Quote from: meetingdiversity on 10 June 2013, 09:34:07 pm

Quote from: MissPretty on 10 June 2013, 08:32:40 am

I been feeling a little depressed with escort and life at the moment.
I started to have weigh problems couple of years ago so now im a size 14-16 i feel terrible because my family are all slim and i was also even after had my son i was a size 8-10 coming to london to live made my pco condition worce and now this is affecting me so much clients and some family menbers are mention all the time my weigh and that depress me so again im taking the magic pills and because im getting to much stress because of work im starting to feel terrible and to top up im working in a area where is like no calls at all for me im trieng now for 5 days but is like getting worce girls they charge very cheap and i dont want to go less then 100? a hour especially when im paying a fee to rent the place clients dont read my profile and them came to me and ask me what size im that stress me alot why they cant bother to read?Last week had a client not coming as he did not read my profile and said he wanted to see someone smaller then had other escort trieng to compare herself with me saying she meaby is busy then me because she is smaller i just look and said nothing is like im been bully in this work and i feel to stop

I lost 7 stone 4 years ago through vigorous gym with long walks outside. Magic pills will only be a quick fix if any thing before they stop working because the body gets used to drugs needing more of to benefit. I used to torture myself actually cared about what others think of me. Now couldn't care less as what is really important is what I think about myself. If others want to opinionate let it bounce right back off you. Clients like all different sizes. I am not skinny and still there is a craze for business. Many clients look for quality not just looks, shapes because if one looks glam one client told me she was rubbish in bed. Hang on in there chick.

Thank you alot for the support

Remember to keep feeling good about yourself. Over the weekend during a photo shoot in Dublin. I felt so proud telling myself that I love my body regardless. I go to the gym, sauna and Jacuzzi three times a week on set days and times. Like a schedule even bookings get turned down yes is difficult but need to prioritize my well being in-between living as an escort. The time away really has helped me mentally giving me some normality in my life. Meeting people talking normally about the weather. This stimulates me well. I only wish had made this decision earlier as now feel very content in all aspects of my life.


Remember take little steps towards the bigger personal goal. This makes it more achievable and doesn't seem to big a challenge.

I can't really add more to what others have said, but I like to help and give my opinion. I would stick at whatever rate you are. If you go lower and to a rate your not happy with you'll regret it. Don't follow other girls thinking it will help you.
I agree with the others get some photographs done showing your a curvy beautiful women and if they don't read your profile then its there fault not yours. You cannot be blamed for their idle stupidly. Maybe go to the gym or if you can get some exercise equipment if you prefer to work out at home, personally I do. I hate the gym and only go rarely to swim. I've found walking places you would normally drive/use public transport is a good free to get some exercise. I find drinking plenty of water is good for filling you up.
On a feeling horrible day about my weight I'll eat just fruit and fill up on water. I find keeping busy makes me forget about eating. This of course is not good for long term. 

Im thinking serious to join the gym again im feeling so bad im really thinking to have my tummy done.
Phetermine is strong and is making me feel sad as i m cutting all things i dont need to eat anymore but as i said i feel is affecting me personally and work.

I would highly recommend the app   couch to ck25  its a free app but it gets you running  from nothing to 5k 10 25k  Its dead easy to use and you should be able to go from 0 to 5 k in 9 weeks or twelve if you repeat  a few weeks
   
its brilliant i have been using it and i can do 5k - 10k with no probs there are lots of race for lives over the next few months that you can enter 

Im doing a 10k race in a few weeks for race for life and i did a few 5k races as wells  its really easy to use and with running you can run anywhere  i take my running stuff with me when i tour and either run first thing in the morning 3k which take 30mins or last thing at night ever day
I will never be thin but i am fit healthy and firm

Hi Miss pretty I hope your feeling better
I don't know much about prescription drugs but those magic pills don't seem to be very magical at all?

If getting slimmer will make you happier but the pills make you feel bad. So then even if you lose weight you still feel bad because the pills bring your mood down?
 
Also if your feeling sad then you clients will pick up on it which isn't good for your business.
It is hard when people that are the closest to us say or do things to hurt us when they should be the ones we turn to for support. Especially when its our family, but every day is a new day and a new start.

Well I am not too far away from you and Im kind of free tomorrow so if you fancy a chat over the phone, or to go for a coffee or whatever let me know...Its ok if you dont want too but the offer is there 

when I'm touring now  i book my hotels on the basis of where is the nearest subway takeaway    because i can eat pretty healthy on there salads without having to think to much about what I'm going to eat plus a lot of them or 24 hours now in the main cities which is brilliant

I can highly recommend hypnotherapy for your problems, the results can be amazing if the practitioner is good.

One person I can personally recommend and is definitely worth travelling for can be found here [Link removed - PM please]  he is based in Chorley and will only treat one issue at a time, but he only needs one session with you to cure one thing, no courses, no counselling, just an instant cure. 

I was a little bit sceptical beforehand, but I was just so sick of feeling the way I did I was prepared to give anything a try, and it has transformed my life!

If you want any more information, or a chat, let me know and I will give you my number.

x

Believe it or not I once looked at this but found other ways to motivate myself.

Re juicing it can be good but not if the juices are pure sugary fruits. I tried all sorts of things until  I came back to plain old health, basics long with portion control.

good to hear your feeling better , I suffer with my weight gain and loss luckily 2 stone so far has come off but I have a little more to go I also have pco I was given metforim for it (prob spelt that wrong) and mint tablets . taken daily they both help alot