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Emmaaa

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Re: How do you protect your feelings in this job?
« Reply #30 on: 07 August 2020, 03:57:08 pm »
I protect my feelings being in charge not in a bossy way with the attitude that I own this.

If a client has a chip on his shoulder pushing out on to me I don't see again.
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fallen angel

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Re: How do you protect your feelings in this job?
« Reply #31 on: 08 August 2020, 10:18:36 pm »
Not a problem for me as I can probably count on the fingers of one hand how many clients I have actually fancied in the many years I've been doing this job and they are always attached so couldn't be available to suit me so a  none starter.
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cherryfcuk

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Re: How do you protect your feelings in this job?
« Reply #32 on: 08 August 2020, 10:57:18 pm »
I have never had feelings for a client - its easy we have discipline over our emotions. I guard my personal life and never let my guard down. even if the money if big, don't be afraid to risk loosing them!
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TantricTease

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Re: How do you protect your feelings in this job?
« Reply #33 on: 09 August 2020, 06:27:56 am »
Quote from: cherryfcuk on 08 August 2020, 10:57:18 pm
I have never had feelings for a client - its easy we have discipline over our emotions. I guard my personal life and never let my guard down. even if the money if big, don't be afraid to risk loosing them!
Exactly! I always say that there will be another client that will come along to replace any we have to lose through their bad behaviours etc, so let’s not put up with any bullshit!
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Lushblossom

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Re: How do you protect your feelings in this job?
« Reply #34 on: 09 August 2020, 08:37:52 am »
I think it is just something you learn to do over a year or so.  Perhaps in the beginning it is tempting but not after a while.  I have been doing this for years now and don't get excited lol.
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SW

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Re: How do you protect your feelings in this job?
« Reply #35 on: 09 August 2020, 10:12:19 am »
My feelings don't come into it. It's a job, they are my clients.
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TantricTease

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Re: How do you protect your feelings in this job?
« Reply #36 on: 09 August 2020, 10:16:17 am »
I never let cheeky comments slide and I’m always cheeky back, it’s the way I am and it’s also the way I protect myself, I’m not one to smile sweetly and change the subject, sometimes I think I want them to be cheeky so I can say something back! Not good but it’s just the way I’m feeling towards work just now.
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