I want to share my story because it was a nightmare. It was with a client after going out for a coffee. I thought why not.
Everything was going very well after two weeks until he started saying the escorting was hurting him. I should have ended it there and then.

He was very manipulative and I missed many bookings because of him toward the end he stopped seeing me and said only when I quit. Silly me should have left it but he was saying all the right things capturing my heart even more. We had dreams together we spoke about.

He was a mind fuck, I feel more free of him.   He even said several times he would see me towards the end so I missed more clients. He even wanted me to go civy so on top of applying and going for interviews he was stressing me out.


I became upset over all of this and putting on a brave face with bookings was very hard. So now I'm feeling good on my own again after this bad mistake.

He would text me several times daily.

He promised me paradise. I will never cross the line with clients for the rest of my escorting days no matter how nice they are. He came across shy during the booking. Oh my... This was who he really was being a very smart guy who plays on emotions.

I don't think it's only clients, being in a relationship can have an influence over us. I always think it's best to take a step back, assess the impact and go with what your heart says. Someone who lets you be you is worth their weight in gold.

Quote from: Mirror on 29 March 2016, 07:36:35 pm

I don't think it's only clients, being in a relationship can have an influence over us. I always think it's best to take a step back, assess the impact and go with what your heart says. Someone who lets you be you is worth their weight in gold.

Very true, most partners I've had have tried to persuade me to get out of the job, my current bloke is cool about it x

Mine haven't, however previous to sex work I have had partners tell me to quit other major interests for them............it didn't work!

yes you do live and learn, and then use your experiences with every day life...

but my reply has always been, even with the lap dancing days " how is a date going to pay my bills??" then I reply saying once I have made my bills then "ill contact you" once i have a day off like most normal people do on their days off work.

by then i just want to see family and friends more then a "client" who is never ever going to put us into the "wife" category of life.

been their, done that, got the t-shirt and court case to show for it.