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ladyofthemansion

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Big cocks
« on: 07 November 2023, 07:23:13 pm »
I have always assumed that when a guy tells on the phone he has has a big cock that he is a timewaster.

Then l have a friend who suffered from a big cock today who says he should have warned her.

What to do here 😂
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Lushblossom

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Re: Big cocks
« Reply #1 on: 08 November 2023, 07:28:02 am »
Some genuinely do not know they are huge.

I have a comment on my profile  telling them if they are larger than extra large no can do.
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Re: Big cocks
« Reply #2 on: 06 May 2024, 06:07:28 pm »
I'm having to ask each client it's tedious fortunately some have the understanding of the problem at they aren't difficult to screw during the visit
If big I can't do it  :FF

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Re: Big cocks
« Reply #3 on: 07 May 2024, 10:15:32 am »
I got lumbered with one of these the other day. The best I could do was guide them and the minute it started hurting (which wasn’t very long  :() I just told him we had to stop. I apologised and explained that I struggle with big cocks and we’d have to finish doing something else fun. I gave it my best but I can’t put myself out of work of worse, endure a bout of cystitis. It’s just not an option.

I also explained that my anatomy responds very differently to the texture of the condom. Which makes sense really. He understood. Most do, to be honest as we’re not the first to struggle with their size.

I’ve never had anyone get shitty with me when I’ve called it to a halt. Worse case scenario is that they don’t return and that’s perfectly alright with me.

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Re: Big cocks
« Reply #4 on: 07 May 2024, 11:40:23 am »
I am very petite  in that department and suffer bouts of the dreaded  cystitis  doggy really sometimes painful when the guy has a huge cock also the ones who are determined to shag  for the whole booking I did try my best a few week ago with a guy he would not finish any other way so I told him enough still had to get a antibiotics as powder did not shift it and could not work all week x saved in phone as no thanks you
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Re: Big cocks
« Reply #5 on: 07 May 2024, 05:48:25 pm »
I actually have it on my profile I can’t accommodate. Most understand this but I still get the odd tryer with a massive ones turn  up. I ask all new clients if they read my details, some lie say they have. Trouble is once your have 10 mins of foreplay etc and they see you naked etc it’s to late to turn back. I have had to cut bookings short giving refunds etc all sorts due to the fact they want sex and I just can’t do it.

I understand it’s not there fault  how they are build but to turn up for a booking when it’s stated in bold I don’t cater for guys with big ones, its boundary pushing seeing if you will or won’t. They soon learn they won’t get a good time from me.

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Re: Big cocks
« Reply #6 on: 07 May 2024, 06:31:03 pm »
I find the larger the cock the longer it takes them to cum. I dread it when I pull a large one out and know full well it will take the whole time they are hard work.

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Re: Big cocks
« Reply #7 on: 07 May 2024, 06:58:12 pm »
I find the larger the cock the longer it takes them to cum. I dread it when I pull a large one out and know full well it will take the whole time they are hard work.

I don't get many of these fortunately. Haven't seen one in months. But what you say is exactly correct, and I'm glad to see someone else has noticed. I used to think it was my imagination. They seem to be less sensitive in reverse proportion to the size.

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Re: Big cocks
« Reply #8 on: 08 May 2024, 06:08:29 am »
The first time I met one he was Mr Average, mid 30s I would guess shy and polite, everything seemed normal until we removed his pants.  Then his size became apparent, I struggled to give oral so we moved onto penetration quickly, I felt stretched it was very uncomfortable but other than being sore afterwards no issues, fortunately he was my only client that day.  Next time he tried to book I said no, he never asked why.

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Re: Big cocks
« Reply #9 on: 08 May 2024, 07:10:55 am »
Average and smaller men say they feel inadequate, even apologise giving me a look of disbelief when I explain big cock equals pain and me feeling inadequate because I can't accommodate. Most men with bigger cocks have been understanding, apart from one who said he converts all his sexual partners into big cock lovers. This was a physically uncomfortable booking, and I certainly did not orgasm (my orgasm has nothing to with a cock or penetration).

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Re: Big cocks
« Reply #10 on: 08 May 2024, 09:53:21 am »
The client with the biggest I have known used to book me once a month for 6 years and I gritted my teeth and didn't look forward to his hour. I decided to stop seeing him and just sent a ""sorry we can't meet any more" text and got no reply from him. The reason I binned him was not because of his cock size. It was because I had endured his arrogance and snobbishness on every visit.

Good riddance 👍

Other than him I've had the occasional surprise but nothing too scary.

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Re: Big cocks
« Reply #11 on: 09 May 2024, 12:56:25 pm »
I find the larger the cock the longer it takes them to cum. I dread it when I pull a large one out and know full well it will take the whole time they are hard work.

That is so true!! I had a guy from Yorkshire, lovely but the biggest cock I’ve seen! He wanted to book for two hours as that’s how long it takes for him to cum!! Can you imagine, well I’m sure you don’t have to haha.
Anyway even for the whole hour it was just in and out very slowly I was in bits after. There was no foreplay on me either so heavy with the lube! Tried twice but after second appointment I Told him I wouldn’t be able to see him again, just not enjoyable at all!

CuteElsa

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Re: Big cocks
« Reply #12 on: 09 May 2024, 08:20:03 pm »

More than 7 inches and I have to limit any position to cowgirl or reverse cowgirl. I’m quite clear from the start and the client is usually ok with this.

I do also have also have ohnut rings which have come in useful on a few occasions. I do have a regular who is happy to wear them. Obviously I keep them extremely clean.

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Re: Big cocks
« Reply #13 on: 09 May 2024, 11:14:40 pm »
Just had the funniest chat with a client.

He has ended up being a friend (I let very few past that boundary!) But he told me that he went to a swinging club and was with another two couples.... they saw a lady taking a bashing and all of the girls just said, "No way!" The guy was enormous!

I'm inclined to agree. It means that you can't work for days and I get really bruised inside if I have to suffer that.

I am like Goldicocks, not too big, not too small, somewhere in the middle is just right!
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GucciGang

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Re: Big cocks
« Reply #14 on: 10 May 2024, 05:52:16 pm »
That is so true!! I had a guy from Yorkshire, lovely but the biggest cock I’ve seen! He wanted to book for two hours as that’s how long it takes for him to cum!! Can you imagine, well I’m sure you don’t have to haha.
Anyway even for the whole hour it was just in and out very slowly I was in bits after. There was no foreplay on me either so heavy with the lube! Tried twice but after second appointment I Told him I wouldn’t be able to see him again, just not enjoyable at all!

The problem is when it goes on for ages and they proper long it out I can feel my anger and impatience bubbling. It’s hard to stay in character sometimes.