Hi Ladies, since the age of 13 I was "fat" it is hormonal with me and I have always had a good diet but I love my carbs and yummy food.    I do not have cholesterol, diabetes the worst i suffer from are my periods and water retention during a period.  I had bulimia from the age of 15 - 22 this was due to peer pressure not from school but also from my mom who was a model in her day.  Did not help my brother was this blonde adonis.

I was married for 10 years and my husband did not like to be seen in public with me, why he married me i have no idea.  The only place I have found acceptance for my weight is through my escorting, I have come to love my body with all its lumps and bumps. Although i am trying to lose atleast a stone as my face looks hideous with a double chin.  I am a size 18 at the bottom and 22 on top due to my boobs.

My friends can not believe my size as they all say I do not look that big.  I dont wear tight fitting clothes purely because i hate clingy clothes I love my oversized clothes not because i am hiding my fat but because i am able to move freely and feel comfortable. 

There was an article in the daily mail yesterday about fat fashion bloggers.  These are girls who do not give a damn about what people say about them. 

Remember the most alluring thing to a man is Confidence not body size.

Blimey....who resurrected this old chestnut? Some things should never be discussed...religions, politics, race and size IMO!

Quote from: MissPretty on 09 November 2012, 11:40:39 pm

Im young also andi work now for few years i been bullied but clients for been bigguer then normal escorts

This is pretty much what I thought, which is why you've been led to believe ALL clients go for "slimmer" ladies. Have you looked into how to boost your self esteem/confidence? How to deal with crap men who try to make you feel crap? How to feel good from the inside so it shows on the outside?

I already have mysel problems in getting bigguer is not just the clients one think is if i had always been big that i undertand but no i was always slim even after having my son simple pco destruid my life sometimes i feel that.
Plus clients on top been rude like that just put me off.Im tall so makes me look less bigger but when u work with slimmer girls u feel.And agencies dont take bbw or plus size the bigguer agencies dont accecpt girls bigguer then a size 10 its shame but well is all about the looks in this industry

In my opinion Pretty you are looking in the wrong places.  Stop being negative about being big, stop trying to work for agencies who will not promote you the way you are. 

Big women can be just as gorgeous as skinny women, skinny women are not always that pretty either.  If you are attracting the wrong clients it might be in how you advertise yourself.  There are a lot of bigger escorts that do very well for themselves.

When I started in the industry i worked in a Working house and was surrounded by gorgeous petite girls two of them were part time glamor models.  But the women who got the most work and who was more popular was myself and the lady in her 40's.

There is nothing wrong with women being "fat", "plump", "voluptuous" and utterly gorgeous.  You do not have to be skinny to be attractive.

This photo of me was taken 1 week ago, do i look unattractive? And do bear in mind I am a size 18 bottom and 22 on top

Grr I hate that men can give women image issues.  It is bad enough that if we are not a size zero then magazines look down on us but even in this industry there are people that really do believe we all have to be a set size with set length hair and false boobs that sit high on our chests.  It just is not true.  My clients love my curves, they even love the fact my boobs do not sit quite as high as they used to do as they want a more natural look.  My clients know What I look like and they know I am never going to be a size 8 or 10 and they would not see me if I did.  They prefer the women across the road look.  Infact more than half my clients ask my to not even wear make up.

Yes there are clients who want the porn model look, there are cleints that want a size 8 max and under 25 years old but there are just as many clients that want a normal looking woman with curves and hips and boobs.  There are even plenty who like supersized women.

There are enough for all of us so I do not knwo why some need to judge others or make coments just because someone does not fit the idea that has been drummed into them.

@MissPretty, you may feel you need to stay a set size for yourself and for your clients but that does not mean everyone else has to agree with you.  You may not want to get big or even be above a certain size but some of us are very happy with how we look.

The most attractive thing in a woman is confidence, it is not her dress size nor how made up she is, it is how she holds herself and feels about herself that attracts men.

heres me, a size 22/24.

I HONESTLY HONESTLY do not want to be an 8 stone size 10 lady. If any of this weight ever leaves me, I would *like* to be 13 stone size 14/16. But if it doesn't, oh well! *shrugs* There's plenty of men who find me "beautiful" and are happy to pay to see/feel my big fat wobbly bits.

Exactly, and well said. Some people find me attractive, and some don't; it's just the way of the world. There's a shape out there for everyone, whether they are wearing it or looking at it. I'm quite saddened by some of the surreptitious fat-bashing on this thread, health is bog all to do with what size a person is. I get the opposite end of the body-policing with "Oh wow, do you even eat? You  must be REALLY unhealthy being that skinny." and I'm fine, thanks! I do wish people would stop making judgements on a person's health and well-being by making wrong, and often hurtful, comments because of what their outsides look like. Unless they're my GP and know my medical history - shut up. 

If this thread is going to be about the potential correlation between size and health risks, then it's not about escorting. So I'm locking it. (Please PM me if you feel you have a very escorting-related reply that you wanted to add.)