I had a request that I do a LFT before meeting and he also asked to see my latest sti results too. I do regular LFTs and am regularly sti tested but I felt the sti request was a step too far and told him for F off. Felt very intrusive tbh.

Just be careful with those that ask the question for sti results. I find it very disingenious. While it may be innocent and a new client who's nervous (new to this world) there are def those out there that pre-plan stealthing.

Just be careful with those that ask the question for sti results. I find it very disingenious. While it may be innocent and a new client who's nervous (new to this world) there are def those out there that pre-plan stealthing.

I took it quite badly and had a massive go at him for invading my privacy asking about that. I felt like he was insinuating I was dirty. He turned it back round to the LFT test which alone I wouldn't have minded someone asking but the STI request was intrusive and bordering on inquisition about my sex life. His profile was one that was quite hedonistic in description and I felt that there would be a BB request in there if I ever did see him. I didn't take it as an innocent request, it really did anger me.

Exactly. I got asked recently if I'd do BB via an AW email. My profile is very clear on this that I'll refuse to see anyone who thinks it's acceptable to even mention it. He replied 'yes I know what your profile says, and I'd never ask anyone who advertises it, so thought I'd ask you'. Oh, that's alright then.... dickhead

Once a year or so I receive contact from someone who says something similar, he claims he asks me because I don't advertise it so he considers me safer.
 

Once a year or so I receive contact from someone who says something similar, he claims he asks me because I don't advertise it so he considers me safer.
 

Insane! Like they're any safer. Idiots.