I reply to this that I work in this purely because of financial reasons, (and it is the truth)

How dare you burst the fantasy bubble!

I am fortunate to have done this job ,in my civvy job I deal with people who have sexual issues that they need to talk about which dosnt make me feel uncomfortable in the slightest.

I tell them the truth, I totally love it and wish I had started doing it years ago when i was 20. Life is just one and i decide be happy doing what i like and make others happy too!!

I love my job for many reasons and I'm happy to tell clients if they ask.

I love meeting the wide range of people.
And I love the fact that in an hour or two, I can make them really happy so they go away feeling better for visiting me. That's work satisfaction.
I love seeing repeat customers because that's proof I delivered a great service last time.

I love that the work for each client is all done within the session time 1-2 hours, unlike other jobs where a project could take hours/days/weeks.

I love being self-employed and deciding my hours when I work, and taking time off when it suits me. I like being completely in control of every aspect of my business.

*** whether I like handling penises really doesn't figure in my thoughts about how much I like my job. it's such a tiny part of the job!

It is mainly the admin and timewasters that are irksome.

I don’t think we owe any answer to anyone. Just blank the question. If they want to try so hard to ruin the fantasy that’s on them.

I keep it simple.... yes, I live and breathe this job, it is who I am, I couldn't imagine doing anything else, I adore the freedom and nobody can put any constraints on me....... and it's mostly true, why drop the facade, after all it's what they pay for?

Truthfully, as soon as they walk out of the door they're forgotten anyway, so what if  a little "sugar talk" is included in the price.... no skin off my nose.......... a good friend once told me, "keep things simple, Stupid!"