Right we get time wasters and fantasists' ringing, texting us and emailing us. Is it possible this is some guy having a laugh?
If not, apologies. It does sound bloody strange though.
I don't even have to pin point the oddness it's blatant. And I don't know what we're meant to say as it keeps getting weirder.
If you're being 'forced' to do this, God love you and you have my sympathy blah blah etc etc but if you are the 'full shilling' then why haven't you done something about this already?
You say he's your bf. He's not your husband and I assume you don't have kids with him or a mortgage etc. Why haven't you walked away? He doesn't sound like a 'great catch', well I personally wouldn't consider some weed smoking potential date rapist drug abuser ideal relationship material. And that's before you mentioned he may have allowed his friends to 'do disgusting things' to you after he had knocked you out at Christmas. May have? What the feck, like seriously?!