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EnglishAmy40

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Re: Backhanded compliments
« Reply #45 on: 27 January 2021, 05:05:47 pm »
You're quite nice. I'd even take you out for dinner.

Hannah78

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Re: Backhanded compliments
« Reply #46 on: 28 January 2021, 10:44:36 am »
I get these every week

"You're very pretty for a black girl" ... I've gotten immune to this one overtime it doesn't bother me anymore

"Your profile says you're African but your English is very good and you sound British" ..... umm sir dual citizenship is a thing
 
and the once in a while "you look good BUT if you were to go to the gym...." sir stay out my business pls haahh

Omg HAHAHAH , I’ve recently just joined this site and can totally relate with this LOOOL. I’m also black & I started escorting in October 2020. The amount of back handed racist “compliments” these men come out with. They think they’ve said something nice too. Saying it nice and proud with their chest. It’s so off putting. Enough to make my clit shrivel up.

“You’re stunning for a black girl & I can’t believe you’re not an illegal immigrant or international student” like ... stfu please. How are these men in their 30s, 40s, 50s & 60s and still SO ignorant??? Like how?!

Hannah78

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Re: Backhanded compliments
« Reply #47 on: 28 January 2021, 10:53:40 am »
I could se myself dating you if you weren’t an escort  ???  Or words to that effect

Lol thanks for checking with me first usually it’s the less physically appealing ones that think they would have a shot with you in the real world. My GFE must be of the chart as 90% annoy me

I’m dead loooooo!!! This forum is the best thing I’ve ever found! So relatable ;D Most of these men are not nice to look at , AT ALL  :-X they have many annoying and disgusting personality traits too, that we put up with and never bring up!!

It’s cheeky for them to even suggest that we would even look twice their way, if we weren’t working. LOL , I’ve not met one punter that I would date. Not one.

Also the assumption that escorts don’t or can’t date is really irritating too. My dating life is great. I just want to make mulaaa baby $$$$  ;D

Maz

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Re: Backhanded compliments
« Reply #48 on: 28 January 2021, 03:33:55 pm »
“You’re stunning for a black girl & I can’t believe you’re not an illegal immigrant or international student” like ... stfu please. How are these men in their 30s, 40s, 50s & 60s and still SO ignorant??? Like how?!

Bloody chumps.

Saffy

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Re: Backhanded compliments
« Reply #49 on: 28 January 2021, 06:51:23 pm »
I usually go for a size 8 but I see what I've been missing...

EnglishAmy40

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Re: Backhanded compliments
« Reply #50 on: 28 January 2021, 07:27:02 pm »
I usually go for a size 8 but I see what I've been missing...

Lol!!!

Petlover29

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Re: Backhanded compliments
« Reply #51 on: 28 January 2021, 11:10:27 pm »
I had one guy book me and within the fist 5 mins of being in my room he says to me wow your eyes are nice, so I said aww thanks.. then he said are you stoned you look stoned..I wasn’t happy with that comment at all..


I wouldn’t mind I don’t even take cannabis.
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Jessiegirl

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Re: Backhanded compliments
« Reply #52 on: 05 January 2022, 04:48:08 pm »
A client texted me after our booking saying I've got the tastiest pussy ever and he's feasted on a lot. Sends another text I can put that quote on your feedback.

I quickly reply thanks but no thanks.
 

Vintage Miss

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Re: Backhanded compliments
« Reply #53 on: 05 January 2022, 05:41:49 pm »
"I like interesting women like you, rather than the beautiful ones."

"You've got a lot of books" (Surprised face)

And the classic, "I like a nice womanly woman/ with a bit of meat/other euphemism for fat"

pussycat

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Re: Backhanded compliments
« Reply #54 on: 07 January 2022, 02:53:05 am »
Oh how I love the “you seem like you’ve got your head screwed on, why do you do this?” Err because I have my head screwed on and want to make a few hundred £ an hour that ends up in my pocket rather than slave away on a crappy wage making some middle aged man rich. They don’t like it because sex work is the only profession where women are the superior earners. Every other industry is largely ruled by stale, pale, male types - clients  ;D

And the lines like “a girl like you (whatever that is supposed to imply?) won’t want anyone finding out about escorting”. Me: “oh, like family?”, them heavily agreeing. Me: “in fact my family are proud of the fact I have the business acumen to charge for something my peers dole out pro bono”. They like to big up what a ‘nice girl’ you are, and then remind you that you’re doing a job which (in their unsolicited opinion) you should be ashamed of. Fuck off cuntychops. My gfe doesn’t incorporate me being attacked for their insecurities. Any attempt at those daft games results in much of their paid for time being consumed by a good old rant on why these types make my piss boil. Well poppet, you poked the bear. Ah yes, we’re human and have opinions. Sometimes seemingly forgotten  ::)

Lady Frog

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Re: Backhanded compliments
« Reply #55 on: 07 January 2022, 03:00:46 am »
"I like interesting women like you, rather than the beautiful ones."

"You've got a lot of books" (Surprised face)


God these never fail to impress :FF

And my other favourite 'I'm not into the conventionally hot girls, I much prefer girls like you'.....??!!

Just because I don't have plastic surgery etc and don't look like a model doesn't mean I'm going to find this a compliment. Maybe just say something nice instead...
A woman, especially, if she have the misfortune of knowing anything, should conceal it as well as she can. - Jane Austen

Justine

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Re: Backhanded compliments
« Reply #56 on: 07 January 2022, 10:10:54 am »
(I love "fuck off cuntychops"  ;D )

Having had more than my fair share of backhanded compliments I shall recall a few now.

"those teeth look very realistic" to which I asked why do you say that as they ARE real! He said "but at your age they must be false" 

"when did you first decide to have Botox injections"?  I have never had them and just replied that I am very lucky with my facial skin and it is ageing much more slowly than even I expected. He looked at me with scorn and obviously thought I was lying.

"I would be ok to be seen in public with you so we could meet for coffee or something"  Er no MisterStupid you will never have that privilege!

CelesteManchester

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Re: Backhanded compliments
« Reply #57 on: 07 January 2022, 11:57:36 am »
I could se myself dating you if you weren’t an escort  ???  Or words to that effect

Lol thanks for checking with me first usually it’s the less physically appealing ones that think they would have a shot with you in the real world. My GFE must be of the chart as 90% annoy me

I’ve had this 1 a cpl times & always immediately whipped back, “What makes you think I’d want to date you?”

Priceless.😂😂
An American on a British site, still learning the slang😉

Escortx

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Re: Backhanded compliments
« Reply #58 on: 07 January 2022, 12:03:19 pm »
I get a lot of comments because I’m a bbw. Usually you’re pretty for your size etc

saltysweet

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Re: Backhanded compliments
« Reply #59 on: 07 January 2022, 12:11:52 pm »
'You must have been beautiful...when you were young.'

I was 28 :). He was trying to wriggle out of an outcall but I chose to be cool and refused to take the hint. My feet didn't move and I stared back at him...going nowhere till paid in full. I collected all my money and did the service despite his charming manners.

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