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A standard rant but venting needed!
« on: 02 May 2009, 11:39:52 am »
I am so sick to bloody death of the men I have in my phonebook as 'text pest' 'text man' 'twat person'....

Along with starting to run out of things to call these pests so I know it is them when they call/text me... I am starting to loose my patience ignoring them and the desire to pick up and blow a whistle down the phone is enormous!
I have had a spate of it the last couple of weeks.... Same old idiots that think we don't keep phone numbers...
I have had it in mail form as well... 'I want a booking' then I get stupid mails from them like, 'Hey, what you doing right now?'
Argh! F**k off you bloody poor excuse for a human with no balls whatsoever and that is why you can't book me and only pester me by mail.....

One guy keeps texting me asking where his keys are?
Huh?
How on God's earth do I know? I don't even know who you are you total twit....
God. 
Ha! That's better. I am off for coffee and cake now!
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Re: A standard rant but venting needed!
« Reply #1 on: 02 May 2009, 12:20:50 pm »
http://allgirltogaparty.co.uk/blog/index.php/2008/07/songs-its-impossible-to-maintain-an-erection-to/

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Re: A standard rant but venting needed!
« Reply #2 on: 02 May 2009, 06:06:44 pm »
Ha, ha, yes, totally!
I had a text this afternoon asking me if I wanted a pic luv?
A pic of what? I was tempted to ask but held off, Christ knows what I would have been treated too....

I would add South Park to your list, My mom's a bitch by Uh, I think it's Kenny, no, hang on, he's the one that does not speak, it has to be Cartman! He's the little cheeky sod, isn't he!?

Sadly, I know all the words to that and have nearly got the middle bit down as well where he kind of goes, 'LALALALALDADADADABINGABONGA...'
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Re: A standard rant but venting needed!
« Reply #3 on: 02 May 2009, 07:37:23 pm »
Damn...you know Joanna, I really dont know why some of those guys insist on trying to contact you....

not sure with your case, but I know with me when it gets to the point someone annoys me, either by calling, texting or emailing persistantly; I put them on the spot and end their game. I've lost all of my time-wasters by turning it around on them.

For one, I can only not answer a call for so long. If they insist, you can turn around and be doubly upfront by telling them, "look, you dont have the money do you? no...well call me when you do have the money!"

That tends to embarrasse them to the point where they either finally book (rare) or give up. Challenge them. Its not a game. Its basically confirming their lack of whatever and it also shows that by calling an escort without money makes them look foolish.

Sometimes it gets to the point where you have to let em play the game. Like for example, had 1 guy calling me constantly throughout the week asking to book. Just couldnt quite take him seriously for obvious reasons. So, I let him book an incall one day (while I stayed home...I live only a couple miles drive from the hotel). He never made it. I never left. I also didnt call to 'check where he was'. Game over

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Re: A standard rant but venting needed!
« Reply #4 on: 02 May 2009, 08:27:17 pm »


One guy keeps texting me asking where his keys are?
Huh?
How on God's earth do I know? I don't even know who you are you total twit....

This is a ploy by the texter to engage you in conversation. They send you a message that's supposedly meant for someone else. You text back that they've got the wrong number and hey presto, they'll try their darndest to engage you in chat/sex chat, whatever their preference.

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Re: A standard rant but venting needed!
« Reply #5 on: 03 May 2009, 02:30:45 am »
This is a ploy by the texter to engage you in conversation. try their darndest to engage you in chat/sex chat, whatever their preference.

thats crazy. I couldnt imagine. I got a voicemail which preceded a call once...listen to this...from Miami Beach police (my number is still florida based) that called which was apparently being dispatched saying "Oscar, you're on the corner of ? street and ? avenue still?"

I'm like, what the hell? This isnt Oscar Im not sure how my number was given out...That was some scary shit. I wonder if it was a prank or something. The number kept showing up private and the 'officer' even left a couple of voice messages. How the hell would anyone get my number and forwarded to the police department is beyond me. I dont think I even had my ad running there yet at the time it happened.

Oh...and Im imagining if that same person was playing a prank and started talking dirty to me..I'd be in some shit and pissed!

