Author Topic: Being called a 'good girl' (Read 10090 times)

C_____ · « **Reply #60 on:** 08 April 2017, 01:29:30 am »

Makes my skin crawl.

The type of men that say it are generally utter losers with no real power, that have these faux fifty-shades-of-grey fantasies. The only like to cease the opportunity to feel dominant, manipulative and like they are above you.

Whenever someone says it to me I say back in a patronising tone that I am not their little girl.

honeymoonbarbie · « **Reply #61 on:** 08 April 2017, 10:42:32 am »

Quote from: CCadine on 08 April 2017, 01:29:30 am

Makes my skin crawl.

The type of men that say it are generally utter losers with no real power, that have these faux fifty-shades-of-grey fantasies. The only like to cease the opportunity to feel dominant, manipulative and like they are above you

This is EXACTLY it.

Aqua Allegoria · « **Reply #62 on:** 08 April 2017, 03:08:19 pm »

Quote from: VoluptuousCurves on 03 April 2017, 05:55:29 pm

I use it all the time and I know it dates me

I didn't know it was an "old" word. First time i heard it was actually from a client and i found it really cute so I use it myself sometimes:)

Tickle · « **Reply #63 on:** 10 April 2017, 05:13:04 pm »

I've been called a good girl a few times. While flattering in its own way I'm not five or pet dog! I've been called a cheeky mare too. Which Ealing comedy did he pull this from?

meetingdiversity · « **Reply #64 on:** 10 April 2017, 09:17:11 pm »

Mainly good girl they call me which is good because they're horny and cum quicker. I just play along as is harmless I think and they are happy. It's a win win profiting and more than likely he returns.

francheska_xx · « **Reply #65 on:** 13 April 2017, 06:08:11 pm »

Next cretin to call me this gets there Dick ripped off. It's school holidays and it's slow but I won't lower my standards because it's a bit quiet. Wankers. I look on some forums at the way they talk about us girls and giggle thinking if only they knew what we all laugh at about them

sometimes this happens I do picture myself seriously hurting them.

SophieinSurrey · « **Reply #66 on:** 13 April 2017, 06:40:16 pm »

I've never been called a good girl

MelissaS · « **Reply #67 on:** 14 April 2017, 03:32:54 pm »

I DESPISE this. With a passion. To the point that I would not take another booking with that person again.
I am not there to obey these people, I'm my own person, not a dog or a child and I'm in charge of what's going on.

Each to their own though!

francheska_xx · « **Reply #68 on:** 14 April 2017, 08:27:16 pm »

Quote from: MelissaS on 14 April 2017, 03:32:54 pm

I DESPISE this. With a passion. To the point that I would not take another booking with that person again.
I am not there to obey these people, I'm my own person, not a dog or a child and I'm in charge of what's going on.

Each to their own though!

spot on!!

Guiltypleasure · « **Reply #69 on:** 15 April 2017, 12:54:47 am »

Quote from: francheska_xx on 13 April 2017, 06:08:11 pm

Next cretin to call me this gets there Dick ripped off. It's school holidays and it's slow but I won't lower my standards because it's a bit quiet. Wankers. I look on some forums at the way they talk about us girls and giggle thinking if only they knew what we all laugh at about them sometimes this happens I do picture myself seriously hurting them.

They read these forums too so they do know

amy · « **Reply #70 on:** 15 April 2017, 01:02:16 am »

Can we stay on topic, please? It's been a long day and I've just spotted to my joy that the screening thread in Q&A has been bumped back up to the top, so I'm guessing it isn't going to get any shorter.

Chanel xxx · « **Reply #71 on:** 15 April 2017, 02:16:38 am »

Back on topic...honestly I put my 2 pence in as I really cant see how being called a good girl by a client who is paying for his time can be an awful thing. If a paying client over steps his/her boundaries in any situation and you feel uncomfortable then let them know and stop it.

Maybe its because I'm a Londoner

I could care less about being called a girl during a booking. I know that the common usage for those in this profession is 'working girl'. Fuck it there's worse you could be called. I don't believe many clients use that phrase often anyway.

So on back on point - my reference to not being called a bitch is because I refuse to accept that being called a bitch is normal or acceptable in normal circumstances? What is normal in this context? A mutual agreed civil situation. If that what's agreed and your being paid to be degraded then fine but just because a client pays for a session doesn't mean that they can push boundaries if you don't feel comfortable.
Is it ok to call a client a good boy?
I'm thinking about the less experienced who may read this and misconstrue being called a good girl

for being a bigger issue than what I surmise what was the OP's initial query?

So for any newbies reading this thread if you don't like or want to be called a good girl during your booking then say you don't like it - nip it in the bud.

In my experience its a rare occurrence but don't let any client push your boundaries in any way. Be brave stand up for your self and take no shit from anyone. Unless it agreed lol.

MissLeeMiss · « **Reply #72 on:** 20 April 2017, 12:25:26 pm »

Quote from: SophieinSurrey on 13 April 2017, 06:40:16 pm

I've never been called a good girl

I seem to get this *all* *the* *time*. I guess it's down to the clientele I cater for...

English natural beauty · « **Reply #73 on:** 25 April 2017, 02:04:19 pm »

I have it written on my profile that I do not see clients who Want naughty girl style bookings and I do not dress as a schoolgirl. Anyone that asks this of me is blocked. I had a guy asking how old I was when I started touching myself and if I had younger sisters. He is also blocked. I am also particular with whom I see for example I won't see anyone over the age of 60. It eliminates the guysvthat call themselves dirty old men and that for me really does not make me feel good so I cannot entertain it. I hate being called a good girl I find it cringy and it creeps me out. I am very open minded but some things I draw a line at. My mental health and wellbeing is more important than any money.

C_____ · « **Reply #74 on:** 26 April 2017, 01:57:36 am »

Quote from: Chanel xxx on 15 April 2017, 02:16:38 am

Back on topic...honestly I put my 2 pence in as I really cant see how being called a good girl by a client who is paying for his time can be an awful thing. If a paying client over steps his/her boundaries in any situation and you feel uncomfortable then let them know and stop it.

Maybe its because I'm a Londoner I could care less about being called a girl during a booking. I know that the common usage for those in this profession is 'working girl'. Fuck it there's worse you could be called. I don't believe many clients use that phrase often anyway.

So on back on point - my reference to not being called a bitch is because I refuse to accept that being called a bitch is normal or acceptable in normal circumstances? What is normal in this context? A mutual agreed civil situation. If that what's agreed and your being paid to be degraded then fine but just because a client pays for a session doesn't mean that they can push boundaries if you don't feel comfortable.
Is it ok to call a client a good boy?
I'm thinking about the less experienced who may read this and misconstrue being called a good girl for being a bigger issue than what I surmise what was the OP's initial query?

So for any newbies reading this thread if you don't like or want to be called a good girl during your booking then say you don't like it - nip it in the bud.

In my experience its a rare occurrence but don't let any client push your boundaries in any way. Be brave stand up for your self and take no shit from anyone. Unless it agreed lol.

The term is used to assert authority, control, seniority or approval of someone "less" than you.

When did you last hear someone say good girl and how?

To a child? Their offspring? To a cat?

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C_____

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Tickle

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Guiltypleasure

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amy

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English natural beauty

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C_____

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