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Re: Being called a 'good girl'
« Reply #45 on: 25 March 2017, 12:19:16 am »
I get called this and tbh i dont really mind it.  There are a lot of things worse to be called. :o

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Re: Being called a 'good girl'
« Reply #46 on: 25 March 2017, 12:09:20 pm »
I like the word 'girl' it makes me feel young when people call me it... I refer to my mum as 'one of the girls' when we have a family get together and she's nearly 80  ;D  Clients saying 'good girl' to me just means I'm doing the right things that he likes,  at least I know I'm on the right track then. I don't feel patronised or anything like that.  Its better than the ones who give no feedback during the booking ie; when I'm not sure if they are enjoying themselves or not.

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Re: Being called a 'good girl'
« Reply #47 on: 25 March 2017, 03:07:07 pm »
I get called this and tbh i dont really mind it.  There are a lot of things worse to be called. :o

A while ago I had a client keep degrading me calling me a black bitch. I would end the booking if this happens again with no refund. And tell him where to go honestly with all the proffessional out of the window.

Luckily most of the clients who come are resectful and never want to spank my bottom hard even when encouraged. That I can deal with.

So belongs no degrading talk or rasict blurs am okay. I dont mind being called a horny bitch though , that is how far it goes.
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Re: Being called a 'good girl'
« Reply #48 on: 25 March 2017, 05:08:49 pm »
That's truly shocking MD. What a nasty man!

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Re: Being called a 'good girl'
« Reply #49 on: 25 March 2017, 05:48:06 pm »
That's horrible MD :(

I had a customer a while ago on tour who asked me to call him a "dirty black cunt" during the booking, I was a bit taken aback as he hadn't said anything about this when booking and although I do verbal humiliation I feel really uncomfortable with racial abuse. I did as he asked but afterwards I felt terrible, as if I had degraded myself instead of him  ???
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Re: Being called a 'good girl'
« Reply #50 on: 25 March 2017, 07:08:39 pm »
I used to ignore but now I wouldn't it just shows the lack of respect.  I realised this behaviour is sick even if they are paying me. I don't need to be racist to get going. I don't see the ones I don't like the sound of don't get past the phone stage. If only you knew what crap I had put up with from the odd balls.

This why I am super stricter with the strange ones at present. But yet the respectful clients get all of me making them happy.

If it doesn't feel right I don't do it am not going to suffer.

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Re: Being called a 'good girl'
« Reply #51 on: 25 March 2017, 07:11:07 pm »
That's horrible MD :(

I had a customer a while ago on tour who asked me to call him a "dirty black cunt" during the booking, I was a bit taken aback as he hadn't said anything about this when booking and although I do verbal humiliation I feel really uncomfortable with racial abuse. I did as he asked but afterwards I felt terrible, as if I had degraded myself instead of him  ???

The client asked for this so he was happy but if it makes you feel uncomfortable I guess you will know what to do next time. Xx   

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Re: Being called a 'good girl'
« Reply #52 on: 25 March 2017, 07:16:41 pm »
That's truly shocking MD. What a nasty man!

Yes it makes you think about how they ended up like that. But this was along time ago, just the clients could say worse post sparked me about certain times.

I am over it in a different place now having other things to do and have many clients who respect me and want to come back. So am focusing more on that. :)

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Re: Being called a 'good girl'
« Reply #53 on: 26 March 2017, 05:47:33 am »
I sometimes do mild domination and some of my clients will ask me to wear latex or pvc outfits, but it is a niche service/request only for my regulars. My usp is gfe - I wouldn't mind being called a good girl. If I didn't I would let him know I don't like such token endearments straight away.

I can't see how being called good is on the same level as being called a bitch, but we are all different and that's not a bad thing at all.

God help the client that ever calls me a bitch; but I guess it's different strokes for different folks.
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Re: Being called a 'good girl'
« Reply #54 on: 30 March 2017, 08:51:14 am »
It's normally followed by a pat on the head & scratch behind the ears like how you'd pet a dog.

I usually take the piss when they do that or call them naughty boy several times

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Re: Being called a 'good girl'
« Reply #55 on: 30 March 2017, 11:45:43 am »
I can't see how being called good is on the same level as being called a bitch, but we are all different and that's not a bad thing at all.

I actually don't mind being called a bitch :D I've always described myself as a bitch anyway and would rather that than "good girl"!

I had a client yesterday who called me "good girl" as I was sucking his cock. I mentally rolled my eyes but kept going, then a couple seconds later I gagged. He immediately dropped to the floor (I was kneeling) and said "Oh god, sorry, are you okay?!" I was like Dude, I'm fine  ;D
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Re: Being called a 'good girl'
« Reply #56 on: 30 March 2017, 12:07:53 pm »
He immediately dropped to the floor (I was kneeling) and said "Oh god, sorry, are you okay?!" I was like Dude, I'm fine  ;D

Priceless!!! ;D ;D ;D

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Re: Being called a 'good girl'
« Reply #57 on: 30 March 2017, 01:14:13 pm »
I think its not the actual words its the way its said, I don't like the word 'whore' but don't mind clients calling me it in bookings when its said in a fun light hearted way.

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Re: Being called a 'good girl'
« Reply #58 on: 03 April 2017, 12:49:19 pm »
Priceless!!! ;D ;D ;D
Hilarious! That did put a smile on my face as I haven't heard the word 'dude' used in ages! I love it, its so 90's - like totally radical man lol
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Re: Being called a 'good girl'
« Reply #59 on: 03 April 2017, 05:55:29 pm »
Hilarious! That did put a smile on my face as I haven't heard the word 'dude' used in ages! I love it, its so 90's - like totally radical man lol

I use it all the time and I know it dates me :D
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