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Title: Am I crazy for not wanting to use his lipstick?
Post by: DarcyLady on 02 March 2020, 11:25:35 am
Hey ladies,

I had an appointment come in today. He wanted me to wear his girlfriend's lipstick, but I'm a bit anal when it comes to germs. I agreed to use it if it's in its packaging and unused, and he got very sh*tty about it. He was ranting and raving about how it was a Chanel lipstick... :-X
Title: Re: Am I crazy for not wanting to use his lipstick?
Post by: MissBehaving on 02 March 2020, 12:12:11 pm
Not at all , I wouldn't  "share " make up with anyone , and  especially lip and eye makeup !
Conjunctivitis and herpes ( cold sore ) are contagious ... he would unlikely kiss you if you sported a massive cold sore on your lips and so would your other clients !  Why on earth would he expect you to wear the lip sticks of a total stranger ??
Men can be so foolish at times grrrr....
Title: Re: Am I crazy for not wanting to use his lipstick?
Post by: DarcyLady on 02 March 2020, 12:15:40 pm
Those were my thoughts exactly!
Title: Re: Am I crazy for not wanting to use his lipstick?
Post by: saltysweet on 02 March 2020, 12:17:29 pm
Probably stuck it round his anus or in rat poison...who the f knows.
Title: Re: Am I crazy for not wanting to use his lipstick?
Post by: CelesteManchester on 02 March 2020, 12:20:56 pm
Oh FFS. This is another fantasy thing going on I promise you.

So you wear the lipstick 💄& then the next time SHE puts it on he's all, "yeah baby, if you only knew!"
It's like wearing someone else's underwear, for christs sake, that haven't been washed🤢.

Who cares if it's GD Chanel? Last I checked that particular brand had no magical properties (except the ability to take your $$ a fuck load faster), & I spent years as a makeup 💄artist🙄.
Title: Re: Am I crazy for not wanting to use his lipstick?
Post by: CelesteManchester on 02 March 2020, 12:25:19 pm
Probably stuck it round his anus or in rat poison...who the f knows.

*shoves my💄in Salty's face* it's been in mah butt! Wear it! You love me, wear it!

You're so stupid, I swear. I just woke up & once again, spit coffee ☕️on my phone thanks to you. Dope😂.
Title: Re: Am I crazy for not wanting to use his lipstick?
Post by: DarcyLady on 02 March 2020, 12:30:54 pm
I'm so glad that I'm not the only one who wouldn't do this. He made me doubt myself, and I kept wondering if I was being unreasonable, but I'm glad that I stood by my guns now!  ;D
Title: Re: Am I crazy for not wanting to use his lipstick?
Post by: saltysweet on 02 March 2020, 06:03:18 pm
 ;D aww Celeste!

Darcy, I never heard this type of this perve either. The cheeky bar steward.
Title: Re: Am I crazy for not wanting to use his lipstick?
Post by: amy on 02 March 2020, 06:34:11 pm
I'm so glad that I'm not the only one who wouldn't do this. He made me doubt myself, and I kept wondering if I was being unreasonable, but I'm glad that I stood by my guns now!  ;D

Fuck no, that's rank. Why on earth would he think you'll be impressed by a used lipstick, ffs? Tell him to buy a new one in the same shade and bring it for you if he likes it that much.
Title: Re: Am I crazy for not wanting to use his lipstick?
Post by: blondeorgasm on 02 March 2020, 06:37:08 pm
Any client who gets shitty and rants because you don't want to do something is defo not the type of client you'd want to see anyway. Block the prick
Title: Re: Am I crazy for not wanting to use his lipstick?
Post by: DarcyLady on 02 March 2020, 08:06:50 pm
Agreed. I am so glad you all agree. He wanted me to smear it everywhere too, and I just keep thinking of all the damn germs on it...
Title: Re: Am I crazy for not wanting to use his lipstick?
Post by: CelesteManchester on 02 March 2020, 08:31:39 pm
Agreed. I am so glad you all agree. He wanted me to smear it everywhere too, and I just keep thinking of all the damn germs on it...

