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LisaSmiles

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Are timewasters energy vampires?
« on: 19 June 2020, 09:49:42 am »
It is pretty bad at the moment for texts and calls from guys stuck at home or bored at work with no cash.  I have been watching What We Do In The Shadows on BBC and my favourite character is Colin Robinson who is an energy vampire.  He feeds on anger, frustration and anxiety which he causes by winding up or boring humans. 
Recent episode showed him with ten laptops messaging people on social media, getting them angry and het up and him feeding off that.  Big smile on his face that he had found a way to feed without leaving the house!
Timewasters wind up escorts with stupid enquiries or by texting "Hey!"  or "Are you free?" or "Hi" or "I am a good looking six foot man do you want to see me?" and then text "??" when you don't reply within 2 minutes.  This gets us angry and stressed; the timewasters are feeding off that.  They could all be Colin Robinson.
So next really stupid message I receive I will challenge them and reply "Hi, I know you are really Colin Robinson"

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Re: Are timewasters energy vampires?
« Reply #1 on: 19 June 2020, 09:57:09 am »
"This gets us angry and stressed"

It doesn't though! Or it needn't. When I get the "you free" "hi u avail?" messages I ignore. If there is a number I can save I do just that and save it to tw. block or something similar. What I never do is reply!  Let them have their fun and games but they get no response at all from me.

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Re: Are timewasters energy vampires?
« Reply #2 on: 19 June 2020, 10:19:13 am »
It is pretty bad at the moment for texts and calls from guys stuck at home or bored at work with no cash.  I have been watching What We Do In The Shadows on BBC and my favourite character is Colin Robinson who is an energy vampire.  He feeds on anger, frustration and anxiety which he causes by winding up or boring humans. 
Recent episode showed him with ten laptops messaging people on social media, getting them angry and het up and him feeding off that.  Big smile on his face that he had found a way to feed without leaving the house!
Timewasters wind up escorts with stupid enquiries or by texting "Hey!"  or "Are you free?" or "Hi" or "I am a good looking six foot man do you want to see me?" and then text "??" when you don't reply within 2 minutes.  This gets us angry and stressed; the timewasters are feeding off that.  They could all be Colin Robinson.
So next really stupid message I receive I will challenge them and reply "Hi, I know you are really Colin Robinson"

I love that show. The episode where he gets a promotion at work and goes on a corporate rampage of inane conversations and office micro aggressions is hilarious! I've been sending a copy and paste to everyone who exhibits timewaster tendencies saying "if you want to chat, please send me a £50 amazon UK voucher and I'll do 20 minutes whatsapp video chat with my face covered." Seems to scare off all the timewasters and sometimes generates some vouchers for me to go shopping.

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Re: Are timewasters energy vampires?
« Reply #3 on: 19 June 2020, 10:44:13 am »
It is pretty bad at the moment for texts and calls from guys stuck at home or bored at work with no cash.  I have been watching What We Do In The Shadows on BBC and my favourite character is Colin Robinson who is an energy vampire.  He feeds on anger, frustration and anxiety which he causes by winding up or boring humans. 
Recent episode showed him with ten laptops messaging people on social media, getting them angry and het up and him feeding off that.  Big smile on his face that he had found a way to feed without leaving the house!
Timewasters wind up escorts with stupid enquiries or by texting "Hey!"  or "Are you free?" or "Hi" or "I am a good looking six foot man do you want to see me?" and then text "??" when you don't reply within 2 minutes.  This gets us angry and stressed; the timewasters are feeding off that.  They could all be Colin Robinson.
So next really stupid message I receive I will challenge them and reply "Hi, I know you are really Colin Robinson"

OMG yes! I was thinking the same watching the 2nd series  ;D Their pleasure comes from the reaction they get so I always ignore them. My energy is too precious!

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Re: Are timewasters energy vampires?
« Reply #4 on: 19 June 2020, 10:54:08 am »
Yes, and I always used to answer the messages and so on but now I do all I can to protect my energy in escort life and in my normal life!.

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Re: Are timewasters energy vampires?
« Reply #5 on: 19 June 2020, 12:06:25 pm »
I love that show. I try and ignore time wasters as much as possible.

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Re: Are timewasters energy vampires?
« Reply #6 on: 19 June 2020, 12:32:39 pm »
I am considering the message above, I am also going to be advising a few that I run a business - some just seem to want a lot of chat by which I don't mean making an enquiry, it's more like dating or something to keep them company.

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Re: Are timewasters energy vampires?
« Reply #7 on: 20 June 2020, 04:35:49 pm »
"Hi", "Hello beautiful", "Are you free", "How much" "Who dis"... so tedious.

Sometimes I text back later - Hello this is The Penis Enlargement Clinic returning your call.
« Last Edit: 20 June 2020, 06:04:41 pm by Saffy »

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Re: Are timewasters energy vampires?
« Reply #8 on: 20 June 2020, 07:18:55 pm »
"Hi", "Hello beautiful", "Are you free", "How much" "Who dis"... so tedious.

Sometimes I text back later - Hello this is The Penis Enlargement Clinic returning your call.

😅😅😅

I sometimes reply hoping to educate or just to tell them how to book but pretty much 100%  these dudes are TWs and don’t deserve any replies.

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Re: Are timewasters energy vampires?
« Reply #9 on: 21 June 2020, 09:14:28 am »
Only if we gals let them be energy vamps  ;)

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Re: Are timewasters energy vampires?
« Reply #10 on: 21 June 2020, 09:37:16 am »
😂😂😂 Oh Safi you have made my Sunday I don't think I have laughed for a very long time now that's the best answer for the so called time wasters.

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Re: Are timewasters energy vampires?
« Reply #11 on: 23 June 2020, 08:15:15 pm »
How or indeed if I respond depends on what kind of mood I'm in. Mostly I just ignore them, but sometimes I just want to have fun playing with them *evil laugh*
« Last Edit: 23 June 2020, 09:46:02 pm by Snow Whitest »

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Re: Are timewasters energy vampires?
« Reply #12 on: 23 June 2020, 09:18:08 pm »
I no longer reply to the short pointless texts or emails
I loose concerntration with the fantasist long emails they don't message by phone .
By ignoring I can move on hopefully to other genuine guys .
I used to get very wound up and annoyed but I gave too much of my time wondering if they were booking or not

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Re: Are timewasters energy vampires?
« Reply #13 on: 24 June 2020, 10:09:24 am »
I hardley feel that I bump in to timewasters because arranging bookings is done via aw and if they dissapear no worries. They get to phone me an hour before bookings. I believe my procedure weeds out the bad ones because time wasters and effort do not mix together.

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Re: Are timewasters energy vampires?
« Reply #14 on: 24 June 2020, 10:15:40 am »
Only if we gals let them be energy vamps  ;)

I agree and think why give clients an opportunity to be twits? If something isn't working, sit back, re-evaluate, approach things different and then things will improve is my formula.