I've been to Thailand twice & seen all this happen before my very eyes. There is only one reason men go to Thailand alone, to pick up underage or young looking girls who will literally "do anything" for a fiver.
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Not all sex tourists go to Thailand looking for underage girls or young-looking ones. That's a sweeping generalisation, just because it's Thailand. Some guys do go looking for a wife yes. It's a different culture out there where women are subservient to men and some guys like that. Some Thai women don't require tons of money, just a man to look after and have him look after her.

It's not always about underage sex, or the fantasy of it.

Being from Asia as well, I think that this isn't uncommon - if theyettie's situation is genuine. It's not uncommon for men to try and capitalise on their wives' professions after they find out she's not stopped work in the industry. Sometimes the girls get coerced into things like wifesharing and gangbangs, essentially the guys pimping their wives out to their friends for cash. Quite disgusting, but it does happen, so the OP may not be kidding.

In any case, theyettie, if you're still reading this you well knew from the beginning that she was in this industry and you absolutely cannot pretend otherwise. You do not own her simply because you gave her a better life, nor does she owe you her body to be pimped out simply because you gave her a "boob job" and paid for her child's education. It's sad that you need to be told this but you can't buy someone like property. You're a scumbag and a fool.