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KittenCandy

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When they don't text back to confirm
« on: 25 May 2016, 06:33:23 pm »
It bugs me when someone calls for a booking then I text postcode and they don't acknowledge it. Usually they reply with "ok thanks" but few don't and it's annoying because then I think "no show" Someone has just done this now. TW or no? Should I cancel ? Why do some not confirm they've received the info?

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Re: When they don't text back to confirm
« Reply #1 on: 25 May 2016, 06:54:13 pm »
Maybe ask them to confirm then if they don't you know more like a time waster. Or ask them to confirm the booking at xtime. Then you know if. I have a delivery report set on mine. Some client prefer to book and to confirm. They may be busy.  Or send them a little text asking if the received. 

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Re: When they don't text back to confirm
« Reply #2 on: 25 May 2016, 07:15:38 pm »
It bugs me when someone calls for a booking then I text postcode and they don't acknowledge it. Usually they reply with "ok thanks" but few don't and it's annoying because then I think "no show" Someone has just done this now. TW or no? Should I cancel ? Why do some not confirm they've received the info?

I 100% agree. I 98% of the time get some sort of acknowledgement and on the odd occasion that I don't, I usually send a follow up text but it does still make me think they will be a no show so I'm reluctant to spend an hour getting ready for them.

Infact, I'm sure I've cancelled a couple of clients in the past for no acknowledgement.

I always put at the end of my address that I look forward to meeting them, as I say most reply with a thank you or that they're looking forward to me too but when I hear zilch, nada, not a thing....I can't quite decide on whether its poor communication or poor manners so makes me wonder what they'll be like in person if they do show up.

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Re: When they don't text back to confirm
« Reply #3 on: 25 May 2016, 07:39:24 pm »
Just being an idiot or an ASS full stop.  A sense of entitlement, "me a valued / respectable customer, she, just another lowly prostitute".  "why should I reply to a lowly woman who sells sex to random men?" etc.  An idiot, loud and clear.

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Re: When they don't text back to confirm
« Reply #4 on: 25 May 2016, 08:35:57 pm »
This has got up my nose today. Had a guy who I saw last month text to book today, said he wanted 6.30pm & was going into a meeting. I kept 6.30 open but he'd not said how long he was staying so I had to hold off other guys. He then text at 6.25 saying he wanted 7.30. He could have popped to the toilet or something & confirmed. I've ignored him, I hate when they can't say how long they want & confirm things. It seems like power games to me, completely inconsiderate.

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Re: When they don't text back to confirm
« Reply #5 on: 25 May 2016, 09:08:31 pm »
I would ask them to confirm receipt and attach a delivery notification.

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Re: When they don't text back to confirm
« Reply #6 on: 25 May 2016, 09:43:24 pm »
I can send the postcode/directions text at any time - the important thing for me is that they confirm when I ask them to, which is ususally 45-60 minutes before the booking, i.e. so I can shower and get made up etc. If they don't confirm, the booking is off as far as I'm concerned - and I've never had anyone forget to confirm and then announce that they were here.
"There is no sin except stupidity" - Oscar Wilde

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Re: When they don't text back to confirm
« Reply #7 on: 25 May 2016, 09:45:33 pm »
Exactly, Chattery..a lot of that goes on.  "Oh you kiss my ass to get my money, beg for it, let me see if you can act like a nice girl.." Then, I draw a line, he takes offence.   Block these idiots, who seem to think they are cleverer than us.  They seem to think, we are blind to their dispicable personality.   They are just being an ass!

Kendra

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Re: When they don't text back to confirm
« Reply #8 on: 25 May 2016, 10:18:49 pm »
Exactly, Chattery..a lot of that goes on.  "Oh you kiss my ass to get my money, beg for it, let me see if you can act like a nice girl.." Then, I draw a line, he takes offence.   Block these idiots, who seem to think they are cleverer than us.  They seem to think, we are blind to their dispicable personality.   They are just being an ass!

I personally think that with most of these types, it's just plain ignorance kinda like holding a door for someone and they walk right past you without saying thank you.

I don't think they deliberately try to play games as it doesn't do them any favours if they're genuinely wanting to meet with us.

Timewasters that have no intention in meeting us always have a creepy hidden agenda but the rest of the time, it's just plain old ignorance.

BlaqHarlot

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Re: When they don't text back to confirm
« Reply #9 on: 26 May 2016, 02:18:09 am »
I always ask guys to confirm now, as some just book you and assume that's it and it's just going ahead.
I need confirmation usually the night before or the morning of the booking, that way I can be sure it's still going ahead. X

ladyofthemansion

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Re: When they don't text back to confirm
« Reply #10 on: 26 May 2016, 07:59:27 am »
I text giving rough idea of location and ask if that's ok and how long they would like if that wasn't specified before.

Ladies! Sometimes delivery reports are not included in your unlimited free texts!!
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KittenCandy

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Re: When they don't text back to confirm
« Reply #11 on: 26 May 2016, 08:04:38 pm »
Another one who didn't confirm text . Aaaaaaaaand no showed, Meh, I was enjoying watching my music awards and didn't even bother to get ready anyway. Now I want oizza ;D

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Re: When they don't text back to confirm
« Reply #12 on: 27 May 2016, 08:21:02 am »
Or the ones that don't confirm then turn up lol and you're not ready or in some cases not even THERE! ;D
I'm glad I got all the Cynthia Payne books before the prices rocked to sky high.

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Re: When they don't text back to confirm
« Reply #13 on: 27 May 2016, 09:46:42 am »
I'd read this thread then for the first time, it happened to me! I was a bit radge until he apologised saying he'd given me the wrong number and we managed to reschedule!