I wasnt trying to be rude to you yourself or even to the other poster if someone dose bareback thats down to them   its not something i really have an  opinion on as such,  people offer it and people accept and they have a choice to do so or not
im realistic enough to know that it goes on out there and all i can do as an escort for myself is to make sure that any client i see wears a condoms       i didnt even comment on the thread untill i read the unbeilivable post of about csa and the guy is weathly so she will only fuck him like this because if she get pregnant she made for life cos he is rich 
   
What did get me mad is the the  punters wife /partner dosnt get a choice in it, thats what i dont like, i would be saying exactly the same if  the guy was having an affair and having unprotected sex with the  other woman
 
   if you or  the other poster want to risk your health for a bit more money or just for the thrill of doing something risky   thats entirely  up to you both,    your  both your over 18 and its not illegal so there isnt really an issue from your side of it as your consenting adults  but for the client to do this and then go home and f.... his poor wife/partner  is wrong    she has no choice in it at all,   you do, your client dose, but she dosnt and its wrong  Im sure if you gave her a choice it wouldnt be yeah sure hun go ahead and fuck lou 19 and Meg foster bareback tonight  and dont forget to grab a pint of milk on the way home       
 Ok  lots of guys will  pay for sex with escorts and there wives and partners dont know  but if its with a condom and his wife  dosnt know  it may still not right morally  ( but that another post)  but  its safe and at  least she wont get a std or worse  and hes not playing russian roulette with her life,  but the whole no condom bit is wrong because he has a partner and she dosnt have a choice in weather or not she want to get an std or something along those lines   

   
 

Thanks Paris - your post was the little slap/cold-water in the face I needed to go back to the old-strict-no rubber-no-service policy with this fellow.

Seeing him tonight, actually, so thank you!

Quote from: Ellie_e on 06 September 2011, 03:38:17 pm

Personally I'd worry that if a client was in the habit of BB with other escorts that he might turn around during a booking and hassle me for BB, or 'accidentally' let the condom slip off, or something of the sort...

The problem with that is that you have no possible way of knowing whether the bloke is in the habit of BB with other prossies, or anybody else. And just because he is or isn't doesn't make him any more or less likely to interfere with a condom - there's plenty who will try that one, and it's more than likely going to be the ones who pick ladies who don't offer unprotected sex as they're more likely to think they won't catch anything. The people who want BB without the hassle will just book ladies who offer it; it's the nasty ones who want to try and get away with something that isn't on the menu we have to watch for all the time.

Hi Amy- Agree with you but for me personally it's psychological. I would refuse to see a client if i knew he saw other ladies who offer bareback. It's just the thought of it for me.

I've been pestered for BB a handful of times, not many and it's just something we occasionally have to deal with - the most persistent bloke I remember did book me through AW and there was no clue in either his feedbacks or emails that he was going to try this. Being vigilant about condoms is part of the job (and on the flip side I've had clients who tried to insist on wearing two at once, and the tiresome explaining of why this was a bad idea was even more annoying than Mr of-course-I'm-clean-I'm-married).

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Someone rang me yesterday and asked if I would do it for an extra ?100. I told him I wouldn't for all the tea in China. That must have gone over his head because he then upped the price to ?150.

 

I had a guy email me (posted in world champs) saying he'd soooo love to meet me, but only if it was 'with his bare cock'

Humm wonder how many he sent that to?

Ive been in far more dangerous situations than this job, because ive been a thrill seeker. I was probably at my most dangerous when i was 15-17 when i used to go around having BB sex with about half of the guys, and out with boyracers at cruises and races around the country. Speeding like 120-150mph down main roads through town at night in big suped up cars, seen a few extreme near misses that really scared me, a girl friend from college died from a car crash, so i dont go there anymore its far far too risky.

This job pales in comparison unless we're talking sex with animals/corpse, body mutilation, brutal pain causing scars, murder etc that sort of stuff. That can happen regardless of being a call girl or not. If i want to make sure that doesnt happen to me id get a normal job, go home and never go out, stay in away from all chances of danger.

Id never do BB with any random client, its way too risky, it only takes one of those girls on AW in London who are from Europe to catch HIV/syphilis, a client catches it then gives it to me. So no way am i offering BB on a wim like some girls are on AW, ive already been there done that in my personal life before escorting, now i pretty much never sleep with anyone other than clients. I can tolerate being called the towns bike (if word got out) but not called the local sperm bank.

I fear these posts are not actually from a WG, but from a man looking for cheap thrills... Yawn... Pull the other one...

I can't see clients who have done BB with other girls. It is a psychological thing, but I can't deal with it morally. It's dangerous, and just rings alarm bells for me..

Lol, this has been really interesting!  The mind boggles!

I can't imagine having unprotected sex with a client, I really really can't.  Even if I stretch my imagination to it's furthest lengths I can't see myself saying 'go on, just do it'.

I imagine some girls see sex work as an extension of their personal sexual experiences, which is sad really.  I guess if you are willing to fuck strangers unprotected, it's not a huge leap to do it for money as well.

Personally I think I'd be devastated to discover that chlamydia had been twisting up my insides, or warts were turning my vagina into a mass of road bumps while I was happily putting my faith in unfaithful men.  But then that's me expressing my opinion while squicking out.

Ironically, the only men who have ever asked me for BB have been regulars.  I was never very impressed

I never pass judgement on how someone wants to work as each to their own but some of the comments on here made me physically feel sick,  The pregnancy comment horrified me.  It has not been though through at all.  I had a child with a man who had a very well paid job and is very wealthy, we were even together at the time of the birth until the doctors stated my son had brain damage and would likely have life long compications.  He left the hospital and never came back and I have never been able to get a penny out of him.  Not a singe penny even though he is bloody loaded and has bought a house in the most expensive part of the country (houses start at just over a million).
Have you thought what you would do if heaven forbid your child had a disability. One that means for the first few years your life only consists of hospitals, medications and worry, where you have no life of your own at all. One that cost you thousands and thousands of pounds on health costs (the government dont cover it believe me).  I was lucky I met a wonderful man who looks after my son when I work so that I could do this job to pay for my sons needs, He needs therapists, nurses when he is bad and all sorts of other things the state wont pay for unless I put him in a residential care unit.
I have this now for the rest of his life. Not till he is 18 but until either he or I pass away. This may sounds extreme but it does happen more often than you would think, I know how many women I have met in the same situation and it is damn awful
As Paris said I also put more care/thought into bredding my bulldogs than you have in thinking this through. It took me nearly two years to find a suitable mate for my dogs.

Sorry for the lecture but you really do need to re think the whole If I do accidently get pregnant

I'm sorry to hear about the father abandoning you both. I do hope you get by ok and manage. I'm really glad you have help though.