.  ;D
Title: Re: Bla, Bla, Blogs.
Post by: Sarita on 05 December 2011, 06:54:11 pm
I enjoyed reading it Dexi. You have an engaging style and it looks good. Fab photo too!
Title: Re: Bla, Bla, Blogs.
Post by: Dexi Delite on 05 December 2011, 06:55:40 pm
Thank you Sarita.
xx
Title: Re: Bla, Bla, Blogs.
Post by: Dexi Delite on 03 January 2012, 01:24:30 pm
Hello Ladies.

Hope you all had a fab Christmas and New Year.
I've finally set up a blog (last month) and wondered if any of you would be willing to swap links to it?

Much appreciated
Dexi
xxx

(if this is in the wrong section, or not permitted then please feel free to re/move it and accept my apologies if I did wrong)
Title: Re: Bla, Bla, Blogs.
Post by: amy on 03 January 2012, 01:32:41 pm
I've merged your thread into this one Dexi, but going by the last few posts it looks like you've already posted about it anyway. I'm sure the current members who have a blog on the go will be happy to add it :).
Title: Re: Bla, Bla, Blogs.
Post by: Rooby on 27 February 2012, 11:08:32 pm
Hi Ladies,

I've just updated my Blog Roll with everyone from here who looks like they are keeping their's current. If I missed anyone do please drop me a PM and I'll add you straight away.

If anyone wants to include my link I'd be very grateful - mine is http://www.bbwruby.co.uk/blog/ (http://www.bbwruby.co.uk/blog/)

R xx
Title: Re: Bla, Bla, Blogs.
Post by: DeeDee - Kupps on 09 June 2012, 04:52:04 pm
Hi Ladies

I have read this thread, & I can now see how it's done! So I will too add all blog links that look up to date over the next week, & if you would like to add me to yours that would be fantastic :)

Here I am ~ http://darceysdailykiss.wordpress.com/

Thank you x x x
Title: Re: Bla, Bla, Blogs.
Post by: Brown Eyed Girl on 09 June 2012, 05:33:01 pm
Hello ladies,
There are some brilliant blog links on here which I would love to add to my own website.

However rather than linking to people who might not be happy about having their link on my site, I?ll post a link to my blog. If you like it and feel it fits in with your website please feel free to add it:-

http://www.alluringalisha.co.uk/blog/ (http://www.alluringalisha.co.uk/blog/)

Likewise if anyone would like to have their blog link on my site please PM me and I?ll add it straightaway  :)
Thank you!
Alisha xxx
Title: Re: Bla, Bla, Blogs.
Post by: Kristina Bristol Escort on 10 June 2012, 09:36:59 pm
Hi

Here is a link to my blog http://www.kristina-independent-escort.co.uk/blog/

again if anyone wants to swap blogs then I would happily add them to my blog roll

Kris x
Title: Re: Bla, Bla, Blogs.
Post by: SuperSass on 03 July 2012, 11:44:22 pm
Hello,

I've just started a blog and am going to add everyone to my blog roll if that's ok!


Oh I've just realised it's 8 pages long...I'll add all the ones I've seen from this page anyway!
Title: Re: Bla, Bla, Blogs.
Post by: Kristina Bristol Escort on 04 July 2012, 11:59:23 am
Hi

Good with me.

If you send me your link I will add you to mine x
Title: Re: Bla, Bla, Blogs.
Post by: Escort38 on 04 July 2012, 01:28:21 pm
Will you lot please stop it!!!!!   :P

Reading blogs can be addictive and it takes up so much time!!
Not all the blogs I read are interesting but many are riveting and I love
the wit and style of many of them.  I am sometimes tempted to start one
of my own but that would just make me sit in front of the screen even more!

 ;)
Title: Re: Bla, Bla, Blogs.
Post by: clover on 04 July 2012, 01:37:25 pm
You're so very right, Escort38!
Title: Re: Bla, Bla, Blogs.
Post by: JJay1985 on 31 August 2012, 09:49:04 pm
I mostly read non-escorting blogs and enjoy them - they can be fun and informative - but have started to read a few escorts blogs to get an idea of what to write about.  Once I've got one set up I'll add it to my site and share it with you.
At the moment I'll carry on reading silly dating and travel blogs that I like!!
Title: Re: Bla, Bla, Blogs.
Post by: Brown Eyed Girl on 22 December 2012, 11:05:24 am
Me again  ;D
My blog roll links are looking a bit thin...a few ladies I used to have on there are no longer around. I?ve had a read of this thread and most of the people still around are already on my blog links list but I was hoping for more.
So if there are any new girls reading this; who would interested in swapping links please do get in touch on here or via PM.
Thank you xx
(P.s you can check out my blog by clicking on the world icon under my username on here)