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MISS RUBY

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about breast scars
« on: 07 May 2012, 06:49:05 pm »
I have large scars on underneath of my breasts that are visable due to a breast reduction carried out many years ago and although my clients never mention this i feel sometimes uncomfortable, I also dont charge a very high rate for my services because i feel im not 100% great looking naked. had anyone else gone through this operation before ?
Is there any cream or concealer for skin scars,( bio oil was useless.)
any recommendations .
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Re: about breast scars
« Reply #1 on: 07 May 2012, 07:05:13 pm »
I bet that there will be a chorus agreeing with this along soon :) but the reason clients don't mention any such scars is because half of them are too delighted to be in a room with a woman who has her bra off to notice. Most of the rest really, really, really do not care, and of those that do, many think it's proof you're a real woman not some flawless doll.

Many people find that having people pay hard cash to be with them helps them get over any doubts they have about their sexual attractiveness, especially as clients have thousands of others to chose from. I hope you become one of them.
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Re: about breast scars
« Reply #2 on: 07 May 2012, 08:00:21 pm »
I really am not at all confident about my breasts.  I breast fed and as a result my boobs lost their volume and one boob is (to me) noticeably bigger than the other.  When I started doing this I was worried in case I was physically "perfect" enough.  However I have been pleasantly surprised to find that I am very often complimented on my breasts by clients. 

I guess what I am trying to say is not to be too critical on any minor imperfections, I think if you feel sexy and confident then this always shows in a positive way and its what men really like.

I most definitely would not price yourself lower Ruby - you look very sexy in your little avatar pic - be proud of yourself !!

i totally agree with you xw5 - I have never felt so confident as do now I am an escort.  I love it!

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Re: about breast scars
« Reply #3 on: 07 May 2012, 09:02:39 pm »
I totally agree with the other girls. Men get happy when they see boobs! Asymmetrical? Saggy? With scars? For them, who cares?! It's boobs!! YAY  ;D

However, if you think that without the scars you would feel more confident, why don't you try a lotion made of a snail extract? It's really good with skin regenaration. I bought the Divine Derriere lotion to use on some acne scars on my back. If I get the results that I want, I'll let you know. Maybe it will help you with those scars. (On their website they have a before-after section that shows that it can lighten several types of "situations".

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Re: about breast scars
« Reply #4 on: 07 May 2012, 09:40:20 pm »
I bet that there will be a chorus agreeing with this along soon :) but the reason clients don't mention any such scars is because half of them are too delighted to be in a room with a woman who has her bra off to notice. Most of the rest really, really, really do not care, and of those that do, many think it's proof you're a real woman not some flawless doll.

Many people find that having people pay hard cash to be with them helps them get over any doubts they have about their sexual attractiveness, especially as clients have thousands of others to chose from. I hope you become one of them.

Good post, Ian :)

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Re: about breast scars
« Reply #5 on: 07 May 2012, 10:42:18 pm »
I'm 46 and due to a congenital disorder, had to undergo bilateral total hip replacements last year, one in March, the other October. I'm so much better with the legs akimbo thing than I was before the op's. My scars are approx 7-8 inches and although not obvious across the room, they are obviously there!! I've asked quite a few clients (that i've felt comfortable with) after the booking, if they noticed my scars. Hardly any of them had. We all have scars, inside and out.
 All I can say is to just be the best you can and watch the scars fade as your confidence grows.
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Re: about breast scars
« Reply #6 on: 07 May 2012, 10:52:17 pm »
Men + naked boobs= :D  ;D ha ha!rose hip oil is supposed to be fantastic for scars.something a little more drastic would be a TCA peel.Google both to read about them! :-*

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Re: about breast scars
« Reply #7 on: 07 May 2012, 11:04:32 pm »
Agree with everything Ian has said. It?s not just scars that men are blind to but all manner of other imperfections ? stretch marks, cellulite etc. IMO the most important thing is confidence ? if you don?t let it show that something is an issue to you then chances are others won?t notice/care too. I?m no supermodel myself, (I would class myself as average with an average body) but I?ve never had any one walk because of it or make any negative remarks about my looks. Why? Because the best feature on a woman is her smile and if you can get that sorted, everything else is inconsequential. 

