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Issy

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Re: being asked if you like your job- what do you reply
« Reply #15 on: 02 July 2023, 01:04:07 pm »
I reply to this that I work in this purely because of financial reasons, (and it is the truth)

FullyFashioned

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Re: being asked if you like your job- what do you reply
« Reply #16 on: 02 July 2023, 03:28:37 pm »
I reply to this that I work in this purely because of financial reasons, (and it is the truth)

How dare you burst the fantasy bubble! :D

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Re: being asked if you like your job- what do you reply
« Reply #17 on: 02 July 2023, 04:50:16 pm »
I don’t mind it because when they ask me it’s quite apparent I am happy doing what I do. I simply tell them I like sex and I like money, so it works. Obviously that’s not the entire real answer, but it’s what they like to hear and there is no need for them to know the backstory or details of how I got into it etc. It’s just a job for me, one that I’m good at, money are good, I enjoy the flexibility of it and the people I meet along the way etc.

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Re: being asked if you like your job- what do you reply
« Reply #18 on: 02 July 2023, 09:10:57 pm »
I am fortunate to have done this job ,in my civvy job I deal with people who have sexual issues that they need to talk about which dosnt make me feel uncomfortable in the slightest.

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Re: being asked if you like your job- what do you reply
« Reply #19 on: 25 August 2023, 08:15:37 am »
I tell them I do love it ‘I love meeting new people one on one, dancing to my own tune, working when I like, I hate bosses & offices!’ I don’t want to outright lie & lean into the idea that I enjoy having sex with strangers who I don’t fancy who are usually old enough to be my dad or grandad, because there is a part of me that thinks some of these guys need to be a bit more realistic about this being unlikely. My eyes roll internally when I see a client & he says ‘I want you to enjoy this as much as I do!’ Mate, I don’t have the energy to help you unpick the mental tangle you need to be doing something like this & thinking something so woolly, but on the other hand  I want return custom so can’t speak truth to power too freely lol  :)

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Re: being asked if you like your job- what do you reply
« Reply #20 on: 19 December 2023, 08:49:11 pm »
I tell them the truth, I totally love it and wish I had started doing it years ago when i was 20. Life is just one and i decide be happy doing what i like and make others happy too!!

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Re: being asked if you like your job- what do you reply
« Reply #21 on: 20 December 2023, 07:45:11 pm »
I tell them the truth too and say I love the money and the attention (I don't say that the sex does nothing for me though).

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Re: being asked if you like your job- what do you reply
« Reply #22 on: 21 December 2023, 11:55:06 am »
I love my job for many reasons and I'm happy to tell clients if they ask.

I love meeting the wide range of people.
And I love the fact that in an hour or two, I can make them really happy so they go away feeling better for visiting me. That's work satisfaction.
I love seeing repeat customers because that's proof I delivered a great service last time.

I love that the work for each client is all done within the session time 1-2 hours, unlike other jobs where a project could take hours/days/weeks.

I love being self-employed and deciding my hours when I work, and taking time off when it suits me. I like being completely in control of every aspect of my business.

*** whether I like handling penises really doesn't figure in my thoughts about how much I like my job. it's such a tiny part of the job!

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Re: being asked if you like your job- what do you reply
« Reply #23 on: 25 January 2024, 08:05:08 pm »
I tell them the truth and that is that I get my (warped) validation from men (three father rejection thingy), so I love the attention and compliments, but it's also just a job and I don't get turned on; I just want to give a good service. Their faces kinda fall a bit flat, the poor things.

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Re: being asked if you like your job- what do you reply
« Reply #24 on: 26 January 2024, 08:45:33 am »
It is mainly the admin and timewasters that are irksome.

Justine

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Re: being asked if you like your job- what do you reply
« Reply #25 on: 26 January 2024, 11:53:28 am »
I don't think telling clients I am never turned on or enjoy the sex is a wise move. It could put many clients off making a repeat booking.

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Re: being asked if you like your job- what do you reply
« Reply #26 on: 26 January 2024, 11:56:05 am »
I don’t think we owe any answer to anyone. Just blank the question. If they want to try so hard to ruin the fantasy that’s on them.

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Re: being asked if you like your job- what do you reply
« Reply #27 on: 26 January 2024, 12:44:08 pm »
I get fed up with being asked this. Sometimes i say to them i hate it!! But then say only joking as would make the service harder work for me!

I pretend i mostly like it when they ask and some assume i love it because i put on a friendly act. I sometimes don't mind it depending on how many decent clients turn up, other times i hate it especially having to be so secretive and working in a hotel having to hope no maids see men coming in and being away from home. It's a nerve wracking job.

I wonder if these men ask the women that it is obvious they put on no act and look miserable if they love it?

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Re: being asked if you like your job- what do you reply
« Reply #28 on: 27 January 2024, 12:06:09 am »
I keep it simple.... yes, I live and breathe this job, it is who I am, I couldn't imagine doing anything else, I adore the freedom and nobody can put any constraints on me....... and it's mostly true, why drop the facade, after all it's what they pay for?

Truthfully, as soon as they walk out of the door they're forgotten anyway, so what if  a little "sugar talk" is included in the price.... no skin off my nose.......... a good friend once told me, "keep things simple, Stupid!"  :D
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Silvercityblondie

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Re: being asked if you like your job- what do you reply
« Reply #29 on: 27 January 2024, 12:15:57 pm »
Dreamed to be a hooker all my childhood. Watch their perplexed face when you say it  ;D