Am I the only one who as an adult woman does not enjoy being called a 'good girl'? I've found a lot of my clients during a booking will say it and I find it demeaning and patronising - it almost makes my skin crawl.

Other pet-names and 'terms of endearment' don't get to me at all but this one really irritates me?

Am I right to let clients know it makes me uncomfortable or should I just grow a thicker skin?

It makes my skin crawl too...in fact anything like that does. 

I'm staying in a hotel just now and I had 2 glasses in my room so this morning to be helpful I took them down to the bar, the barmaid said 'oh you and your diet coke'.....also as a 30-something year old grown ass woman I find remarks like this really annoying.  I'm not a child and don't need to be spoken down to.

It bothers people, really?

I was called a good girl today when i helped an old lady pick up the contents of her purse in Morrisons. find it a little odd when clients call me that but does it bother me not at all. Also i find it strange when i get compared to their daughters or get told i remind them of their  daughter, well OK

It just depends who it's coming from. When it's from someone I like, sexual context or not I really like it. But from an old man I've just met, blech.

I do not like to be called a "good girl" because I am a "bad girl".

More seriously, I am able to deal with small irritants like this.

Funnily enough I just had a client call me this a few times Good girl the first time was over text then during the booking he was very horny so just smiled at him playing around with more horny things.  He was very attractive too he enjoyed so am happy.

Ha ha well I'm older than that so I feel a right Pratt lol !

I use to have a client who used to tell me his wife was a "good girl", meaning: She played by the rules, took care of his kid, did the cooking part and turned a blind eye on his philandering despite him neglecting her sex. He was good in bed but quite an asshol- so I got rid of him, since them anyone calling me "good girl" is not seeing me again as it reminds me of this guys wife. It just gives me the chills, it sounds sooo patriarchal and patronizing.

 

I once tore a strip off a guy calling me a "good girl" in my civvy job. He was senior to me but I didn't give a shit. I told him we don't employ children so infantilizing terms like this are completely inappropriate. And how would he like it if next time he came over and said "Hey I've arranged a meeting next week about the progress on the XYZ project" I replied "Well done, good boy" in front of all my direct reports?

That's similar to transactional analysis and it worked , a bit different/ harder to do when they're  trying to get you to orgasm ...I'd really rather not kill the moment and just get on with it lmao x