Maybe this guy was projecting some guilt onto you Kescort & you've come away with that transfer of negative energy & taken it on as your own guilt?

It shows you're a human being with morals so try not to sweat it.

I would find that graphic tattoo weird myself. Often wonder if the names they say are their kids are of their wives.

We do get treated like scapegoats often.

Awww that's pretty sad, I know what you mean it's a bit much though. I had a lovely regular who's wife had died of cancer like a year or two before he started visiting, i was the first escort he visited and he came every week one day he bought me some perfume, I thought it was odd as it was very dated and old lady like if you know what I mean, not something I'd Wear (I was 21 at the time) he'd ask me to wear it for meetings anyway he burst out crying one day saying it was his wife's favourite perfume I felt so sorry for him but I never wore it any other time it felt too weird wearing this old ladylike perfume that was a clients dead wives favorite. Felt so sorry for him though he was a lovely man who clearly missed his wife a lot and said he'd never cheated or visited escorts whilst she was alive and I definitely believed him when he said that.

It's like being a counsellor isn't it lol!

Some people get very carried away with tattooing
I can understand maybe a grieving partner inking after as a memory tribute to their loved ones.
But I guess the guy felt very strongly about the wife and child enough to display it on himself

But not strongly enough to keep his top on during sex with others 

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