Perhaps this is too simple, and i'm pointing out the obvious, but: dont drink the drink your boyfriend gives you?

Yeah, I thought that. I must be simple too.

I've moved this because it's really nothing to do with the job. Meee, assuming you are an adult, how many people do you need to tell you that somebody who thinks it's OK to drug you without your knowledge or consent irrespective of your job, state of health or anything else is probably not someone you will benefit from spending time with?

Do he get a share of the money from your work?

Sorry hun but I've gone thru your posts and you seem to attract all these clients spiking your drinks (interestingly enough you keep accepting them), and now... your boyfriend is drugging you too?

I smell a rat.

 Right we get time wasters and fantasists' ringing, texting us and emailing us. Is it possible this is some guy having a laugh?

 If not, apologies. It does sound bloody strange though.

 I don't even have to pin point the oddness it's blatant. And I don't know what we're meant to say as it keeps getting weirder.

 If you're being 'forced' to do this, God love you and you have my sympathy blah blah etc etc but if you are the 'full shilling' then why haven't you done something about this already?

 You say he's your bf. He's not your husband and I assume you don't have kids with him or a mortgage etc. Why haven't you walked away? He doesn't sound like a 'great catch', well I personally wouldn't consider some weed smoking potential date rapist drug abuser ideal relationship material. And that's before you mentioned he may have allowed his friends to 'do disgusting things' to you after he had knocked you out at Christmas. May have? What the feck, like seriously?!

 

I smell a rat.

Like some guys sick fantasy?  Nice.

Because of course, women would really enjoy being treated this way and wouldn't end up damaged at all..

 MissThang haha that made me smile. Thanks hunn. xx