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being asked if you like your job- what do you reply
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DiscreetLady:
does'nt happen often but it pisses me off, when clients in the middle of or at the end of the session ask me if i like my job, which i know what they imply is that i don't like it and that im in only for the money. then deep inside me i tell myself well obviously money is a big party of it. if it was for the sex i could get much better looking guys at the club, LOL. its true that often im tired or my mind is somewhere else due to personal problems and they can notice it but really hate it when they ask me that. so what do you guys reply without being rude
KirstyKiss:
I just tell them the truth. I love it! And I do. The freedom to do what I want and go where I please far outweighs my previous, professional career.
I’m still going strong 10 years later and wouldn’t change it for the world.
I chat away with clients anyway and none of their questions offend me as I always have an answer. Because I like s good chat their questions never bother me.
ChelseaGirl:
It depends on the client and your relationship to them

I think there are a lot (and you KNOW) which they are, who fetish-ise (sorry sp) our lifestyles, they want to hear you are a nymphomaniac and couldn't possibly get enough sex elsewhere and you love it the money isn't even a thing its just a bonus, also a safe answer if you don't know them well

I work in the city and mostly daytimes so I do get a lot of regulars who are both intelligent, know me quite well and level headed about the nature of the relationship, I tell the truth for me which is that like any job there are parts I like and parts I hate, if they genuinely want to know I tell them more, also use a variation of this on some more normal ones I don't know well or at all but limit the 'don't like' sector to the annoying people on the phone and uncertainty of self employment/long hours if touring, OP said sometimes comes over as tired as do I that's one way to do it.

I think some men think we just roll out of bed jn a hotel looking perfect, unpacked, clean and rested and can f### a few hours then be lazy and that's our life. :FF

If I'm in a hell of a mood and it's a first time client I never want to see again bc they're annoying the hell out of me I tell them what the OP said, that any escort who says the money is irrelevant wouldn't be an escort she would just use tinder and pick the men she liked the look of (I REALLY try not to use that one but occasionally you just get a client you want to punch in the face)

But everyone's different in how comfortable you feel reminding a client that they're a client, if you're looking for minimal drama turn around and ask how tired you look now  ;)
English Green:
I get asked this a lot well actually they say to me obviously you like this job don't you? I suppose that is because i am acting and probably good at it when i need to be but that is because i just offer services i can cope with now.

A few very realistic clients though have said to me i doubt many women like doing this they only do it for more money then standard job and they are their own boss so those ones get it.

I don't mind them asking this as long as they are ok with lies, but i think some ask it as they see so many profiles talking about how they love being fucked and giving blow jobs every hour of the day with anybody so not surprise some thicko's really believe it all.

It is a question though that i yawn at as what do they expect women to say no i only do it as desperate for cash or i am really greedy and want lots of nice bags and holidays.

I did have a horrible client that was rude and smelly ask me this once at the end of service and i was honest as he was a nightmare and told him if i knew who and what smell was turning up i would not answer door and i told him we do not get paid enough for what we go through with some men, he knew i meant him haha
Justine:
I have been asked the question a few times and my answer consisted of  three words.

Yes I do.

If they then wanted to go into further discussion I would distract them with continuing the reason they booked/turned up and paid me. I/ we owe them no explanations.

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