I been feeling a little depressed with escort and life at the moment.
I started to have weigh problems couple of years ago so now im a size 14-16 i feel terrible because my family are all slim and i was also even after had my son i was a size 8-10 coming to london to live made my pco condition worce and now this is affecting me so much clients and some family menbers are mention all the time my weigh and that depress me so again im taking the magic pills and because im getting to much stress because of work im starting to feel terrible and to top up im working in a area where is like no calls at all for me im trieng now for 5 days but is like getting worce girls they charge very cheap and i dont want to go less then 100? a hour especially when im paying a fee to rent the place clients dont read my profile and them came to me and ask me what size im that stress me alot why they cant bother to read?Last week had a client not coming as he did not read my profile and said he wanted to see someone smaller then had other escort trieng to compare herself with me saying she meaby is busy then me because she is smaller i just look and said nothing is like im been bully in this work and i feel to stop

What are 'magic pills'?

Hey,

Sorry to hear you are having a bad time, weight really can affect how we feel about ourselves, especially if people remind us. Mine fluctuates between a 12 and 14, due to my frame I look too slim at a 12 and quite big as a 14, despite there only being a few pounds in difference as it always shows on my face and tummy. People always comment on it for some unknown reason?

I think, depending on frame, those of us who are larger but not as bootylicious as the BBW's can have marketing issues. I think Sugar could be right, maybe your online presence needs to be freshened up, maybe even adding 'voluptuous' to your name etc?

I must admit that for work it has not bothered me, but I guess this is due to gents knowing what they are getting from me first. Plenty of gents want a little bit more meat on a lady and choose us because of it, so in fact it helps my confidence. It is in my personal life that I fret about the extra pounds and feel I have to live up to being as sexy as my day job (Yeah, yeah, I know!).

As for the phones ringing, well I have not had a dip in calls or messages since January, but last week was DIRE. The sun came out and nobody called. I thought it was supposed to make them randy? A few ladies I know in London had that too, so I would not take that personally, just as one of those dips that can happen across the board, or to one person, without reason.

Rates wise, I am sticking to my guns with my ?140 incall rate, despite there being some girls turn up locally charging a pittance. There are gents who will flock to those ladies and others who will avoid them.

You say you want to stop, but think about maybe having a complete refresh of your profile and getting rid of older pictures and replacing etc and seeing how that goes for a while. Unless the job is affecting you terribly, you would need an exit plan and that can take some organizing.

I'm not sure if any of my waffle has helped as I have not said a lot, but I guess I am just trying to say that I hear you.

H x

stay strong miss pretty

make sure you put your correct size on your profile and put something on there about being curvy.Don't drop your prices,everyone seems to be doing that and it's just going to make things worse,I'm not dropping mine a penny below ?200 an hour and I do still get bookings like once a week,which is enough to live on,if you drop them you'll just end up feeling pissed off and used and if everyone else in the area drops theirs you'll have to drop them even lower in a few months,don't do it!I find a fast way to lose weight is to eat a lot (it speeds up your metabolism) but only eat stuff that's low fat,I find melon really fills me up and pasta,yogart as well eat plenty of protein cos that's filling too,then just do as much exercise as you have time to in a day,if you can get 3 hours in it's possible to lose half a stone in a week.I know what you mean about feeling pushed out of the business-I used to think aw were blocking my emails from coming through,it went so quiet through march and april
If it's just a little extra fat around your tummy you're worried about,couldn't you wear a corset/basque type thingy for work,to cover it up a bit

Please be careful with Phentermine, I know it's supposed to be a safer alternative but it's related to amphetamine and tolerance can build.

When I was a size 14 I couldn't classify myself as BBW because I still didn't have big breasts, and it was mostly on my stomach. Takes time to lose weight permanently and in a healthy way.

I been feeling a little depressed with escort and life at the moment.
I started to have weigh problems couple of years ago so now im a size 14-16 i feel terrible because my family are all slim and i was also even after had my son i was a size 8-10 coming to london to live made my pco condition worce and now this is affecting me so much clients and some family menbers are mention all the time my weigh and that depress me so again im taking the magic pills and because im getting to much stress because of work im starting to feel terrible and to top up im working in a area where is like no calls at all for me im trieng now for 5 days but is like getting worce girls they charge very cheap and i dont want to go less then 100? a hour especially when im paying a fee to rent the place clients dont read my profile and them came to me and ask me what size im that stress me alot why they cant bother to read?Last week had a client not coming as he did not read my profile and said he wanted to see someone smaller then had other escort trieng to compare herself with me saying she meaby is busy then me because she is smaller i just look and said nothing is like im been bully in this work and i feel to stop

I lost 7 stone 4 years ago through vigorous gym with long walks outside. Magic pills will only be a quick fix if any thing before they stop working because the body gets used to drugs needing more of to benefit. I used to torture myself actually cared about what others think of me. Now couldn't care less as what is really important is what I think about myself. If others want to opinionate let it bounce right back off you. Clients like all different sizes. I am not skinny and still there is a craze for business. Many clients look for quality not just looks, shapes because if one looks glam one client told me she was rubbish in bed. Hang on in there chick.

Quote from: MissPretty on 10 June 2013, 08:32:40 am

I been feeling a little depressed with escort and life at the moment.
I started to have weigh problems couple of years ago so now im a size 14-16 i feel terrible because my family are all slim and i was also even after had my son i was a size 8-10 coming to london to live made my pco condition worce and now this is affecting me so much clients and some family menbers are mention all the time my weigh and that depress me so again im taking the magic pills and because im getting to much stress because of work im starting to feel terrible and to top up im working in a area where is like no calls at all for me im trieng now for 5 days but is like getting worce girls they charge very cheap and i dont want to go less then 100? a hour especially when im paying a fee to rent the place clients dont read my profile and them came to me and ask me what size im that stress me alot why they cant bother to read?Last week had a client not coming as he did not read my profile and said he wanted to see someone smaller then had other escort trieng to compare herself with me saying she meaby is busy then me because she is smaller i just look and said nothing is like im been bully in this work and i feel to stop

I lost 7 stone 4 years ago through vigorous gym with long walks outside. Magic pills will only be a quick fix if any thing before they stop working because the body gets used to drugs needing more of to benefit. I used to torture myself actually cared about what others think of me. Now couldn't care less as what is really important is what I think about myself. If others want to opinionate let it bounce right back off you. Clients like all different sizes. I am not skinny and still there is a craze for business. Many clients look for quality not just looks, shapes because if one looks glam one client told me she was rubbish in bed. Hang on in there chick.

Thank you alot for the support