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Re: A standard rant but venting needed!
« Reply #6 on: 03 May 2009, 10:06:04 am »
The reason I don't really want to engage in conversation with them Joey is you just never know how much of a nutter a person actually is.
As irritating as these text/calls/mails are, as much as I want to play a game to get them back or just tell them to f**k off in no uncertain terms I will not. I will not as they could easily become very cross, for want of a better term and contact me as a regular client, with a different email address or phone number, book me, and then what?
A man that constantly calls/text/mails with crap is not always just a sad git sat home alone, he might be a total lunatic just waiting for the woman that riles him up enough. I don't want to be that woman. Sometimes you have to turn off the phone until your head is in a better place to deal with it all and carry on ignoring them.

How is the weather over there Joey? It's warm and sunny here today. Did you manage to get back to the gym yet?
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Re: A standard rant but venting needed!
« Reply #7 on: 03 May 2009, 04:35:45 pm »
I agree with Joanna, there are a lot of strange people out there.  Never engage in conversation if you are cross, just ignore them and they will give up and bother someone else. 

The last thing you want is to have them contact you via another means and meet them.

It is a pain though finding new names to call the TW's as it does fill up your phone.

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Re: A standard rant but venting needed!
« Reply #8 on: 03 May 2009, 07:10:21 pm »
It is a pain though finding new names to call the TW's as it does fill up your phone.

Oh my good lordy- I just checked my phone- in one year I have acquired TWO HUNDRED AND TWENTY THREE "ignore" numbers. Unbelievable!

Joanna- I like the name "twat person"  :D I may have to move onto this when I get to 300 "ignores"!

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Re: A standard rant but venting needed!
« Reply #9 on: 03 May 2009, 08:21:07 pm »
The reason I don't really want to engage in conversation with them Joey is you just never know how much of a nutter a person actually is.

I can see that.

How is the weather over there Joey? It's warm and sunny here today. Did you manage to get back to the gym yet?

Well, it stormed and rained all day and night yesterday which probably killed off any chance of getting a booking. Today its still cloudy but not as bad. Still havent gotten to the gym yet either. yeah it sucks


Oh my good lordy- I just checked my phone- in one year I have acquired TWO HUNDRED AND TWENTY THREE "ignore" numbers. Unbelievable!

but that says alot about the volume of calls you are getting, meaning you've gotten alot. Do you ignore everyone who doesnt book when they say they do? I usually just let those fall off my phone rather than storing them.

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Re: A standard rant but venting needed!
« Reply #10 on: 04 May 2009, 02:48:18 pm »
I agree with Joanna, there are a lot of strange people out there.  Never engage in conversation if you are cross, just ignore them and they will give up and bother someone else. 

The last thing you want is to have them contact you via another means and meet them.

It is a pain though finding new names to call the TW's as it does fill up your phone.

Absolutely. I never engage any of the timewasters/twats I end up keeping in my phone. I don't even tell them that I've kept their number. I don't want them getting another cheap phone or sim card then finding other ways of contacting me with the view of meeting me.
Anytime they call back (and there have been quite a few that have) I just don't answer the phone. Besides, I don't want to expend any energy talking to someone I've got in the phone as t/w or twat when I know all they're going to do is waste my time. I've got nothing to say to them. Same as withheld numbers.

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Re: A standard rant but venting needed!
« Reply #11 on: 04 May 2009, 08:01:29 pm »
Besides, I don't want to expend any energy talking to someone I've got in the phone as t/w or twat when I know all they're going to do is waste my time.

Yeah I can see that, cause once I decide to tell someone off...it just doesnt stop and by the end of the 'telling' I just want to scream! I also find that on weeks like this, when Im already not getting enough bookings to cover my ass, Im in even less position to carry on with TW's. Its bad enough to not be getting anything, last thing I need is to speak with someone who's just going to add to the irritation. Yet on good weeks, when things just seem like they'll never end, Im a bit more leniant.

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Re: A standard rant but venting needed!
« Reply #12 on: 06 May 2009, 05:49:14 am »
Joanne my girl, I feel you! I was ready to kill a week ago. I took a break, popped over to Paris for some R&R, and am now once again the lovely Violette, instead of the Violent Rampaging Bitch From Hell in High Heels!
I mean some of these guys take texting to an art form. I also save numbers as well, and some days it is amazing how many of the idiots will call. I am convinced they either have different numbers or have a club.