Jesus Christ. What'd he want? A fricking paint 🎨by the numbers picture???
Title: Re: Am I crazy for not wanting to use his lipstick?
Post by: DarcyLady on 02 March 2020, 08:45:28 pm
Jesus Christ. What'd he want? A fricking paint 🎨by the numbers picture???

I KNOW!  ::) hehhe!
Title: Re: Am I crazy for not wanting to use his lipstick?
Post by: Maz on 03 March 2020, 10:35:41 am
Yuk, no way!  :FF  :o
Title: Re: Am I crazy for not wanting to use his lipstick?
Post by: Mirror on 03 March 2020, 10:56:11 am
Not crazy at all, I've had punters pull out toys from a side drawer in their family home - evidence of children and partner. Expected to use them on me, even if I was interested it would be washed and condom covered first.

Perhaps suggest you condom wrap it.

What jumps out at me is his reaction, that is the bit that is a warning sign and really wrong.
Title: Re: Am I crazy for not wanting to use his lipstick?
Post by: Philipa on 03 March 2020, 02:04:26 pm
he got very sh*tty about it. He was ranting and raving about how it was a Chanel lipstick... :-X
His ranting and raving would send my alarm bells ringing!
Not crazy at all, I've had punters pull out toys from a side drawer in their family home - evidence of children and partner. Expected to use them on me, even if I was interested it would be washed and condom covered first.
Same. Some clients never wash their used toys, you can see a layer of crust. Its appalling
Title: Re: Am I crazy for not wanting to use his lipstick?
Post by: BangerRacing on 03 March 2020, 11:11:28 pm
I'd have snatched it off him & made HIM wear it whilst throwing a 3 day old pair of my dirty knickers in his face asking "how do you like that in your face?" WTF is wrong with these clowns. Note to self; I really need to start doing BDSM.
Title: Re: Am I crazy for not wanting to use his lipstick?
Post by: CelesteManchester on 04 March 2020, 12:22:09 am
I'd have snatched it off him & made HIM wear it whilst throwing a 3 day old pair of my dirty knickers in his face asking "how do you like that in your face?" WTF is wrong with these clowns. Note to self; I really need to start doing BDSM.

Right? Some days my rage slash Hurricane Celeste is so great I think I should get into that side of it, but it just seems soooo icky.

Just had a request: he wanted to be tied to the bed, made to cum over & over & force fed his own semen.🤢🤢🤢

Where are you getting the information that I DO this shit? I'm GFE!!! *jumping up & down*
G motherfucking FE!!!

Sorry. Derailed the thread there for a mo *mutters darkly*.
Title: Re: Am I crazy for not wanting to use his lipstick?
Post by: Lady Frog on 04 March 2020, 01:02:26 am
His ranting and raving would send my alarm bells ringing!

+1

I have some crossdresser clients that like me to put lipstick on them, I have a separate lipstick just for them (each), I would never dream of letting them use my lipstick, not even one who I kiss on the mouth after we've both put make up on!
Title: Re: Am I crazy for not wanting to use his lipstick?
Post by: Ellie B on 04 March 2020, 03:11:28 am
Agreed. I am so glad you all agree. He wanted me to smear it everywhere too, and I just keep thinking of all the damn germs on it...
I would have smeared it on his arse and then stick it up his arse and tell him to fuck off. Was  it in Bristol by any chance?
Title: Re: Am I crazy for not wanting to use his lipstick?
Post by: DarcyLady on 04 March 2020, 03:56:03 pm
His ranting and raving would send my alarm bells ringing! Same. Some clients never wash their used toys, you can see a layer of crust. Its appalling

Well...yes. That's why I didn't see him, and had a rant on here!  ;D
Title: Re: Am I crazy for not wanting to use his lipstick?
Post by: hot flower on 04 March 2020, 04:18:01 pm
I feel sorry for the girlfriend and I don't even know her !!
Title: Re: Am I crazy for not wanting to use his lipstick?
Post by: LotusFlower on 11 March 2020, 12:37:03 am
Communal lipstick 🤢

Years back I had 2 clients bring items for me to wear that I later discovered, or gathered, were their girlfriends. One was a pair of Louboutins, another was a fancy dress costume for a roleplay. I was not impressed at all. I was providing a service but wearing their girlfriends' personal belongings whilst doing so was nothing short of disrespectful (ironic, I know).