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Re: about breast scars
« Reply #8 on: 08 May 2012, 01:06:25 pm »
I'm 45 so when I was 10-12 years old, the only porn around was magazines from the top shelf of the newsagents. There was no internet anything or CDs or videos. THE most popular part of those mags from the men's points of view, was the Reader's Wives bit. Why? Cos it was ordinary women, all types of body shapes and states of body, normal, approachable women that there was a chance that these men could shag - ie shagging them was an attainable possibility - they weren't a supermodel who the guy had to think 'well she'd never look at me'. I think we'd all be very surprised by how many men actually are just bl**dy grateful to have a real live woman there who's willing and enthusiastic and i don't honestly think that they care a hoot about all the little details that we beat ourselves over the head about! Nowadays it's all plastic and fake and porn stars, models and actresses with near perfect bodies (which are NOT representative of the majority of society) - but a lot of men would be put off by a 'perfect' escort like this - they want us knackered, half battered sorts (lol!!!) who have a few curves but we have a sense of fun. I do this myself though - at the age of 45 there's a lot of stuff I can beat myself up about believe me about my body, but even at this age having had two kids, if I'm honest, blokes could do a lot worse you know?! So I say, don't worry about it.

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Re: about breast scars
« Reply #9 on: 08 May 2012, 07:17:53 pm »
Well here goes!!!

In Oct 2009 I was diagnosed with breast cancer (some of you already know this), in Dec 2009 I underwent a double mastectomy. I was a lovely 40E now I'm a 40C well one is 40B. I have really big scars right underneath from the middle to right under my armpits & goin up the middle to my my nipple on the left, they had to take the nipple on the right cos the tumour was right behind it. I had reconstruction straight away, they put inflatable implants in & stretched the skin then had them replaced with permanent implants. I had a nipple made on my right one & have just had the nipples tattoed. I didn't show my boobs at all, on webcam or in the flesh, guys were fine & understanding about it when I explained why.

I have just started showing them on cam again & not had any comments even have 1 guy who absolutely loves scars!!

Even tho I hate them, their misshapen, odd sizes, not mine etc I'm still here & the guys have been really good.

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Re: about breast scars
« Reply #10 on: 08 May 2012, 07:55:26 pm »

Well here goes!!!
In Oct 2009 I was diagnosed with breast cancer (some of you already know this), in Dec 2009 I underwent a double mastectomy. I was a lovely 40E now I'm a 40C well one is 40B. I have really big scars right underneath from the middle to right under my armpits & goin up the middle to my my nipple on the left, they had to take the nipple on the right cos the tumour was right behind it. I had reconstruction straight away, they put inflatable implants in & stretched the skin then had them replaced with permanent implants. I had a nipple made on my right one & have just had the nipples tattoed. I didn't show my boobs at all, on webcam or in the flesh, guys were fine & understanding about it when I explained why.
I have just started showing them on cam again & not had any comments even have 1 guy who absolutely loves scars!!
Even tho I hate them, their misshapen, odd sizes, not mine etc I'm still here & the guys have been really good.
xx

Have to say my hip scars paled into insignificance when I read your post Kate...
How brave are you? Am so glad that the guys have been understanding. You are being true to yourself and your strength of character obviously shines right through. Be very proud of yourself.
Very best wishes,
Wiley.xxx

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Re: about breast scars
« Reply #11 on: 08 May 2012, 08:06:04 pm »
Thanx Wiley. It's life, shit happens. What made it worse was the fact that I was a whopping 40E & very popular for titwanks. LOL.

You deal with what life has to throw at you. My friend who I met in hospital in Dec 2009 had breast cancer too, she died at Easter.

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