I am often approached by clients who are in a married or a regular vanilla long term relationship and are sexually frustrated by a partner who can't meet their need. A partners pregnancy or after childbirth is one reason I often come across.

Sex in Marriages and long term relationships often need a little sexual spice introducing to them to keep the sex interesting or add another dimension to pep it up. Fantasy plays a major part in arousal and their partner may not be able to fill that role.  A lot of my clients fantasize about sex with a transsexual. I can fulfil that  fantasy or maybe will do what their wife, partner or girlfriend can't or won't for whatever reason.

Sometimes sexual energies are just not synchronised and their sexual needs are not being met. There is nothing wrong with satisfying their needs, they may love their partner and don't want the risk of an affair but yet need sexual release, It's not cheating, it's just a sexual need which I can take care of. I offer them total and absolute discretion in a quiet and comfortable venue, I don't wear perfume if requested and I don't leave any telltale evidence of our sexual liaison.  I also accommodate times when its easy to explain away absences such as saturday mornings, early morning or early evening to or from work. 

We're not offering love, we're offering a sexual release, an itch which needs scratching. Perhaps his wife is sick and he just needs a cuddle and some sex whilst she's recovering.

I appreciate your viewpoint, I agree with most of it but don't agree that they arnt cheating and don't believe any spouse would feel they arnt cheating either lol! I don't judge the client since I haven't even got the mental energy to, providing he pays and is respectful I don't care. The clients wife wasn't sick lol he actually told me he just couldn't help him self and they had an active sex life.

This sounds typical for our married clients. When they need something beyond what they can have at home, they come to us.  You should never feel guilty for doing your job well and helping your client. I’ve heard from numerous married regular clients over the years how I’ve helped their home life by reducing stress, providing relaxation when times were too tough, showed them new skills they can use, boost their confidence etc. No doubt you helped your client and you did it safely, discreetly, and with professional skill that kept him returning. Men buy our services to avoid emotional baggage, and you should as well. If he went to a professional therapist to talk about his marriage problems, this wouldn’t be cheating any more than coming to you, in my opinion.

On the other hand, my tattoo artist strongly discourages inking significant others. It makes you wonder why he felt the need to do that.

sexually frustrated by a partner who can't meet their need. A partners pregnancy or after childbirth is one reason I often come across.

A guy I saw last week who I assumed was single because he seemed so sexually frustrated said he had a wife of 10 years. I felt sorry for his wife she probably went off sex because he couldn’t make her come or wasn’t attentive enough.